Just saying yes to sex has made him more affectionate!

Key-Progress-8873 · 2022-05-15T01:26:17+00:00

This is great and I am happy for you! He probably thinks the same - by getting physical with him more often, he now feels that you've also become more affectionate with him. It's always a two way street.

thepretendchristian · 2022-05-15T02:45:40+00:00

The secret to a happy marriage is lots of sex ;)

I notice my man’s overall mood is lighter when sex is in abundance. When he’s at work, chilling at home, etc. A lot of pent up stress is released when he’s been released. He’s much more cuddly and touchy with me during these times. I’ve noticed that I feel more connected to him also and my own stress levels dwindle down.

I always tell my friends: if your man is having a rough day, give him a spontaneous blow job.

magic_damage · 2022-05-15T04:10:10+00:00

The sex is the glue of the relationships.

emmalai85 · 2022-05-15T11:47:57+00:00

We have sex everyday too. 16+ years. Sex is really important to us too. Although he doesn't need it 2 to 3x a day as often as when we first met in his 30s(he's 50) but daily is still preferred for us both. (Although we still average 2x a day alot, and morning is a key time for him, too lol )

Sex is great.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2022-05-15T16:28:46+00:00

So, men are very sex-motivated, particularly in our youth - not sure that this is a secret - and thus we respond positively to positive stimuli.

Never underestimate the power of a random, no-strings-attached, blowjob, and then reap the benefits.

MOSFETBJT · 2022-05-15T03:00:57+00:00

You might have a reactive libido

Competitive-Gas3935 · 2022-05-15T04:56:02+00:00

I’m so jealous reading about this :( how I wish my man was in the mood more often.. I’m always in the mood and I’m just at his mercy to initiate ..

eyenaobrown · 2022-05-15T14:26:41+00:00

I went through this in the beginning of my relationship . I made a rule of never saying no and let’s just say my wedding is in October 🙌🏽💍 I understand we are not sex dolls or robots but we are asking men to be monogamous with us which means all his sexual energy is directed towards us if we can’t please or don’t feel like doing it we should allow them to release that energy with someone else . If you don’t want that you are going to have to fill the position full time. It helped us bond quickly in the relationship and I’ve never had to worry about him going elsewhere for it . I’m so happy for you love

OilyB · 2022-05-15T10:12:58+00:00

The simple machinations of human sexual/emotional biology. Right now I'm the best boyfriend ever because my gf also rarely says no. Somethings hard inside my formerly evil soul melt away further and further every year we're together. I've never been happier and neither has she.

marcelmarceau1972 · 2022-05-16T15:59:03+00:00

Great! One thing I've seen works for some couples with different libido is the 'all-day physical treatment'. I feel for us men it keeps us 'active' and focused and affectionate on our wives and helps with developing the intimacy. The 'all-day physical treatment' consists of looking for each other and holding hands, hug, being physically close to each other.

If you haven't done it, at the beginning it might feel forced, but the physical closeness 'activates us'. I was watching Disney's "The Hunchback of Notre Dame" and they show that when Esmeralda walks close to the villain, he gets all crazy about her (they depict the hair's aroma entering the guy's nose). It makes couples feel physically "connected" and the night talks can be longer and enjoyable without necessarily ending in sex. I've talked to guys, and we agree it keeps us 'hungry', it normally increases the sex in both sides, but even if you don't have sex it both still enjoy the days more.

Sex is such a lovely and extremely enjoyable way to 'glue' couples!

QueenWint · 2022-05-16T04:15:33+00:00

I'm way less affectionate than my husband. It is nice but generally, I don't care about it much and the same with nice words. So not much of a motivator haha.

sadiesworld · 2022-05-15T01:30:05+00:00

this is depressing. i personally would not sleep with someone just for them to be happy. if i don’t want to, then i don’t want to

Competitive-Fun-4696 · 2022-05-15T05:35:00+00:00

congrats!! your being objectified and used! he’s getting what he wants from you so he’s rewarding u. as someone with deep psychological issues i tend to do the same thing, if someone gives me what i want ill keep talking to them. give them a call out of nowhere and check up on them when in reality, idgaf about them i just like what they give me

Nodeal_reddit · 2022-05-15T13:47:51+00:00

In other news: Water is Wet

CryptographerTrue499 · 2022-06-02T13:10:38+00:00

I have been married for almost 10 years. I have never said no to sex and it is starting to get to me. Yes, he’s happy but giving him sex doesn’t mean he’s going to magically do the things you want to be happy. It’s honestly just another chore before I can unwind in the evening. I see the giving him sex whenever he wants it brought up a lot, but there doesn’t seem to be a reciprocal thing we’re telling men to do to keep their wives happy. I just wanted to chime in because I can attest that sex keeps men happy, but it doesn’t mean you’re going to also be satisfied with that arrangement.

Title	Just saying yes to sex has made him more affectionate!
Author	LoveWitchXo
Upvotes	219
Comments	42
Date	May 15, 2022 12:39 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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