Morning in Betaville

TheLaughingRhino · 2017-05-21T12:25:04+00:00

I recognize a lot of how women react to men is based on instinct, human behavior ingrained to survive and reproduce, to ensure the species and humanity moves forward. We might have technology now, but it still comes down to women wanting a guy who can provide and protect for her young and provide the genetic stock to ensure their best chance at survival.

But it's killing the modern relationship and it's killing the men in your lives.

Men internalize everything. Show weakness of any kind and you are never seen the same way again. Slip up once and have your "utility" come into question and see the world shift on you. The more information you give out as a man, the more emotion and weakness you show in public, esp to your woman, the more it will likely be held against you, be used against you, and you will be punished for it.

What it comes down to, is I recognize there are lots of non Captain material out there. Guys few women want to marry and and guys who just aren't offering up the best option for a woman looking for a quality mate. I get that. But of the few marriage quality men out there, many are opting out. The zero tolerance standard for showing weakness and the general lack of empathy just grinds down a lot of men. The few that do marry, it's killing them slowly but surely.

Say a woman is lucky enough and in the right place/right time, put in the effort to find a great guy to share a life with, wouldn't it be nice to have 5 more good years wit them? Seven more good years? Ten more years?

Well all that stress of internalizing the frustration, fear, rage, pain, shame, all the emotions locked deep inside, lest they get run over roughshod by society and most women for it, is killing those guys.

Being a woman cannot be easy. Periods, Childbirth, being objectified sexually all the time, hard to find other women friends, hard to find guy friends esp if you are attractive.

But I've come to terms that, for the most part, I'm not going to hear too much about how being a guy can't be easy. Empathy isn't part of the equation.

One of the core TRP tenets is that if a woman is not romantically/sexually attracted to you, then you are simply disposable. If you have no utility, you are disposable. It's patently dehumanizing. It's no better than a man leering at your chest and making a comment about what he'd like to do to you by ripping your clothes off.

Some thing I've learned in my life as I've gotten older is the "boomerang" effect. You often get the empathy in life that you give. You get the patience back that you give. You are heard as much as you truly listen to others. You receive kindness in the measure you dispense your own kindness to the entire world around you.

These men are lost, most are ignorant. But many would gladly die for their women and their children. And they are slowly dying from the weight of a zero tolerance culture around them. It's your right to laugh if you wish, but it really is no better than having a guy stare at your chest or backside. It's boiling down people into raw meat for the grinder.

A lack of empathy is the currency in which all your men are slowly dying. I recognize this is how the "game" is played in life. I just don't see how it helps anyone here reach their goals.

cynicalhousewife · 2017-05-20T22:22:37+00:00

I do think it's important for men to have their own masculine hobbies. Some men are just not very physical and that's ok. My husband's hobby is building and managing computers and he also likes cars and just machines in general. Hes physically kind of puny and I could never imagine him in a million years enjoying hunting or sports. There are men of the mind and men who are more rugged and physical and both have achieve things in terms of creating and maintaining our civilisation.

Underwhere__ · 2017-05-21T00:14:26+00:00

I would've been scooping up deals. Crossbows and weights. So sad that families get destroyed by not having a strong leader.

EndlessPontification · 2017-05-21T14:36:30+00:00

The men are out of shape and the women are all fit? =P Both men and women in America have a weight problem. The husbands might seem like pushovers but if their wives are following the default culture they are probably nagging the confidence straight out of their husbands, because it would work in the context of a female friendship, and they don't realize that a male brain is different; this is also why there are nice guys, most men want to date a woman who is perpetually nice to them, so they mistakenly think women want niceness in men over confidence and assertiveness.

CoffersWorthington · 2017-05-24T01:16:51+00:00

Superiority much?

Nyquil-Junkie · 2017-05-21T14:47:18+00:00

There was a pattern of items in every yard.... exercise equipment, skinny clothes, baby clothes and toys, also sports equipment.

Some of them were selling the fancy rims off the cars they probably don't have anymore. Tools they can't use because they live in the sterile environment of the HOA plan where you are not allowed to do any sort of driveway repair work.

but on trash day, their wives throw out some great stuff. trash day and spring clean up week is almost better than the garage sales.

But overall they all seem happy. Go figure.

Title	Morning in Betaville
Author	Willow-girl
Upvotes	25
Comments	41
Date	May 20, 2017 7:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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