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My bf went camping with another woman.

curvybunny229
August 7, 2021
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My (30) boyfriend(35) and his female friend who I have not met went camping this weekend and he told me ahead of time that nothing would be happening and they are not sharing a tent. He also has no service to text me or reach out to me. I told him I was uncomfortable and he still chose to go. Apparently they used to be neighbors and he had a crush on her a few years ago but that it had been squashed. Am I wrong in feeling like this is weird? We’ve been together for a year and a half. I’m very upset.

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Title My bf went camping with another woman.
Author curvybunny229
Upvotes 101
Comments 95
Date August 7, 2021 4:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]raspberryjam1 44 points45 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

Were you invited? It seems like this would have been the perfect time to have introduced the two of you seeing as how they're such close opposite sex solo camping buddies.

[–]curvybunny229[S] 26 points27 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

I was invited but I when I told him I would be bringing my child he told me that wouldn’t work because they would be drinking all weekend and that would be inappropriate around them (which upset me very much) Edit- and by “inappropriate around them” I mean my child. Which I agree with, but am obviously disappointed.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

I understand where you're coming from but I do have some more questions. How long has this trip been planned and how far in advance were you invited?

[–]curvybunny229[S] 10 points11 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

A couple weeks, I was invited a couple days ago

[–]raspberryjam1 34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A couple weeks, I was invited a couple days ago

If I wanted my husband to be able to go camping with me, my cousin, and a friend, I would plan dates with him or give as much notice as I could, not invite him last minute. Especially if there was a child involved I knew he'd need to organize for.

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when I told him I would be bringing my child he told me that wouldn’t work because they would be drinking all weekend and that would be inappropriate around them

Children can be around some alcohol. Drinking so heavily it would be inappropriate for a child = inappropriate for him and a woman he had has a crush on.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

What was your initial reaction when he said they were going to do this? Did he tell you right away? Did a couple days notice give you a reasonable amount of time to find a sitter and did he know whether it would?

[–]curvybunny229[S] 12 points13 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

He kept telling me that his male cousin was going with, which made me feel better. Then last minute he told me his cousin cancelled and that while he didn’t want to go alone with her he felt like it would be too much to cancel and potentially hurt her feelings. Definitely knew it was not enough time

[–]Notsolucky94 45 points46 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

So he prioritized hurting YOUR feelings instead of “potentionally hurting her female friend feelings”. Her > you. I know it’s hard but you have to leave him. If you stay, he will continue to take you for granted. If you leave, maybe he will wake up and win you back. Not if you stay tho. Believe me, I would know. Are you strong enough to respect yourself? I don’t judge tho. Its fxcking hard. I stayed and I regret it to this day.

[–]chief-w 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would not bet on him trying to win you back.

From his perspective, that's never a good idea. And only insecure guys who are convinced their ex is the only one who might take them would do that. I heard one redditer compare going back to an ex like drinking day old barf.

But you are right about the feelings priority. She should confront him about that and get his side of that logic. And if it's something he would probably do again, to know she will be second fiddle to his other friends going forward.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Has he been trustworthy up to this point and/or do you know his cousin and could confirm that discretely? Like, "I'm so bummed that we couldn't go camping this weekend!" on Facebook or something. That said, cousin might cover, but you'd know better than any of us.

[–]curvybunny229[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I can’t bring his cousin into it, that’d be too much.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough. You know your boyfriend better than we could. Do you think his claim was legitimate or are you on the fence?

[–]fadecatch 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

R u looking for father material at this point in ur life or r u looking for a good partner?

[–]curvybunny229[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

A good partner, my son has a great dad :)

[–]fadecatch 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Then why r u with this guy for a year and a half,the one u r talking about in the comment? What wrong with the great dad?

[–]curvybunny229[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

He was a bad husband

[–]fadecatch 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Can't say why he was a bad husband?

[–]lolahhbunny1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s not relevant to the post. I don’t like discussing it and I don’t need to.

[–]fadecatch -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Did he gaslight u or restrict u in anyway? I want to learn about people as much as possible so details r appreciated thanks.

[–]DelicateDevelopment3 Star 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think you should consider this when you evaluate how you are feeling about the entire situation.

If it happenes as you state then he might also have expected a completely different weekend and maybe it even feels weird to him to be alone with the friend for the entire trip.

Apart from that, maybe it really was once in a life-time badly planned event. It does not seem like he intentionally planned to spend the time with her alone...

[–]ddouchecanoe 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Unless the male cousin was never going in the first place

[–]1-800-GANKS 29 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If he had a sexual attraction to her as neighbors, what makes you think he won't have a sexual attraction to her in a secluded forest sharing a tent alongside alcohol of all things?

He ignored your comfort. He ignored basic reasoning. You are upset, but why does it seem like that isn't important to him?

Source: I'm a male, and this story is fucked up. You have every reason to contact his cousin and inquire, though it is likely that he will defend his story.

Simply ask him how his weekend went.

[–]ddouchecanoe 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Your username is cracking me up

[–]1-800-GANKS 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks. I actually get that kind of often in games lmao.

[–]ProFriendZoner 26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You may be his girlfriend, but to him you're just a plate.

[–]MourningFemur 22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Context request: Is it just him and her going camping together? If it is, I can guarantee you that the crush was “squashed” because she did not feel the same way as him and she wanted to just be friends. He accepted that just in case she changed her mind in the future and is currently waiting on the side lines for a change of heart on her part. He still has a crush but can’t do anything about it but hope to get her. This camping trip is another chance for him to try to get close to her/see if he can change her mind. Sorry to say this OP but he would prefer her and is keeping there as a fall back option. He is lying to you about nothing happening. If given the chance, he would take advantage. No man who respects his girlfriend would go on a camping trip with another woman (especially alone and after you said you’re uncomfortable/upset). Big red flag…

[–]jzdelona 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep, and he told OP it wouldn't work for her and her kid to come along because they were planning on getting drunk in the woods together lol. This whole situation screams NOPE!

[–]MourningFemur 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely agree! Also, I think the cousin story is a sham as well. Most likely made it up and pulled the whole “canceled” story last minute and started talking about her feelings over OP’s. As someone said, if the child shouldn’t be there because of the intoxication, OP’s bf should not be there either without OP while sex target is there as well.

And apparently this trip has been planned for weeks… but OP was only invited just days before? She should have been invited when bf, bf’s cousin, and sex target was invited/planning trip…not just days before. Total and complete disrespect to OP.

OP, I feel you are justified to feel uncomfortable, hurt and whatever other feelings that have crept up due to this situation. I think cutting your losses would be best here (1.5 years of your life), break up with him, no matter what he says today and in the future if he apologizes/ begs for forgiveness. If he don’t respect you now, he never will. Focus on yourself, your growth and goals and all the other things you want to achieve in life. The right man will come along when you are ready… but it definitely is not that guy.

[–]Diamond-Breath 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Girl are you serious? He’s cheating on you. Dump.

[–]Inside_Ad_7292 75 points76 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are not wrong, this is weird. I’d say this warrants a serious talk to try and understand where his head is at. You made it clear that you were uncomfortable and he chose to go anyway… I really have to wonder what his priorities are. Not to say he couldn’t have a good explanation, because I don’t know him, but I’d say talk to him (calmly) and come at it trying to understand why he made that choice and make sure he understands why you’re uncomfortable. Maybe he didn’t get the full scope of how you’re feeling when you discussed it last time. Give him a chance to make it right.

[–]an0n1ooo 46 points47 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

You expressed that this made you uncomfortable, yet he chose to go anyway. This is disrespectful to you and your feelings.

His actions demonstrate that he prioritizes his relationship with this woman more than his relationship with you.

If I were in your shoes, then I would end the relationship. However, you’re posting for advice, which tells me you still believe he’s worth staying with.

For this reason, I suggest you have a serious, sit-down, conversation. Make it clear that he betrayed your trust and disrespected your boundaries. Let him know that he hurt you.

Then, ask him if he can think of a solution. It is his responsibility to repair the damage he inflicted on you. You’ll know how he feels by how he responds.

[–]Alternative-Tough101 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This. It’s less about the action itself than about his ability to respect you and your comfort

[–]Objective-Climate938 56 points57 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Why are you uncomfortable? Is it because you don't trust him or is this a boundary for you? This would be a boundary for me. It doesn't matter if they had sex or not, this is already crossing the line for relationships I am in. It's about engaging in behavior that has the appearance of cheating.

There is this idea that as long as sex didn't occur it didn't cross the line. You may need to figure out where your line is and reassert it.

[–]curvybunny229[S] 54 points55 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

Im uncomfortable with the person he’s going with, he had a previous attraction and it makes me uncomfortable. Also when I offered to come with them I asked to bring my 4yo and he said, “No, we’re going to be drinking heavily and I don’t think he should be around that” which made me very uncomfortable.

[–]1-800-GANKS 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love my partner and I trust her more than anything, but this is a bridge too far.
In what context would they need to go camping together 1 on 1?
I wouldn't even dare suggesting this to my girl, because merely suggesting it is an insult.

Not to mention drinking and denying that you come along is severe injustice not only to your preferences, but to compromise itself.

[–]ddouchecanoe 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“No, we’re going to be drinking heavily and I don’t think he should be around that” which made me very uncomfortable.

Any other details along these lines?

[–]newtoroo 22 points23 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

DRINKING HEAVILY GIRL. GET OUT. Edit: I’m sorry for hijacking the thread yall but she has to know

[–]Cenniii 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah if it was only the 2 of them I can second that: Get out, it's obvious.

[–]hahcha 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

maybe just me but drinking heavily means no sex due to whiskey dick lol

[–]1-800-GANKS 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean, other stuff can happen lmao.

Pretty sure you can overcome whisky dick with viagra even though it's a highly unsafe interaction anyways.

[–]ddouchecanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

My partner has no problem keeping it up drunk, even when he would get plastered in college. Adderall gave him whiskey dick though.

[–]jzdelona 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There are more ways to be sexual than PIV penetration. Apparently getting drunk with his crush is more important than accommodating his drinking plans to include OP and her kid. If he wanted her to come he could simply just drink responsibly like an adult, but that would ruin his plans to get the other woman wasted drunk and vulnerable with him.

[–]newtoroo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It still is alarming… what do we mean by “drinking heavily”. We can be around kids and drink, that’s no big deal. But the way he said it implies that there is something more gravely sinful going on…

[–]Theyogithatcould74 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

So he drank heavily on a camping trip with a girl he used to have a crush on but they didn't have sex..okay girl. You'll be a loser if you stay with this loser who obviously cheated on you. Open your eyes. You told him you weren't comfortable and he WENT ANYWAY. Her > you. Dont you see that?

[–]LightOverWater 40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus, it's worse than I thought

[–]BrainOil 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This right here. It's a nope from any angle you look at it. Done.

[–]_player_0 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're entirely right to feel upset. He's wrong on several fronts and he knows that. You were disrespected in various ways, primarily because he feels he could walk right back into your life with no repercussions. (Otherwise he wouldn't have done this).

I'm sorry for the length of time you've spent on this relationship. If you're considering working through this hellacious incident, please be wary not to fall victim to the sunk cost fallacy.

[–]CptKillsteal 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If I ever wanted to cheat, this is one of the best ways.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Break up with him.

[–]Accomplished_Spell25 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dump him immediately, that is selfish inconsiderate behaviour and unfair. There’s no reason for him to be off camping without you present with a woman he used to FANCY.

[–]MBZdaddy 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You have every right to be uncomfortable. It shows lack of respect for the relationship and lack of commitment. Spending alone time with friends from the opposite sex is a deal breaker in my book. I am man by the way.

[–]LilCinnamonRoll_ 24 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

How long have they been together ?

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[–]condemnthetradfem 20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Sounds harsh but dump him.

A year and a half in, you’re both in your thirties, and he’s pulling this shit?? Sweetie - a year and a half into my relationship (when I was 29 and he was 30) I was engaged and months away from being married.

The fact that he did something that made you uncomfortable (with good reason!!), you let him know prior, and he STILL did it, means that he’s not looking out for you or your needs. Cut your losses - I’m so sorry.

[–]curvybunny229[S] 19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for your response. I’ve been feeling the same. I think it’s time to cut him loose

[–]condemnthetradfem 12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think it is too. I’m so sorry. I hope you have some friends to take you out or have a quiet night in for some support. His behavior is unacceptable - I’m so sorry he did this to you.

[–]curvybunny229[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, I have lots of support from family and friends. I’ll be leaning on them a lot.

[–]Latter_Ad_6840 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is very weird. Especially because he had a crush on her. My life has been infinitely better when I stopped dating men who did this, kept 'tabs' and a line of conversation open with women they crushed on.

I had this ex who got rejected by this girl but she would still keep him as her emotional tampon who she spoke to daily and said good morning to, and he was stupid enough to entertain it. It made him look like an idiot too.

Yeah like some women just like the attention even if they don't like the guy, sometimes especially when there is another woman in the picture. At the very least she knows he is attracted to her (if he liked her and never slept with her there is no way the attraction faded) and is enjoying it. Women can tell. It's just disrespectful to you in my opinion.

[–]saffronvhan 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It it smells fishy, tastes fishy, its probably fishy. Personally after being cheated on by my hisband with a girl he used to like and would occassionally text, I would say fuck that especially if you were invited and then uninvited because you wanted to bring your child. I can guarantee that just because he used to like her and it was squashed (probanly by the girl, friendzoned lol) he still would take any chance he could get to fuck her. Theyre alone and drinking all weekend? Girl. Fishy fishy fishy.

[–]PixelEmperor 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Its not about if theres anything going on or not.

He is making you uncomfortable and prioritizing himself over you.

From my experience make it clear that if he's not commited to making you his #1 then you will find someone who will.

[–]WhisperTRP Founder 27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It certainly does seem odd. But we need to focus on what you can do, because "this is not okay" isn't helpful advice.

What you need to do is get an understanding of what he was thinking... of why he didn't expect you to object to this. Only then can you decide what to do.

You have some fairly serious questions to ask.

[–]EviessVeralan 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're definitely not wrong to feel that way. This was disrespectful to you and your relationship.

[–]ChiBron86 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Guy's perspective here.

I don't think men and women can be friends in the sense where they're hanging out 1-on-1. Part of a group? Sure, it's normal. But 1-on-1? A guy wouldn't even hang out with a girl 1-on-1 if he didn't see her as a potential lay. And even if there is no attraction, being alone is practically begging for certain urges/feelings to come out on either party. Men in particular have low standards for sex. If it's "easy", they are going to indulge.

I have female friends I feel no attraction to. But guess what, I never hang out alone with them. Because, like you said, it would be WEIRD.

No taken person should be hanging out alone with someone of the opposite gender.

[–]purple_pansy88 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why were you not invited at least? Odd.

[–]eatavacado 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Update?

[–]curvybunny229[S] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes! Ok so he told me they ended up not drinking, he showed me pics of the campsite showing two tents, but I told him that the disrespect was just too much and I felt devalued in our relationship and that I wanted to take a break if not break up entirely. He was distraught and begged for a break so right now we are on a break and will talk in a couple weeks (though I doubt I will ever take him back after this stunt)

[–]not_the_notebook 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The fact that he valued drinking over you being able to come and be comfortable says it all. I’m sure he’s distraught as he probably never expected to be held accountable or for you to be firm in your boundaries. I’m so proud of you and hope you find someone who treats you (and your son) properly.

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[–]TheBunk_TB 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

(1) Have you been serious for a year and a half?

(2) Is he an "edger" who gets more out of being near the proverbial ledge or danger?

Plenty of people don't want to cheat but seem to get a lot of being near the chance.

BTW, it is a bs thing to say that they won't be sharing a tent. You dont need a tent to cheat.

You arent wrong for feeling off but I dont think that this is a good sign. Either he is completely blind to how you feel or he doesn't care. Hence, my question about you two being serious for a year and a half. It doesn't seem like he is reading your relationship the right way or you have over valued your position to him.

[–]AttorneyGeneralXXX 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why weren’t you invited? Was there any explanation? Work thing? You two had a scheduling conflict? More information would help.

[–]MyMeanBunny 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just imagine if you went on a solo camping trip with another man who used to have a crush on you but you're "just friends". Your boyfriend would drop you without a thought because it's downright disrespectful. You deserve better. You don't even owe this person an explanation, just drop him. He knows what he did.

[–]tulipiscute 6 points7 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

What did he do to try to make you less uncomfortable? Anything?

[–]curvybunny229[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He said he was miserable in going but had pushed back the trip several times to try and make me feel more comfortable… so yeah I guess nothing

[–]curvybunny229[S] 9 points10 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

He did tell me that there was nothing going on and nothing would happen. That’s the extent of him trying to comfort me.

[–]dorpyt 12 points13 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

God, I’m so sorry. Something similar happened to me. Except I didn’t know beforehand. And once I found out, I was told that the woman was a lesbian, so why would he try to do anything with her. Then STI. Can’t come back from that. I hope you know that you’re worth leaving him.

[–]curvybunny229[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ugh, I’m so disappointed in him. I really thought he was trustworthy. And even if he doesn’t cheat, I’m clearly not a priority

[–]LightOverWater 6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Guy lied about her being a lesbian, cheated on you, then gave you an STI?

[–]dorpyt 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Correct

[–]Accomplished_Spell25 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

What a piece of crap 💩

[–]dorpyt 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Dude, yes. Funny that he accused me of cheating constantly. It was 3 years ago, so Luckily, I was able to get some therapy and escape. The gas lighting was pretty intense though.

[–]Accomplished_Spell25 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s good that you got therapy, I think therapy is the best solution after dealing with someone that twisted. They constantly make you think it’s all in your head; I’m glad you got out alive and well, us women need to make notes of all the red flags before we get really hurt. If he wants to have fun with another woman with no regard for you or your baby, he’s making it clear he doesn’t want you or care about the relationship.

[–]dorpyt 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Everything you’re saying about him is spot on. He’s a sad soul who gives no fucks about his own sexual, mental, and emotional health. But he’ll be the first to tell you you’re fat and ugly if you dump him. (I’m Not fat or ugly). Also, anytime I’ve tried to move on, whether it was going on bumble or starting a new class, he would find me and send me screenshots of my profile calling me every name in the book/threatening to take our child. I have a feeling he gets off on beating women. And I’ve always been very physical with sports and self defense. He used to call me J.Lo from the movie, “Enough” when we’d fight. Hoping to make me lose my cool by taunting me, telling me to push /punch him. Sad thing is, he’s just one in a sea of twisted psychos I’ve met throughout my life, and I happened to be privileged enough to finance a private education and multiple degrees, with the ability to talk about all the freaks and it’s led me to the conclusion that no one is safe.

[–]Accomplished_Spell25 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you continue to meet men online, If that’s where you found the critter, you will be sorely disappointed and you will meet men who are narcissistic and unstable. They go online because they are cowards in the first place. Or they are too busy to have a real relationship, they are unfit to date. I would avoid online dating, if you can, your chances of meeting someone nice are very very slim, and as you said your ex was even on there messaging you, but also looking for his next victim!!!!

He should be locked up, he sounds so evil and twisted; I meet one of the most evil men online, I was so shocked by how evil this man was, I decided to never swipe ever again. And I saw this man go on to torture his future gf. I was never his gf but I just detected early he was evil, the guy drove her insane and she’s still damaged from him. This man was talking to other women the whole time with her. I would say she needs therapy to get over it, but she can’t afford it!

They don’t respect women, and for your ex to be fighting with you proves how twisted he was; what real man hits a woman!!!! Honesty just an asshole coward!!😡🤬

[–]Pleasant_Ad_3590 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I understand being upset and confused but you would not feel this way if you understood men and women can not be friends, just hang out, enjoy each other company. If you do not understand this and you will have millions of years of evolution (your gut) telling you that they are having sex, there is a chance you might lose him to this girl etc, and you will choose to ignore it or trust him.

YOU ARE NOT WRONG. You are not wrong for feelings like this is weird. Your belief system is wrong and your lack of knowledge on Humans needs updating.

https://www.amazon.com/Sapiens-Humankind-Yuval-Noah-Harari/dp/0062316095

[–]1-800-GANKS 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate to agree with this, but yeah.

[–]Small-Button-2308 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am sorry to hear that

[–]Micah_JM_JP 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Whoa buddy

[–]visionquest3311 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No woman should come before you, period. Except maybe his mother just a little😁

You and your child should be the priority. He already admitted he used to have a crush on her that usually doesn't go away. It's not like she's one of many coming. This isnt a group camping trip. It's him and her getting drunk. Why does he need to do this?

Also it shouldn't be about "them" it should be about "us" as in you and him.

Bottomline: If you have known him for a year and you have never met this platonic friend that is not a good sign.

[–]ledatherockband 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They fucked.

[–]Jenna_Rink30 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yassss queen on your response to the whole scenario.

[–]pubgmisc 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_wQSgkQOpY4&ab\_channel=FreshandFit

[–]1ighter2k 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you ever have to worry about something like this then it's better to stay single.

[–]Few-Fortune-2391 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"He had no cell service"

Unless he's camping on the moon this is bs.

[–]firstaidgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honey, that is not your boyfriend. Chin up and walk away, this is a mess you do not wanna continue with. He's already pushing your boundaries. If you allow this to go further, he will do it again. And I can guarantee you he tried something with that girl. I'm sorry.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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