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My partner always wants me to look good for him and I love it

January 11, 2023

I'm so happy I finally have a place where I can share this. If I mentioned 1. How important my looks are to my man and 2. How much I love "pretty-ing up" for him elsewhere, I wouldn't see the end of it.

But yeah he loves when I wear cute dresses and perfume and "doll up" for him and he wants me to maintain my weight. He believes that me making myself desirable to him is proof of my love/respect for him. I have to agree. I like awakening his desire, in general.

Felt the need to share. XD

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Title My partner always wants me to look good for him and I love it
Author kirbypuff_
Upvotes 98
Comments 17
Date January 11, 2023 3:59 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
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[–]canadian12371 73 points74 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Women making men happy is illegal on Reddit.

In other words, good for you! Glad you are in a good relationship where you both are happy.

[–]TheBunk_TB 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Props on you

You would be surprised how many people get offended by this

[–]beingfunnyinaforeign 26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

my first ex (who was abusive) constantly exaggerated how beautiful I was without makeup and would shame me whenever I put makeup on. I once showed up at his house all dolled up and he immediately insulted my appearance and I just started crying, because your man is supposed to compliment you when you get dolled up for him.

on the contrary, me and my most recent ex were just like you and your partner now. it was a beautiful dynamic that brought both of us joy—I absolutely loved dressing up for him and seeing his reactions. (I wanted to stay with him but had to leave as he was irresponsible and made no effort to improve)

[–]BeholdTheHair 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

my first ex (who was abusive) constantly exaggerated how beautiful I was without makeup and would shame me whenever I put makeup on.

Not commenting on your ex at all but some, I daresay a lot of men genuinely do prefer women wearing little to no makeup. The idea of the "natural beauty" is a thing for a reason.

If you automatically assume a man who tells you you look better without it is lying or exaggerating that speaks more to your own insecurities than any problem on his end.

[–]beingfunnyinaforeign 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

don't know what you're trying to imply but single men aren't welcome in this sub.

[–]BeholdTheHair -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't consciously trying to imply anything. In hindsight, however, I was making an unmerited leap in logic. I don't think what I wrote was wrong but it didn't really follow from the point you were making.

Mea culpa.

[–]Such_Beginning_1629 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I choose my clothes. But I do take into consideration the fact my SO loves cashmere. Soft to the touch, expensive looking and so so so warm. I love it.

[–]josephius132 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Congratulations for finding a dynamic that works :) But don’t you get tired of being pretty all the time? Do you do any extra work on yourself say, immediately after you wake up?

How old are you and how long have you been together? Do you stay at home?

Honestly, I’d love to dress up a little better or do my make up, but there is just not time or energy to do so hahah.

Somehow my husband still thinks I am the most beautiful woman in the planet even if I am in my pijamas all day so it’s ok I think😅

[–]kirbypuff_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly? I like looking pretty, anyway. Lol. Even when I was single I tried to look cute. With him I just added things he likes to my wardrobe (which I grew to like as well).

It’s never tiring for me because it’s also who I am. 🤷

I’m 27! We’ve been together for 2.5 years now. We both work (for now)

[–]zzzcrumbsclub1 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

What a strange post. Happy for you. Might as well post a photo next time, hope I don't get banned.

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Removed, no requests for dox.

Also, if you are a man and you are here, you should not be.

[–]NupeRanger1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

She wants to look good for her HUSBAND! Not random people on the internet.

And good for her (and him), having found a way to express their love and desire for one another. 🥰

[–]lillypad_empress 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I didn't see the original comment but I could imagine 😬 I got a chuckle out of this

[–]612King1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Do you dress up for him in the house? Or only going out with him in public?

I’ve requested precious partners to dress up for me in the past and it was like I called them every dirty name in the book. So I’ve stopped asking women to dress up for me, lol.

[–]kirbypuff_[S] 16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I make sure to look cute at home. Luckily "cute" to him is short sleep shorts and a camisole lol

Yeah it's DEFINITELY looked down upon and while I kinda get why it is, I still love it. Men like having a cute wife!

[–]ThrowRAwoolymammoth 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this

[–]brittany_marie01 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This definitely gives me motivation to look nicely for my husband. I work full time and on my days off/when I get from work it’s tempting to throw on sweats or pajamas. I really want to change that mindset.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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