Pearl's 2 cents on YouTube creators

gotgame740 · 2022-10-09T19:39:04+00:00

RP youtube overall is terrible. I admit I got sucked into it for a while as "entertainment", but eventually I realized it's just red meat designed to get attention and clicks.

The "real" RP is on all the blogs, and old posts here and on TRP. Everything has been watered down, I agree.

Also, I'm a guy, but I'm not sure they talk about this on TRP

breemakin · 2022-10-09T21:52:46+00:00

Girly is just making her money of sad, low value men who want to screech from the rooftops “see even a woman sees how unfair it is”.

It’s very performative but good on her for making a buck lol.

chickennogget · 2022-10-11T03:35:09+00:00

I had a look at some of her content after yesterdays post from someone being disheartened by her. I fail to see how she’s red pill, I’d say she more falls under the frame of honey badger if anything but even then she isn’t saying anything to support men, her videos are predominantly damning women.

There is nothing feminine about her, certainly not in appearance - physically and aesthetically the word that comes to mind when looking at her is sloppy. She can’t help her genetics but she could work on her clothing, styling and mannerisms which are extremely masculine.

I’d say her entire persona is masculine. I watched a video on which she was a panel member, the video itself was actually quite good and the man and other women contributing to it were interesting and held good discussion. Pearl had very little to contribute apart from frequently mentioning that she came from a family that was in the 1% of financial earnings, that she was in the 1% of female athletes and could go pro (except that she didn’t think female athletes deserved to be paid highly) and other rather bizarre attempts to position herself as a superior person in the most masculine way possible.

She confuses “not like other girls” energy with femininity which I suspect comes from a place of fear. She did mention that she would see being single and childless at 40 as a failure and condemned women for their poor choices that led them there. Yet she herself is single! She also mentioned that she barely knew her father growing up, from a few other things she said it appears that she’s trying to win mens approval now by acting like one.

Sadly for her, I can see her ending up exactly as she fears - aged, single and childless as there is nothing famine or appealing about her. I certainly wouldn’t let someone like that make me feel bad about myself!

KombuchaEnema · 2022-10-09T13:57:46+00:00

I’m really disheartened by the number of female YouTubers cropping up whose entire shtick is “I’m anti-feminist and I am going to validate all RP men’s complaints about women.” As you said, it’s ragebait.

They will play a video of some obviously-shallow influencer saying she wants a man who makes 400k/year and then offer like 30 seconds of bland commentary along the lines of: “That’s insane! Most men will never make 400k/year! How can you expect that?”

But they will never turn around and say to men: “Hey, maybe you should stop pursuing gold diggers and Instagram influencers. Learn how to vet women. If you keep finding yourself dating shallow women, evaluate yourself and find out why you choose these women.”

They’re the female version of male feminists who white-knight for women.

_Pumpkin_Muffin · 2022-10-09T18:48:37+00:00

She benefits from telling her audience what they want to hear, and to attract views with shocking content. We can't expect anything different.

warm20 · 2022-10-10T08:05:54+00:00

I don't agree with her when she mentions men only want young women, It's true that most men may seek younger women however, a mature man wants to build a legacy, take care of family and his wife in general, if he can find that in an older women, he knows the wisdom to go for her over a younger one.

If he isn't able to bring kids, then you'll see various of choices, some go for deeper meaning in long term relationships, while others abort relationships (your mile age may vary).

However in maturity here it's expected of them not to play around as they see it as childish.

I don't agree with her when she says it's alright for men to cheat because their different, I believe deep integrity and dignity in a man if he's truly of high value, he would never do that as he'd stay loyal and finds his relationship meaningful with his woman and family where he would never do such a thing.

He doesn't need to play games. After all self control/self awareness/self reflection is something a high value man excels at and is far away from being impulsive/compulsive as he is stable in thought mostly. That's how he manages to get his results in real life from being a good provider to being good for the family in general.

ayllie_01 · 2022-10-09T23:29:36+00:00

I’ll confess that I have done some research on this specific person. Her points are all outdated and less about lifestyle changes or adopting a more conservative approach to life, but more of a ‘modern women have hundreds of body counts by the time she is 30’. In her videos she refers to overweight women as ‘whales’ and her way of name calling women is mostly for the shock factor. She wears dresses that look like they are straight from Margaret Thatchers wardrobe and strives of men admiring her in the comment section. All of the videos I have watched of hers are insults and clearly point out the obvious.

Another thing, that I’m ashamed to admit, is that I do not trust certain content creators when it comes to how they present themselves. When I was younger and watched hundreds of make up artists (among them nikkituturials) I had met her in person during a meet and greet. This was before the video of her ‘coming out’ was released and she confessed. I hate to say this, but the same gut feeling when I met Nikki for the first time in my life I have with this Pearlythings person. Who knows though. This would explain the hatred towards women.

stripe_throwaway · 2022-10-09T13:50:49+00:00

!|Well dang it! I thought I'd doxxed you!|!

Jokes aside, thanks for confirming my suspicions!

Forsaken-Savings4370 · 2022-10-13T14:42:29+00:00

I will say Pearls friend RealFemSapien actually encourages how to better yourself and for solid relationships

Zealousideal-Key5902 · 2022-10-20T01:12:54+00:00

she has no source for her statistics and even when disproven by professionals on tiktok people blindly believe her like sheep. its dangerous. most of her facts are false and can't be proven. who is she trying to benefit here but herself? she doesn't care for SAHMs because she shames single mothers. she airs the dirty laundry of her own mother for petes sake! she seems very anti-woman in general but also hasn't done anything proactive so support men, just tell them what they want to here and get them angry so they continue to support her and pay her rent (indirectly but who knows maybe she got a sugar daddy that would be ironic lol). pearl keeps dividing people and no one profits but herself. a dishonest person with poor credibility.

anothergoodbook · 2022-10-09T15:48:22+00:00

My husband will watch sometimes which drives me crazy. He at least disagrees with most of it. He said one time she said something along the lines of influencers being entertainers. He even cautions me to remember that whenever I watch anyone - to take it with a grain of salt because they are entertainers trying to gain a following at the end of the day.

servitor_dali · 2022-10-09T22:27:02+00:00

Shes mega cringe

Veganflamingo77 · 2022-10-09T15:13:25+00:00

Hmm Pearl isn’t what one would call a pretty package lmao.The way she white knights for guys is difficult to witness

CountTheBees · 2022-10-10T09:36:43+00:00

I watched a podcast with her on in which she said she was single. That explains a lot because I had pretty similar opinions to her when I was single (eg the state of mind I was in when I wrote my first post - Why You Should Read TRP). Some of it is cringe to me now, but that post served its purpose - kickstarted a lot of conversation and engagement. I haven't watched any of her solo content but from how people describe her in this thread I can see lot of my own experience in that, and like all phases, it passes. It's not called an anger phase for no reason. I think she also said she was 21? Yeah I would cut her a LOT of slack. Who knows maybe having a younger anger-phasey rep out there is a good thing??

There's not really a place to "catch" females out there in the anger phase. TRP is for the men. RPW is for women who, hopefully, never have to go through it. I did and I said much the same things people are complaining about in this thread.

I had a look at one of her videos just now - "The Whales Have Returned | They Harassed My Family" and in the comments -- "I heard your honest podcasts and have lost 16 out of my goal 40 lbs, thanks Pearl you're like a big sis".

Going through the rest of the comment section, her fanbase is about 30%-50% female. So I think it is neither fair nor correct to say she is a pickme or pandering solely to men or that she doesn't help anyone. Like sure that user could be fake, but there's another one further down: "your whale talks have actually helped me. Married mama of 5, 50 lbs overweight. I'm down 5 pounds so far doing keto. Thanks for the motivation!"

I really like that she's a dedicated athlete and I really like that she doesn't wear makeup. I'll take your word for it that she doesn't know much theory but maybe that's not the end of the world?

DOlsen13 · 2022-10-10T00:42:09+00:00

I think it's mainly clips of her that appear in shorts that are more geared toward outrage, but if you actually watch her content it goes a bit deeper. She and RealFemSapien have some great content beyond just what makes it into the 5 second shorts.

TheBunk_TB · 2022-10-09T16:15:51+00:00

(...making content to benefit yourself and not reach across to anyone outside of "the herd".)

It is for clicks and made as you said from "a prettier package". She has no benefit from telling people to work together. I have mentioned "the herd" before. It might sound like a jab, but I see it often.

Waxflower8 · 2022-10-10T10:44:47+00:00

Amen. I know exactly who you’re talking about. I like that she brings regular women instead of OF girls and Instagram models like Fresh and Fit does (then sleeps with the exact women they judge afterwards but anyway). She has a much wider perspective of women actually being a woman herself but she’s still feeding into the overly obsessive nature that runs the community amongst men especially young men/boys.

Waxflower8 · 2022-10-10T10:51:22+00:00

What’s the name of your channel? Didn’t see your link in your bio.

somersaultinsand · 2022-10-15T02:06:39+00:00

I don't throw this out flippantly, but I believe Pearl is a "I'm like other girls..."

She rather be the object of hate porn than actually prove that she understands any of the things she speaks about.

Cultural-Research518 · 2023-05-10T00:43:27+00:00

Very well articulated

Title	Pearl's 2 cents on YouTube creators
Author	pearlsandstilettos
Upvotes	105
Comments	71
Date	October 9, 2022 1:46 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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