Feminism claims man has built society, to design, rule, and use as a tool for oppression. They vastly underestimate the historical influence of women on shaping society and culture, for millennia – not within the workplace, but from home.

Arguably one of the only reasons man evolved from animal is that females developed selectivity in mating (discussed in length by JBP). We began to demand more of men, who grew upright, learned to work, make sacrifices, and built kingdoms and empires, for what? Power, yes, but ultimately, the highest quality women and offspring. Sexual demand for competent men transformed the world. 8,000 years ago, only one man was reproductively successful for every seventeen women, and in modern times, the global average is around one man to five women (source). Even online, a study on tinder reported that the top 20% of men are competing for the top 80% of women, and there are reports that women rate only the top 10% of men as “above average." Translation: we have high standards.

But what are those standards and how have they changed over time? Are they high enough? What are the consequences to culture?

Women have a monopoly on deciding which men get to pass their genes on. Men change rapidly to meet the demands of women, not for children specifically, especially when they’re younger, but certainly for the chance to get laid. As much as the MGTOW might want you to believe, men are still hardwired to desire reproduction, and if they aren’t successful, they’ve technically failed their evolutionary purpose.

It seems strange, then, that “good men” out there seem few and far between. But women have loosened their legs and their standards, and men can increasingly get away with a lot of shit and still get the girl – be a lousy boyfriend, never commit, have no career or ambition, or even lie in bars and online profiles. Women in the dating market often lament the quality of “men these days” while still rewarding those same men with sex. With an abundance of sexual opportunities and easy lays, there’s little motivation for men to get their act together unless they aim to land a truly top tier woman. Being single should not be preferable to being married, but for many men these days, it is. Married men as recently as the 1950s were the only ones getting in between any women’s legs, without resorting to prostitution and the lowest quality women. The risk was too high for women, who had a damn good reason to say no and mean it.

Many of you red pill women have done it – found a rare breed of confident, strong, good men. So have I. But to the women still out there searching for Mr. Right, especially if you’re sleeping with men, or dating men, or moving in with men who didn’t deserve it: stop. Continue to work on yourself, and become the best woman you can possibly be. Encourage other women to do the same. Then, raise your standards. If you sleep with men, even if you’re on birth control, you’re communicating to them that they deserve you. That he’s good the way he his. In all likeliness, he’s not. He’s not who he could be. And since sex is a man’s primary drive, if they are getting plenty of it without offering commitment, security, stability, strength, or ambition, he’ll never change. And the consequences to society and culture have been and will continue to be devastating.

This might sound extreme, but unless you can say you’re happy with the direction society is moving today, you bear the responsibility to help steer the course. We owe it to our future children to give them a good father, and we owe it to the future of our society to only let the good men pass on their genes as well as their virtues such as honesty and work ethic to the next generation.

Just something to think about. Happy Sunday :)