Intro: Men need TRP. Women technically don't. Blue pill women get commitment/validation without needing a special strategy.
We can pretty much do well for ourselves even without red pill, but I think it comes with amazing benefits for us as individuals so I made a list.
Simplified view of the world.
How simple are we really, as humans? Well.. Wait. Blue Pill wants to answer this one.
Blue pill: We are complex individuals, each of us is unique, everybody likes something else, nothing is simple and we re nothing alike.
There I was, out of college, understanding absolutely nothing about what was around me. Social interactions were weird, I was anxious, I was browsing tumblr and calling myself a feminist.
The bluepill system loves creating confusion and ambiguity, I simply did not understand what was expected of me and how does everything work. I was confused and scared.
TRP lays us some universal rules by which us, as humans, think and behave.
TRP says we're not that damn special. We're mammals, we have instincts, we have needs. We're weak, but by accepting weakness we can build strength. Redpill is all about the factual, observable reality.
Post-TRP I understood my place as a woman in society, what I am valued on, I understood why I was attracted to "douchebags" and not "nice guys". I understood why girls I considered "stupid and boring" (I was jealous of them) were getting guys that would not look at me twice.
I made sense of things in retrospective. Look back on your teen/young adult years through Red Pill lens, isn't it all just so simple?
Reduced social anxiety
Maybe this deserve its own post but I will say this: I dropped out of college because I could not handle social anxiety. Since I started reading TRP I have no social anxiety anymore & here's how it worked for me:
I was hyperventilating reading on TRP how men rate women on scales from 1-10. In my tumblristic world men never did that. I had no idea men rate women like that. I was disappointed.
To me personality was the most important thing men valued in girls. "C'mon, there must be some mentions about strong women around here!"
Mindblown.
I realized the lies. I realized that my social anxiety didn't matter. Its source was my inability to meet imaginary expectations in terms of "my personality." I was stressing that I was boring and that I was stupid.
Should I be witty? What should I say?
I don't want to seem dumb, nobody likes a dumb girl. Oh, I must seem fun and bubbly!
I realize no matter how stupid I am or how boring I am, it just doesn't matter. My role as a woman is not to lead the conversation and be the witty entertainer. If you have social anxiety focus on looking good and polished and getting rid of bitch face (if you posses it). Now relax. Nobody is going to judge you, disqualify you or criticize you based on anything else.
The lesser you speak the better, it makes your word valuable.
Don't ramble like anxious people do. Good posture and body language do all the work.
There's a reason guys at r/TheRedPill "envy" our privileged position as women, we honestly don't have that social pressure on us like they do. So make the most of this.
No anger, no pettiness.
Many women are angry and petty, aren't they? Most of them are feminists weirdly.
We here, at r/RedPillWomen seem to be pretty cool & collected.
When you don't try to change the world to fit your needs and you play by the ancestral rules you are much happier.
Bluepill tells you that you can change the world. Do a hashtag. Make a movement. Run a marathon on your period without a sanitary pad. You can change the world, girl!
Actually you can't and that creates frustration.
Look on body positive instagram accounts - those girls are rabid. They are angry, they post passive-aggressive quotes and surf the web for articles to be offended by.
Sounds exhausting to me.
A RPWoman knows for example that "f*ckboys" just follow their interest. Why be angry at biological instincts of mating with as many women as possible? Why be angry men are attracted to youth? If they weren't, they would have mated with old infertile women.
In this subreddit are in a much better place mentally then our blue pill counterparts. Ever since I understood the rules of nature I cannot be angered by petty things and so should every RPWoman.
The ability to make choices wisely
If somebody asked my N-count before TRP I would have lied about it saying at least 5. It's...way lower. I didn't want to seem like a loser.
Yes, I was that programmed. I was that beta that I believed a low N-count is detrimental to my value so I was willing to say that I slept with at least 5 men, even though I did not.
I'm sure even some BP women know that a high N-count is unattractive but I didn't. This is called "projection mentality". Because a man who sleeps around increases his value, I believed this applies to me also. Now you can see how easy you can make a bad choice while under blue pill spell. Imagine what kind of choices that mindset would make me do.
Luckily I took TRP in time and I maintained my integrity.
Blue Pill screws up your choices, your ability to discern things correctly and gives you a set of values that are not real in application. Riding the CC is one of blue pill's main attractions and we know how that turns out.
In a climate of confusion/ambiguity anything goes, there's no right & wrong (because everybody's different, right?).
On the pill the lines are clear and the hamster is silent - this always leads to better choices.
TLDR; There is so much more to RP than a sexual strategy. Read what I wrote in bold. We're lucky we're out of the matrix.
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