Thank you redpillwomen!! Me (F27) and my boyfriend (M28) have been together two years. He is my absolute world. I love him more than anyone ever, and as I’ve worked on being more feminine, I’ve watched him evolve and become even more masculine. We have such a great relationship that feels so equal, but in our own respective roles and ways. He took me ring shopping this weekend, and I’ve just been in bliss all day. :) Watching him take charge at the jewelry store and say I need a ring that represents him as a man and how great of a woman I am was the greatest moment ever.

I’ve realized that if you find a man while you’re young and in your 20s who has potential to be a leader, you need to allow him space to find his role. Stay in your feminine lane and allow him to thrive and grow into his role as a man. You will feel the urge to take charge and do things for him or nag and complain, but don’t. Just be patient, and if he is a good man he will figure out what to do. It is such an amazing thing to watch!!