I do believe in gender roles and I looked to redpill to research and look ways I could improve as a partner and improve my "sexual strategy". But honestly I've simply been left with worry. This subreddit seems rather openminded and looking for self improvement but it seems the main redpill subreddit is full of men complaining bitterly about how all women are horrid shrews who will cheat on them with an "alpha", and that all men should just spin plates. I'm wondering how you ladies deal with it. I would like a man that shares my "redpill" values but It's hard to think thats possible when most of them seem to just want to sleep with me on the side. It's hard for me to imagine getting into a relationship with a man who takes advice from redditers that call all women bitches and claim we have limited intellectual capacities etc. And most importantly I fear the supposed wall. One moment men complain that women are promiscuous in their youth until they hit the wall, the next minute they talk about spinning plates and how only younger women are of any worth to them. Is that what I have to expect from men? That they'll simply leave me for some younger bimbo once i turn 35? How do you ladies learn to accept a community that seems to (largely) treat us as disposable? I'm not trying to bash men at all I love men. I am asking all this in good faith. I need advice on how to stop worrying about men only caring about me for my youthful looks.