SO and I have been dating for 9 months. We have our ups and downs, but since I'm introduced to rpw, I've realized a lot of issues were caused by me. I've been working on them, I can say that our relationship is pretty good at this point.

He found out about this job opportunity about 1 month ago, it's not 100% set in stone yet (he has to figure out the VISA issue,) but i'd say he's 95% sure he will be gone by September for 1 or 2 years. We haven't talked about what will happens to us and I've been SUPER anxious and stressed out about it. To be honest, I don't even know what I want. I've done long distance relationship before and I hated it. You are always waiting for something good when the distance closes but it's never the same. Having a relationship over phone/Skype is just not the same. (Our distance would be from Boston to Toronto-where I am, about 2 hours flight away.)

I've been waiting for him to talk to me about it, because I think if he hasn't talked to me, it means he hasn't thought of a solution/he's not ready. But I'm also worried that he's avoiding the subject ad he's not even thinking about it. He tends to put his feelings on the shelf and just "see how things go".

What do you ladies think I should do? I'm 27. My goal is to find a long term relationship, get married and have kids. I love my SO but I don't know where is the future and it doesn't look like he's thinking about it, he's been so focusing on his career development.

TL;DR: SO is leaving our city in 2 months, not sure what to do.