A word from the wise: Don’t be in such a hurry to grow up.
I know you just rolled your eyes.
Did you know that teenage years, the time when a child grows into adulthood has only been recognized in the last hundred or so years? Do you realize that there are many kids who can’t be a teenager because of war, or poverty, or cultural expectations, and so forth? Did you know that there is a growing faction of men who want to take this time away from you and marry you off before you reach 20 years?
Have I got your attention?
I really would rather that you didn’t read here, because most of the advice does not apply to you, but since you are here, I would like to point out some of the advice that does pertain to you and put it in terms that relates to your circumstances.
Don’t ride the cock carousel.
This advice is mostly directed toward women who make the conscious choice to sleep around. I would hope that most of you have not gone down this highway. If you have, take the first exit you can. That being said, it is also unrealistic in most cases to recommend remaining a virgin until marriage. Virginity is not an attribute when you are in your late 20’s unless it is due to ones faith.
So what is the balance? The balance is having a set of standards for yourself and only allowing a boy who meets those standards into your bed. It also means that every boy you sleep with should have enough of an impact on you that you will be able to remember him years later. One night stands will do nothing for you except make you feel used.
I know this either seems like a lofty or too simple attitude, but it really boils down to some pretty grounded advice. The RP advocates that a man’s attractiveness is behavioral. If this is true, then you must be on the top of your game when you are around young men so that you can really look at their behavior and learn. Now keep in mind that I am talking about young men who are your age. Older men add other factors into the mix and I don’t recommend trying it.
When I talk about being on top of your game I am talking about keeping a clear head in terms of alcohol and drugs. Get a buzz on with your girlfriends. Do not go out and party in social situations until you know how much you can handle and still keep your wits about you.
Do not put yourself into situations with any boy you do not trust who will pressure you into having sex when you aren’t ready or just don’t want to. Let’s talk about the concept of last minute resistance that is standard RP subject matter in how to get a girl into bed. It can be intense and I know because I caved to it once a long time ago, long before the red pill gave advice on this. Some men just won’t give up and I met my match. From being lectured on the agony of not finding release, to being called a dick tease, to being called frigid (look it up), and then threatened that he would tell all his friends horrible things about me, all the while refusing to take me home. I finally capitulated to have truly unmemorable sex except for the fact that I was so humiliated and I felt like complete shit afterwards. This was not rape. I conceded. I could have held my ground and I don’t think he would have forced me. I made the mistake of being alone with him in a situation that I was not equipped to handle.
Dress in a feminine manner that is appropriate for your age.
If most of the girls around you are in sneakers and jeans, you are going to look ridiculous if you are dressed like a 30 year old headed to the club. Sure you can wear feminine tops, skirts, and dresses. Just be sure you can move freely and act naturally in them without worrying about showing the world your ass or more cleavage than you intended. Leave a little for the imagination. Also, when it comes to make-up, think less is more. You want men to think of you as a natural beauty. Piling on the make-up and wearing clothes that are too sexual for your age makes you look cheap and also gives older the men the excuse to approach you, stating that you don’t look like an underage woman.
Enjoy being a girl.
There are occasional posts here teaching women how to be childlike and fun. This is your area of expertise. Use it. Have fun, be silly and don’t try to skip over this part of your life. You have a long time to be a RP woman. For now enjoy being a red pill girl.
I hope you will take my advice. I was a high school teacher until recently, and I also raised a daughter who is happily married with two children.