Sometimes women don’t want your help, but they might thank you one day

A few weeks ago someone was talking about providing RP advice to other young women, and I amongst others said that other women mostly don’t want advice and it’s better to lead by example.

However, today I had the rare chance to see one of my friends undergo a mini conversion after planting some seeds about RP theory.

She, like many of my friends, is very liberal. Since her last relationship ended, I’ve tried to impart to her a greater need for boundaries, but also allowing men to express their masculinity because (gasp) that can actually make the man you date and yourself happier.

Today she told me that she took some of it to heart! She started allowing her new boyfriend to help and lead her instead of always crying independence, and was shocked by the results. He’s more giving, loving, and is falling for her even more. She told me that when I first brought up this idea she secretly called it “caveman theory” (lol) but has since embraced it because she’s seeing it’s really working!

Also! She said that because of this and other recent experiences that have taught her to value masculinity, she’s removing the phrases “toxic masculinity” and “men are trash” from her vocabulary because she now sees them as damaging. A year ago we used to argue this point so I was honestly shocked to hear that.

TL;DR most young women might not like your advice, give them time and space to explore these ideas and they just might come around!