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Stop putting worth on how many people want to smash you...

smashed_cookie_dough
June 19, 2020
172 upvotes
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Of course! I'm a women, the fair sex. Everyone wants to ride the train 😂 but the issue is that any woman can get sex, it's easy. If it's easy, it shouldn't be bragged about. A Nobel peace prize, a discovery in modern medicine, finding microorganisms roaming on other planets, that's something to brag about! Maybe this is from the conditioning of society I'm trying to unwind: Being sexually desired is a goal of being feminine and powerful.

Didn't know where to post this but thank you for reading y'all 💚

Edit: Woah! So many responses! This has set a discussion and I'm happy to see others point of view. I'm learning about womanhood and what does it take to be a woman of class. Society and feminism can knock people from their feet but I want to choose the life I need to live for myself. Thank you ladies and gentlemen! ❤

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Title Stop putting worth on how many people want to smash you...
Author smashed_cookie_dough
Upvotes 172
Comments 46
Date June 19, 2020 7:58 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/stop-putting-worth-on-how-many-people-want-to.698709
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[–][deleted] 100 points101 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

It’s much more difficult to be a great mother or a wonderful wife and even just a single woman on her journey to better herself and have decent morals/self respect than it is to sleep with anyone who gives you attention and slap the label “empowerment” in front of it and think that somehow letting man after man pump and dump you makes your body a staple of power and independence. It’s just another example of common degeneracy. Women have seriously lost their sense of value, not gained any despite what everyone says.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you so much for saying this! I've always argued this and thought along these lines, but could never really get across what I meant in a way that felt right or that fully expressed my ideas. It's really frustrating sometimes when you just can't get your thoughts to come out in the way you want them to. Then you come along and so elegantly speak my mind. I think I'm gonna use this as a reference and come back to this whenever I get tongue-tied. So thanks again, you're awesome😊

[–]moringaflower 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Couldn't have said it better myself...

[–]irusz 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

have to agree that i woke up from this a year ago. while there are times that i would still like to go out on a whim to meet a new guy to feel attracted and then have sex for the fun and ease of it, once the direction of sleeping around is lost and it becomes a habit, it is pretty much humiliating to behave like that.

when i slept around, i talked about it to my friends. now that i think about it, it sounded like i was boasting. it was rather pathetic. i was just sleeping around with random people. truth was a nasty breakup and a need for attention drove me down. and i have this crazy libido. i haven't had sex in 9 months (?) and now almost every night i've been having sexual dreams. last night i dreamt of meeting a person who castrates others? gawd.

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[–][deleted] 44 points45 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean, of course there’s free will a woman can do what she wants. The problem is with women encouraging other women to have a ton of partners and that monogamy is overrated and boring. And my personal opinion is that both men and women who pump and dump are just contributing to the issues we have in society today. The whole sexual revolution has created more problems and less liberation where women remain oversexualized and exposed and simultaneously brainwashed into thinking that they’re bodies aren’t precious enough to be saved for a single worthy person who is genuine. A woman who sleeps with a ton of men is still seen as promiscuous to men while women cheer on in the background and these women are most often left with permanent damages to their confidence and self worth. Women are much more likely to get attached to their sexual partners and are usually the ones who suffer greatest from multiple hookups.

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Strategy should be from an RPW perspective. This is very much in the feminist vein of 'women should do whatver they want'. There are consequences to everything - some are physical some are social. We aren't here to debate whether women should have wanton sex if they want. We believe we can and it's not helping us. Consider lurking more.

[–][deleted] 51 points52 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

True. Most men will fuck just about anyone. She doesn’t even have to be all that cute. Instead of basing worthiness off how many men want to hit it, women should be basing worthiness on how many men want to actually marry or commit to them! Of course not all of our worth should be tied into men’s opinions. However, that’s the only male opinion that should count.

[–]smashed_cookie_dough[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you! I had a hardtime coping that I am attractive/pretty to some men and it would make my skin crawl. To feel better, I would tell myself, "Well everyone wants this pie! I'm hot" but in reality I was afraid. I would say thanks for the compliment and change the topic but also keeping a mental note not to hangout as much (usualy guy friends would catch feelings for me).

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, women can get rejected for asking but that’s pretty rare. And how you’re asking too. It also depends on who you’re asking. There are so many variables. Are these men you barely know or is he your significant other?

[–]HappilyMrs 44 points45 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't say I even consider it, but then I don't have much SMV, if any!

As long as my husband wants to smash me, the rest is irrelevant.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is so interesting. I think it does have to do with conditioning of society but I can’t think of examples.

I never got much attention from men until I was 18 and then got so much attention. And I finally felt good about myself!! But I was just as valuable before 18 years when I got zero attention.

Something is wrong here! How do we teach our daughters to feel valuable without being promiscuous??

[–]Zebra809 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I was taught that in order to give girls a sense of worth and self esteem or value as you say. We must start when they're young and give them compliments on what they do or produce. Give positive reinforcement on their merit and actions and to rarely say much about their looks. What this does is makes them strive for building better character and understanding that their looks dont tie into what makes them beautiful or a good person. To help our daughters feel valuable we must make sure other people such as friends and family also follow this mold and compliment them on good grades and acheivements rather than "aww you're so cute". That way when they hit 18 and they do start getting attention from boys, it will be more so flattering to them rather than feeling more valuable as a person. At least thats my belief.

[–]JadedByEntropy 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Teach and Promote intelligent behavior and logic, reason, emotional intelligence, kindness! Take value from the stuff you create for and within yourself, not approval of variable opinions which can change quickly or slowly over time. Be punctual and be proud that you are valuable and reliable.

[–]Noob_in_Dating 13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

*Checks out username*

*Smashed*

*Checks out Post*

ight imma head out

[–]smashed_cookie_dough[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

😂😂

[–]blushingoleander 12 points13 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Why exactly did you choose to put this here? You are preaching to the choir.

[–]smashed_cookie_dough[S] 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I would have mental debates with myself. These responces were really nice so I don't have the hamster running in circles in my mind.

It would bother me when my male friends turn and say/do sexual hints towards me. I used to say, "Everyone wants to screw me! I'm hot! But what makes you diffrent from the rest?". I should've put the brakes right there. Felt uncomfortable to say more.

I had a guy tell me how hot I was awhile ago. Cool. Knew that since I was 11. Isn't my diligence in education, drive to move forward, hunger for self-sufficiency amazing? My intellgence should be noted. I work hard everyday to push an inch closer to my dream. I was tired of my male friends attempting to crawl into my personal square- I couldn't understand why would they like me in a non-platonuc way.

[–]rpw89 12 points13 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You have said in a previous post in your history that you led men on for fun. So, that should explain it to you.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the most amusing train wreck of a post and comment thread I’ve ever seen. Thanks for the Friday morning entertainment everyone

[–]VigilantRedRoosterModerator 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

any woman can get sex

True, it's like boasting about one's skill at getting a whole lake of ducks to come eat bread

A Nobel peace prize, a discovery in modern medicine, finding microorganisms roaming on other planets, that's something to brag about!

You're not wrong here, but RP theory predicts that these things will NOT improve a woman's sexual market value.

Promiscuity often brings negative consequences to a woman, but don't get it twisted. RPW recommends not to neglect your attractiveness... to your committed partner.

[–]rpw89 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I am really confused by this post. Like, I don’t understand the point or why it’s been posted in this sub of all places.

[–]smashed_cookie_dough[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Didn't know were to post

[–]NicoleInBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure, most guys would smash you (or me, or any other woman) if given the opportunity. But how many men are willing to put effort to create this opportunity? To pursue and court you? A man who just met you won't take you out on a nice dinner because you've made a discovery in modern medicine nor because he wants to marry you. He'll do it because he's attracted to you. And if more men are attracted to you enough to go after you, you can have your pick.

So yes, being a highly sexually desired woman is of worth. SMV matters.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Who exactly is bragging about men trying to fuck them?

[–]JadedByEntropy 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've seen it. Hi5s around the table of a bible study for most-men slept with.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

perhaps this was drafted as a DM to be sent to Megan Thee Stallion

[–]smashed_cookie_dough[S] -3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I was to prove a point. I was baffled and felt that women had "too much power" over men (guys tried to do me I would use their money long ago). No, we don't do shit to attract men, they hover around to find a place to slide in.

Actually. Maybe we do have too much "power". When I had ego-trips, I was myself as Anita or Scarlet gone with the wind. Also saw myself as a snake when men would pursue me romantically/sexually. I turned the situation to benefit myself or de-escalate the situation when I felt trapped in a conversation I felt uncomfortable in.

[–]Pola_Lita 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

...but the issue is that any woman can get sex, it's easy.

Sex with whom, though? That matters. Women can and do get sex they don't even want.

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Maybe this is from the conditioning of society I'm trying to unwind: Being sexually desired is a goal of being feminine and powerful.

Are you saying this is a good and true thing or that you're trying to remove it from the things that you believe?

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"...but the issue is that any woman can get sex, it's easy. If it's easy, it shouldn't be bragged about. A Nobel peace prize, a discovery in modern medicine, finding microorganisms roaming on other planets, that's something to brag about!"

A lot of people would argue that bragging in moderation about any of these things is healthy and definitely not the same as being proud of yourself.

[–]myromunya 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

True that sister.. anything worth having ain't easy. Look at the youtube videos of the girl going up to random guys asking if they want to hook up, almost all said yes. Make them work for it.

[–]GunBullety 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

You sound like a dude for sure. Women don't talk like this.

[–]Muchadoaboutcass 7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I know you’re being down voted, but I low key agree

[–]GunBullety 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Well I was actually mistaken, it's a girl she's just a tomboy and bisexual. So many dudes make this argument and it just seemed like a guy trying to add credibility to the argument by pretending to be a girl, but no, got it wrong. Check her history.

[–]Muchadoaboutcass 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s fine. It’s still a man-looking post though

[–]GunBullety 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh yeah for sure.

[–]smashed_cookie_dough[S] 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I practically am since I'm attracted to women...

[–]APOVelocity 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Does him being a man automatically just make what hes saying incorrect?

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No but there are rules about men posting here and a rant like this would fall outside the scope.

[–]jonathaninfresno 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I hope im not banned for coming here but ive constantly wondered what it would be like to have that kind of power. The male sex drive is the greatest curse of my existence and makes life absolutely miserable

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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