A couple of weeks ago, I posted about my husband not feeling quite himself. Here is the post: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/az8h9l/how_can_i_help_my_husband/
Basically, he told me that he was feeling an anger inside, and wasn't enjoying our time all together as a family (baby and toddler).
After reflecting and speaking more about it; I realised that it was his issue to work on by himself, rather than anything I had done. I simply just made sure to be mindful in keeping our home a soft landing place for him, listened whenever he wanted to talk, gave advice only when he asked, and made sure that he had space and time to himself.
To be honest, at times I felt frustrated with him. Still, I (almost) never showed this - and instead chose to show grace, patience, and love.
The other day, he told me "thank you for all that you do, it doesn't go unnoticed", and couldn't stop staring in my eyes and telling me how wonderful I am. He is feeling much better (of course it will take time), and it's lovely that he is being more open with me about how he's feeling. Yesterday, he spoke to me all evening about some work difficulties. It wasn't exactly my dream evening, but I knew that he really needed that, so just sat and listened. Of course I'm far from perfect, but have really been trying my best.
I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who replied on that thread, as it really did help me. I hope that this post isn't too off-topic or anything, I just wanted to give a little update :).