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Thank you RPW, your advice has landed me the most amazing man and given me a new (happy) lease on life!

September 30, 2021

For context, I grew up with an ardently angry feminist mother who treated me awfully and is a tremendously unhappy person. She never really took the time to get to know me and really tried to force her ideology as the only correct, acceptable one—which, in turn, had made me incredibly unhappy as it doesn’t actually align with my personality. So in turn, I viewed my desire to submit, be taken care of, and be feminine as unacceptable and as a personality flaw…boy was I wrong.

It turns out my best friend of 9 years had feelings for me, and I realized he is everything I could ever want in a man. Thanks to this subreddit, I know that I’m not broken for wanting these things, and my now-boyfriend (he calls me his pre-ancé) has expressed in both words and actions his desire to provide and protect me, and I honestly could not feel more loved.

I defer to him in the relationship and am an excellent first mate, and he regularly expresses how much he adores me and can’t wait to make me his wife. He is kind, intelligent, sweet, an excellent leader & protector, and handsome to boot. I feel so beyond lucky and so I wanted to say thank you to everyone on here who has helped me along my journey.

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Title Thank you RPW, your advice has landed me the most amazing man and given me a new (happy) lease on life!
Author Ruffleafewfeathers
Upvotes 121
Comments 10
Date September 30, 2021 3:44 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
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[–]TreesHillsClouds 77 points78 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like a real simp.

Source: am boyfriend

[–]Ruffleafewfeathers[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha, I love you baby ♥️

[–]rydershay 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is adorable!!

[–]Oteshatori 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Best wishes to you and your pre-ance!

[–]esperans 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Preance is so cute, definitely using that in the future! Happy for you both!

[–]unimageenable 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow amazing! So was it him who expressed interest first? Broke the friendship barrier?

[–]Ruffleafewfeathers[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He did, but I had to take a few days to break down the friendship walls I had so fastidiously constructed before I realized this is what I want

[–]CountTheBeesEndorsed Contributor 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

he calls me his pre-ancé


[–]featheredsnake 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]oriorioooo 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dis why i dont trust guys with girl best friends 🤒 sometimes they end up happily married

Hehehe congrats girl 😇

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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