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[–]CureMeNot0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Congratulations on your success but this rule you posted on your blog makes me cringe.
"Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait."
[–]yungwarthog1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why is that cringe-worthy? He's right. Women who make men wait for sex can demonstrate their value in ways other than sex. The sex itself is not likely to be markedly better than with any other woman.
[–]stolidfact1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's talking about a very specific dynamic that may be different than the one you have in mind. He's talking about the "yeah baby, it's going to be so good later. Just wait." All the while the situation is that genuine sexuality is closed off in favor of some kind of rule, creating frustration for the man and setting up crazy mental states because hormones. All the while, the woman has often secured what she wants... validation/companionship/status/feelings/etc
His point is that men shouldn't buy into it and be so thirsty building up sex/the woman on some kind of pedestal. Not worth the wait.
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