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This is a very dirty post about how I please my husband so disregard if the subject makes you uncomfortable.

November 24, 2018

I have a regular account, but I've started this one because discussing sex is not on par with the rest of my profile. I also post make-up with my face and fitness reports so I prefer to stay anonymous there...especially because this post is scandalous.

Some people have asked me advice in my sex life so I will share details to help other RPW.

My husband is Chad. He's 42. I am 31. We have been married for 6 years. He makes a lot of money. His body is spectacular.

He is only turned on by me when it comes to women and when it comes to sex and I was sure to make it this way.

How? I have a lot of competition. Young girls want him and they want him badly because of his position and his appearance. I don't want him to stray. How do I remedy This?

Simple. I eat well. Very well. Greens and simple proteins. Stretch. Moisturize. My hair is my pride. Salmon, omega 3's, avocado, vitamin C...collagen producing agents and NOT A DAY goes by that I don't moisturize my skin with oil.

When it comes to sex I am an extreme pervert...for HIM.

I'll begin by letting you know that I have conditioned myself to become incredibly turned on by his body and his smell. He travels for work often. I sleep with his underwear on my teddy bear's head. When he Skypes me I am snuggled in bed with my teddy bear, which is sweet and "innocent," but I tell him that my teddy bear now smells like his sexy parts and every time I turn I feel aroused because I smell him.

Then it appears that I am a sweet girl with my nice pajamas in bed, with my teddy bear, and when we talk I am suddenly able to reference the smell of his underwear and become turned on for him.

You can bet our Skype sessions when he is away are so long and so hot and resulting in so many orgasms that I can confidently be sure he'd not stray.

When we are together, which is the majority of the time, I am his buddy. We wrestle, (and with genuine aggression!) We talk about politics, and we engage in banter.

Sometimes he hurts me as a woman. Sometimes his banter cuts deep into my insecurities. It is VERY rare when I do this, but sometimes I just curl up and say "baby, you are too hard, you win. I just want you to be nice to me." And he will back off.

When it comes to sex, my only objective is his pleasure. Talking dirty to him makes me feel so scandalous that I become hopelessly aroused, and that he is beside himself.

I smell him. Then I moan. I smell his private parts when I sit above him and he is lying down and I tell him he smells so Mich like a man, so beautiful, I tell him I am drunk from his smell. I kiss his balls and his penis like they are holy. I run my hands over his bells and softly up his thighs while I gently kiss his area. I say things like,

"Mmm baby y iu are my man. Hmm baby you are my King. Mmm mmm baby, you are delicious, don't you move, I want to smell you and eat you and taste you all day, mmm mmm baby the way you smell and the way you taste makes me drip, how can you be so perfect?" All with adoring kisses and soft pets.

Then I suck him with desperation. I should! Do I want some 20 year old to take him??? NOPE.

I warm up my kegels the whole time I go down on him. It almost brings me to orgasm.

Women underestime how much a man is turned on by a woman who wants him.

He Is beside himself when he finds me dripping from going down on him.

That's the thing! My husband and I have an insane sex life.

He can't get off from any other woman at this point because he has a woman who is so insanely lustful for him in bed.

Cook, clean, be submissive, yes...all part of RPW.

The best way to be a good wife for your man is to take your man to physical heaven.

Always and often and with your whole heart.

I think we worry so much about how to be perfect in other ways but when we show them abject sexual bliss, they are willing to forgive a lot.

Love him with confidence.

No quality man wants a doormat. He wants a loyal, adoring partner who pushes him to aspire to new heights.

Be an inspiration to you man. Love him sexually until he's passed out, support him, laugh at him in camaraderie, and have a yummy dinner and a clean house and a hot oil rub ready for him when he comes home...then give him a dismissive little neg while you bend over in your ya go pants with a coquettish smile.

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Title This is a very dirty post about how I please my husband so disregard if the subject makes you uncomfortable.
Author Hoobin
Upvotes 153
Comments 39
Date November 24, 2018 7:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]RubyWooToo3 Stars 168 points169 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

BREAKING NEWS! Wealthy Adonis and Master of Dread Game gets enthusiastic sex on demand from wife who is afraid to lose him to a 20-year-old!

[–]merel-- 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]redwatch95 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

dead! You’re funny

[–]Hoobin1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Just got to chime in here to let you know he's not got the first idea what dread game is. He doesn't use it. I have no doubt in my mind that he's as nuts for me as I am for him. In fact, I've tried to share RP philosophy with him, like holding frame, so he can feel empowered in certain situations at work. He dismissed RP philosophy as "worthless." No, he doesn't use any dread game on me. I am simply aware of nefarious male mentality because I read posts on Redpill.

[–]RubyWooToo3 Stars 25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't doubt that RP is worthless to him because he already has the traits that the men on RP are trying to cultivate.

Sometimes he hurts me as a woman. Sometimes his banter cuts deep into my insecurities.

He might not be deliberately or maliciously trying to dread you, but that's what he's doing.

[–]thegrizness 52 points53 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I’d say you’ve nailed what many women miss about what men want in the bedroom. To feel wanted, desired, lusted after. There aren’t many things that can make a man “feel sexy”, but seeing that desire coming from a genuine place of love and interest is one of them.

[–]RubyWooToo3 Stars 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, no woman misses this. Unless a woman has pretty severe hang-ups, she will do absolutely anything for a man who inspires her desire and admiration. Problems in the bedroom tend to happen when one or both of the partners become complacent, or if there was little sexual chemistry from the start.

[–]cocksuckaddict 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This sounds downright exhausting.

Dont get me wrong, I LOVE to please my man, but I do it because I genuinely love it. I would hate to be with someone and feel pressured to do things out of fear he might leave. Relationships are supposed to be fun.

[–]vough 43 points44 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Fake or not, there are many points that should inspire us here. 1. Being conscious of our man’s needs and desires. 2. Being submissive not only in the relationship, but also in the bedroom to a certain extent. 3. Taking care of yourself to remain competitive, fit, and healthy. 4. Do things that exclusive to your man, like the undies on the teddy bear. 5. Treating your man like a king.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Not sure why this wasn't upvoted to the very top of the thread.

[–]ZegiknieEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, the mere amount of upvotes on the whole thing alone should give us pause to think.

[–]WineConnoisseur 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Am I the only one who finds putting underwear on a teddy bear head...disconcerting?

[–]merel-- 98 points99 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

I guess this guy is very good at dread game, lol.

Generally speaking I have sex with my partners because I enjoy having sex with them, not because I'm scared they will leave if I won't do certain things. I also don't start relationships with guys who might cheat if they get bored...

[–]ClaviclesOnFleek 43 points44 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My thoughts exactly. I could never be happy with someone who I constantly feared would cheat on me -- no matter how rich or good-looking.

[–]drunk_fish1 23 points24 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

sometimes dread game comes with the territory. My husband is very devoted but at work, all the women swoon at him. Gets my heckled up but also makes me work harder to keep him. He doesn't do anything to elicit the swoons, he's just fit, good looking, has presence and is the boss x

[–]merel-- 16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dread game is deliberate. If a guy deliberately makes you feel like that he is a piece of shit.

[–]drunk_fish1 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah, ok, I see x

[–]drunk_fish1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

we work together btw so I know what he gets up to x

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's kind of depressing to say this but some women will get bored without dread. Though I'd argue they probably should just forget about monogamy in that case. The thing about dread is it's fun at first and creates a lot of passionate connection, but gets old after a while. As in, most mentally well people are not going to want to feel dread on a daily basis. Also, if you have any sense of caring for your partner, you don't want to make them feel scared they're going to lose you all the time, because that's an awful feeling. You're basically promoting mental masochism at that point. I'd even go as far as to argue that to specifically promote and ride the wave of dread for your own personal gain is sociopathic and mentally abusive to your partner.

[–]Hoobin1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I just think it's male nature. When he stops being excited to come home, he'll need something else to get excited about. I don't even think a male saint could be loyal if he's deprived.

[–]ZegiknieEndorsed Contributor 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lots of man are capable of fidelity despite deprivation. Some people have a high need for excitement, some have a higher need for relaxation.

Personally I'm positive my man wouldn't ever leave me - and this is what mostly motivates me to please him. It's not a choice of keeping or losing him, it's a choice between keeping him happy or keeping him miserable. And I want my son to expect good treatment from his future wife, to see the example. And I'd want to be a good wife for my own sake even if my husband was an ass. Matter of pride.

[–]merel-- 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hypergamy is also female nature, but people aren't bound to their nature. I trust my man he won't jump every hot young thing because he isn't a literal cave man.

[–]ZegiknieEndorsed Contributor 35 points36 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Your devotion is heart warming :-) My man is very different, though, he likes to take all the initiative and to get a bit rapey (I imagine that sounds horrible if you're not into it). You say love him with confidence, and that's beautiful. But mine enjoys making me nervous, and that works for us. If there is passing out involved, it's not him but me. :-)

[–]merel-- 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Omg yes 😍

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We do some of that rough play too. Not all of this time, but often enough. Sometimes I will come out of the master bath to find him waiting to pounce. He might pin me to the wall by my neck or grab my hair and order me to my knees. Or, he might just roughly throw me on the bed and spread my legs. It makes me giggle nervously and get really turned on...I think if it was everytime then it wouldn't be so exciting. He does it with enough regularity for it to not totally catch me off guard but not too often that it is always expected. It's a nice balance.

[–]Beautifulxdisgrace 42 points43 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

I’m sorry but this seems absolutely ridiculous and fake, and almost as if written by a dude and what he wishes women were like.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

She just opened up about the deepest and most potentially embarrassing intricacies of her private sex life, and that's only because she's on an anonymous reddit forum. How would you know some of your friends/acquaintances aren't doing these same sorts of things? I was with a woman that would do similar things for me, but you would never in a million years guess she was like that if you were her girlfriend/acquaintance/coworker. She was totally different and put on a completely different attitude, even with her closest friends. Some women have a whole other side that is only for their man, that they will never tell another soul about. It's not that ridiculous, actually. Everyone's got secrets.

[–]Beautifulxdisgrace 21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s not that some women aren’t like this nor am I saying the underlying point isn’t a good thing (someone’s comment above had 5 points that I agree with).

It’s the way this was written. It’s how her husband is rich, successful, wanted by all the young women, and she is such a tiger in bed that he wouldn’t fantasize sexually about another soul. It sounds like a gosh darn male fantasy novel and it feels forced and I don’t buy it.

[–]vough 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Some women just have it down. It’s okay if your strategy differs. ;)

[–]Xtinamina 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Found the OP.

[–]Hoobin1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

It's moments like this that I get so angry that I can't just post my fucking facebook. I can't see why honest love and male/female dynamic should seem "fake."

[–]Beautifulxdisgrace 17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sure. Even your post history implies something really bad happening regarding a man that left you.. and that was less than 100 days ago so..

[–]ZegiknieEndorsed Contributor 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Perhaps this is about what she wishes she had done?

[–]drunk_fish1 16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I was expecting talk of anal, deep throat and kinkiness lol but all very helpful, thank you for sharing x

[–]rovassy 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not dirty at all. Perfectly normal. Perfectly natural. I like the part that you inspire your man, you make him grow.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sometimes he hurts me as a woman. Sometimes his banter cuts deep into my insecurities. It is VERY rare when I do this, but sometimes I just curl up and say "baby, you are too hard, you win. I just want you to be nice to me." And he will back off.

Damn, that's like alpha kryptonite.

[–]24problemsbro1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Damnnn I love it! :) I hope, I'll find a woman like you one day.

[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do not pet the unicorns.

[–]loneliness-inc 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You make a lot of good points throughout your post, points that are applicable to all women, even those whose husbands aren't rich, with great looks and traveling a lot.

For example...

Women underestime how much a man is turned on by a woman who wants him.

However, there's also something very interesting in this post as well as others who are supposedly the most awesome wives in the world.

The underlying motivation of FEAR

A regular woman may have an issue maintaining constant sexual attraction and arousal for her man. Things get stale, life gets in the way, kids get in the way, blah blah blah. Her attraction will wax and wane while he wonders what happened to the lustful woman he dated. He may begin to ask - are women capable of love?

But when a woman can employ fear into her motivation, suddenly she's everything he ever dreamed of in a wife.

Problem is - 1. Not everyone is married to Mr Rich. 2. Not everyone is married to Mr. Best-Looking. 3. Not everyone is married to Chad.

Biggest problem of them all - fear is dangerous.

Respect comes from the same place as fear. Instead of fear, your average woman can employ respect and admiration. After all, Men love women, women respect men

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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