TRP say that women often say something and mean something else. However, men seem to do this too. Or, at least, my husband does.
We have been together 10 years. I have always been a little bit on the curvier side. Never too overweight. But definitely curvier. He has always said that he loves curvy women, he loves my curves etc. He likes grabbing my thighs and things like that. Whenever he sees someone who is super skinny he always says "I don't know what men see in that kind of body type".
Needless to say, I work out to stay toned but never bothered to lose the extra weight.
Recently, however, I've been really appreciating the RPW community and have been trying to improve myself in every single way. I'm improving how I eat and am working out more often. This has naturally resulted in my losing quite a bit of weight in the past year (10kg).
And since then he has been obsessed with my body. I don't think I've ever seen him this turned on about my body before. He keeps saying all the other men are going to be jealous of him because his wife is so hot and he keeps talking about how toned everything is and his libido has gone through the roof. I am so happy about this!!
It could just be the fact that its a change. And men like change and diversity. It could also be that I'm more confident and he is picking up on that. Not entirely sure.
But, I don't know... It seems to me like losing weight and working on your body is always a good idea. I just thought I would put this out there if any of you also have a man who says the things mine used to say.
It's worth the work!
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