I noticed that some of the ladies here came to the red pill looking to improve after being overly dominating wives. I'm on the complete opposite side. I used to be (and sometimes still am) a complete doormat. So, I was wondering if anyone else here has this problem and how they have improved.
Maybe a couple points we could discuss are, where do you draw the line between submissiveness and doormat-ism? How can we make sure our (actual) needs and (reasonable) desires are being met while still being a RPW, besides the obvious of finding a really good husband, or is that the only answer? If you are a recovering doormat, how have you improved without swinging the pendulum too far in the other direction?
Please note that I am assuming we have practiced enough self examination and introspection to determine actual needs vs but it makes me unhaaaapppyyy "needs".
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