Hi RPW. Please direct me to a different subreddit if I'm posting in the wrong place.

I've been reading a lot about how to be a good SO and the roles of the male and female. What about the single ladies?

Are there guidelines to how we can find mature, LTR seeking men or how to increase our SMV? Also, is it acceptable as a RPW to initiate the interest? If so, how should we go about showing a guy that we like them and want a relationship?