I recently had a conversation about this with a few family members and it had me thinking. I personally know 2 different women who were in long term relationships where they broke up as soon as the woman started seriously talking about marriage. One of them was with this guy for 7 years living together for 4 of those years. They both were from the same christian denomination .
After she pressured marriage on him they broke up within a few months. He started dating someone new(from his church) after 6 months of ending it with her and within 2 years they were engaged and got married within the 10 months.
The second woman is the same story except its worse because it happened to her twice 8 years with the first guy and 5 years with the second . Everything was fine until she was serious about marriage . Both of the guys married another woman after being them less than 3 years. I am not super close to any of these women so I don't know exactly what when on in the relationship. It's not like these men are opposed to marriage they just didnt want marriage with them. The first man was even a religious marriage oriented man .
I didn't think much about it at the time but I was confused when the same man would marry another women after a shorter amount of time dating. When this topic came up it seems like its more common than I thought. I wanted to know what you ladies think about this.
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