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What women bring to relationship? The answer.

December 12, 2021

I saw that question here so many times. And it's possible to give many answers to it :
Cooking, Cleaning, Children, Networking, etc.

The true answer, which is the one from all others comes, is affection.

If it's a true relationship, where no one use the other to get his way, then affection is at the center, it's the masterpiece, the very expression of love he seek from you. The form can differ (see Love languages), the material aspect which fullfill it can differ, but the core stay the affection. So be affectionate with your SO on a daily basis.

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Title What women bring to relationship? The answer.
Author ManguZa
Upvotes 116
Comments 22
Date December 12, 2021 11:24 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/RedPillWomen
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[–]ejvee 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Companionship and support. Softness.

[–]Tyred_Biggums 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty simple. A woman in a man’s life must make his life better than by not being in his life.

It’s going to vary from man to man. At the end of the day: are you helping his life by adding value?

I get a huge huge amount of value out of my relationship. And not taking about sex (through ladies this is important), you have to bring more than sex

  • had food poisoning and dehydration and she scoured the city IV fluids in a massive rainstorm. Then gave me an In
  • just got together but she made a big deal of celebrating my sons birthday (who had passed away from cancer)
  • laundry. (I dislike this - she does it. No discussion on it - just happened)
  • talking/teaching/being a good role model to my daughters

These are all really important to me. There’s a ton more but you should get the idea.

[–]YaBruhAhmed 47 points48 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think most of the time this question is thrown rhetorically at women who OD on the whole independent women thing and pride themselves in not cooking , or cleaning or taking care of the children .If a woman wants a man , she should complement him in ways he is lacking, beings good in things he is good at well that's not really a basis to tie the knot. I think men of today expect much less from women given the abundance of feminists who are total nightmares , if you do bare minimum of what a wife in the 50s did and find a decent guy with good salary , affordable height and body shape who isn't the typical high-school quarterback player kind of guy with no reason to commit to one woman or someone who is casully giving sexual attentionto every girl he meets , you should expect a good future with him .

[–]laurasunshinegal 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

this is so beautifully stated! thank you for capturing such a wonderful truth!

[–]Pola_Lita 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this! Everything else can be tailored to fit.

[–]FuzzyDice12 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

💯. If only more women understood this.

[–]Dazzling-Importance1 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ya I try to tell the girls this all the time but it feels like they never understood they just gotta say I will love you and only you and show it and most men will do anything for them.

[–]RStonePTTRP Senior Endorsed 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, I really dislike when guys bring it up. Relationships are generally speaking an emotional decision, we layer rational concerns on top of it, but for most guys there's a lot of 'post hoc justification' that passes for those rational concerns.

I find the best answer when guys ask this or girls wonder about this is an individual one, not an over-arching one. e.g.

what does she bring to a relationship?

That's for her to show you, talking about it is autistic and you shouldn't do it.

From my own personal experience, what my girl initially brought to the relationship was that of all the girls I had dated before or during, she hadn't given me any red flags for an entire year and I was hung over so why not?

Do you really think I would ever be able to find a girl who would say 'I won't give you a reason to dump me for a year'? I find that just asking the question shows how ignorant people are to the dynamic at play.

[–]KickinDope 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Most normal people aren’t going to directly ask this in person.

I’ve only ever seen this asked on the internet during discussion.

[–]RStonePTTRP Senior Endorsed 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same, it's such an autism tell it's not even funny

[–]Da_Famous_Anus 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It warms my heart just to see that there's someone else in the world who gets it.

[–]white-ish 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I thought this was relevant.

Sorted by Importance on the first list,

Sorted by Cost/Toll on the second list

[–]lookylolo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is really interesting. Where did you find this?

[–]purplepansy88 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

We bring order to the chaos, at least I definitely do.

[–]Lucky-Barnacle-3950 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

What chaos?

[–]purplepansy88 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think the house would be very messy and everything would be disorganized and impractical without me around.

[–]Lucky-Barnacle-3950 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm glad you're not ashamed of doing woman stuff like modern females

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[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We aren't here for you to complain about women.

[–]Sea_Bookkeeper_15331 Star -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You mad?

[–]TheBunk_TB -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Caring and Comfort?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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