I'm going to break this down for everybody because some people apparently think that that sub has some value. I'm going to post this here, however, because they auto-delete male comments - which should tell you everything you need to know about them. Now on with the show.
The Truth About FDS Women: We aren’t similar to incels, nor are we "ugly" or mentally deranged. We are your everyday women.
The only truth here is that they aren't incels, because even the ugliest woman can get laid if she wants to. But getting and, more difficult and importantly, keeping a relationship? Their sub won't do that.
FDS has recently gained a lot of attention on Reddit, and based on reading what some people write about us online, here are several myths running around Reddit about FDS women:
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FDS women are similar to incels because of our extreme ideology of hating men. The truth? We hate shitty men and we will use this subreddit as a platform for calling out their bad behavior so other women know what to avoid.
But most posts don't discriminate between bad and good men. You lump all men together - as marks and prey for your "advice". Kind of like you don't ban bad advice from bad men, you ban all men indiscriminately from posting.
However, we also make space in our lives for: 1) good male friends who respect women and appreciate our friendship, and 2) a loving boyfriend/husband who is serious about us and cares about us a lot.
I hear that you value beta males who pedestalize you, but I hear nothing about what you offer in return. Which is great if you're a sugarbaby or prostitute, but sucks in a LTR.
We don't think that men are only good for their money.
No. They're arm candy, entertaining, and can provide sex too.
We look for great partners who are caring, sweet, intelligent, honest, loyal, and loving!
Sounds like beta providers to me. Manipulatable, vulnerable, trusting... yeah, those are your marks.
These qualities are very important. However, another quality that we also look for is a man who is generous towards us and it's non-negotiable.
And there's the naked truth. He needs to hand out that money and time.
Just because we care about a man's generosity and see it as one of the many measures one can have in determining a man's seriousness about you, doesn't mean that it's the only thing we care about.
But it's the only one that's non-negotiable, which makes it the MOST important. It makes you prostitutes and gold-diggers, one and all.
FDS women must be ugly because only ugly women need dating strategies; all you need to do is to look hot. The truth? Although women do receive a lot of attention from men, the majority of them are from those who only want us for sex, so our main objective is filtering out men who aren't looking for a relationship with us.
You don't see the irony in that you're filtering out men who only want sex, but quality men are filtering out women like you who only want money? I can almost hear the protests: "But we want more than money!" Yeah, and plenty of men want more than sex.
Additionally, while looks do matter, in order to get a man to commit to you, you need to act like a high value woman so that he will cherish you.
LOL. As opposed to RPW and it's goal for you to BE a high value woman, not just act like it. So manipulative.
The tips we share here on how to act like a high value woman work; the overarching principles will get a man to treat you like you are the love of his life.
So it's all about the surface, not actually about being a good woman? At least you're honest.
FDS women are mentally deranged. The truth? How we appear online is vastly different from how we are in person.
I highly doubt that. You may mask it so you aren't instantly written off as whores. But hookers dress respectably when not on the job, you know.
We don't talk as bluntly as we do online. Online, we have less filter and our thoughts are expressed in a way where we simply do not give a fuck. Our thoughts are crystal clear and we don't have to worry about using several social filters like we do in real life to seem more diplomatic and socially acceptable.
In other words, you resent being more civil, ladylike, pleasant and blunt, and when given leave to do so you vent your spleen like sailors. Yeah, how's that working out for you?
Many try to paint /r/FemaleDatingStrategy as some sort of "crazy" new group of man-haters who seek to manipulate men, but the majority of our members aren't like that at all
This post to the contrary.
Also, unlike incels and MGTOWs, we don't invade their spaces like they do ours.
Sure you do. Your adherents wander into RPW all the time.
We don't spout toxic insults and verbally abuse and harass them. They're the toxic ones, not us.
How can you abuse and harass them when you ban them outright instead? No need to vent your spleen at them; just make them disappear.
In the end, we like good men, we have standards, and we're your everyday women. All your misconceptions about us will be dissolved if you just take the time to keep an open mind and understand our perspective.
Nope. You like easy prey, men who will support and pamper and coddle and pedestalize you, who will forgive your adulteries and spend everything they have on you... only for you to lose interest and divorce them, taking everything from them. You are the bluest of blue pill women, toxic and grasping and the antithesis of RPW. Sell your lies somewhere else.