First learned of the redpill in late 2016, it has since ruined my life. I see everything for what it is now. I'm nothing like I was a few years ago. I see all of my friends are miserable losers.

I know this guy. he's been my best friends since preschool. I was best man in his wedding. He is literally cucked. His wife pegs him and fucks other dudes.

"but i'm bi" he says. He is 26 and spends thousands of dollars a year on action figures. He made an instagram with his name attached and uploads pictures of them.

The other day he comes over here. He starts talking to me all this shit about the patriarchy, how its time for men to step down from the masculine image and positions of power. I was completely blown away. I knew he was like this but it never got brought up in the slightest, and i didnt know he was this bad.

He then tells me to turn off soundgarden and black lips on my boombox and has me turn on this black female R&B singer. Not my style at all. I tell him it sounds plasticy and fake, he says fine not for everyone. But that I need to respect her because its "the perspective of a black female in trumps america"

"Black female in trumps america" I say. "This woman is literally worth 10 million dollars. I bust my ass off in a factory that is 90-110 degrees at any given time for $25 an hour."

He got scathing mad and left immediately after calling me a racist.

This guy works as a highschool teacher and not a single person in the school respects him. His wife doesnt either, she is 300 pound body positive feminist type that tries to get him to fuck other dudes.

This has been my best friend my entire life and im completely ashamed. I want to tell him to get fucked but its way too far into it. I never brought up the uncomfortable topic of identity politics for years and this is just a microcosm of everyone i know.

I have literally no idea what to do.I want to save people that can't be saved. I also dont want to be seen around this, or people who play pokemon in their 20s, or people who go goth when theyre 24, or guys that get half of their hair dyed and go vegan.

What the fuck happened? How do we fix this?