Me: Married for over a decade to the first person I fucked, divorced. Fell into another LTR because it was easy and she was nice. N count of 2 at 40 years old.

Began reading TRP and the manosphere. Got fit, got my mind right, realized I was tired of the LTR. Broke up with the LTR last month, began dating around.

In the last month I've F-closed 3 different women. All of them are 4s at best but for a reforming loser like myself, anal on the first date from a 4 feels like a decent accomplishment. TRP works, more or less to the degree that you put effort into it.