For the sake of this post, I'll use two characters. Mark and Kate.

Kate is obviously a woman like all women. ( remember AWALT?)

She is a very nice woman (maybe a 9). She works as a waitress or some job which makes you live from paycheck to paycheck. She lives with her sick mum(who is divorced) and she cares for her mum so much.

I guess you know why she is still a 9 despite her having all to show for it except for her gracious body and the number of orbiters she has.

Yeah. back to the story. So the two of them meet. Mark has an SMV of 7.5 ( lower than that of Kate) despite all the things he couldn't show for it and Kate who has a 9 (higher than Mark) despite all the things she could show for it.

Kate likes Mark and agrees to go out with him.

Deep down this is how Kate's thought process goes like.

Mark is a nice guy..I can probably go out with someone who has a better facial look and who is more taller (someone she hasn't yet met) I think Mark has money and is caring so I'll stick with him for now.

I want to say something here! Kate had lots of orbiters who had that better facial look and height she wanted but since she is selfish like all the XX out there she wanted all the package in one.

FYI Mark is a successful estate agent, is a 5.5, a bit stout, has a house in CA and has a Ford GT and a Porsche.

I am saying it again...in a loud siren. Women are hypergamous. They are haaaipagamus! If you didn't understand the former use the latter.

Well if mark is lucky and maybe the relationship dynamic favors him then at most Mark will be looking at most 3 or 4 years to beta bux. Maybe Kate might as well use Marks contact in friendship and relations to get to where she wants.

If Mark propels Kate in this (self-sabotaging) direction, surely she is going to meet someone with a higher SMV than that poor chump(Mark) and will branch swing.

Of course it's still a better deal if they have not married and no children involved. On the other hand this is going to be a hard blow to Mark. He will continue to try and fathom the whole deal for a very very very long time to know where he went wrong. (Possible symptom of oneitis)

Disclaimer: Mark and Kate are just fictional characters I used for this post. They are fictional and do not hold true with any person alive or dead.