I was in a on again off again relationship since thanksgiving. Things were moving fast and to a good place. After a great date I tried to push through LMR. It didn't work and she hamstered me for like 2 weeks.
During this time I found The Red Pill subreddit. Started hitting the gym (up 15 lbs in a month). I'm feeling and looking significantly better. I also started reading the sidebar and found that I had been living a lie for my life. Letting women control the relationship.
A new me started. I started to gain confidence with women and the rest is history. I was still in class up till last week with the girl that had been hamstering me. She started to see I had confidence, looking better than her, and generally happy. Well she tries to come back in my life.
At first I just try to plate her. Unfortunately, some blue pill tendencies resume. She ends up blowing me off for a date. I respond by complete radio silence (delete her from all social media). She ended up sending me a ridiculous amount of snaps. I text her telling her I saw them and wished her a merry christmas.
Instant responses. She tried to talk over text and I steered the conversation toward meeting up. We meet up today. Date went really well. I lead and she was in my frame the entire time.
Fast forward a few hours I get a text saying "she's emotionally unavailable right now" and "she has nothing to offer right now". Blue Pill me would have done some beta shit and said that I understood and was willing to wait.
The red pill me ended it with the emotional trainwreck that was her life. Thank you for saving me from a life of hamstering and bullshit. I am on to better women.
Red Flag list really added to realizing the emotional baggage I was getting into:
She has mostly guy friends (so many orbiters, dudes that "professed their love for her" LIKE WTF)
She has daddy/mommy issues and/or divorced parents (endless)
She is bad with money/supported by her family/shit job (buys a motorcycle in november in the North??? works two jobs)
She likes to drink. (blew me off to drink by herself)
She cheated previously on somebody else (with a girl no less)
She has major emotional stability issues.