TRP is working and thanks to all you cats .... this should be a field report but it is also a sincere thanks to all of you, this forum and TRP

met a girl at a big box store 3 weeks ago, started gaming her, she responded well. got her number right away, made a date for the following week.

I call, she breaks the date but wants to try it again the following week. so we went out, had a nice dinner and came back to my place. i knew she had to leave early and babysit her grandchild so i knew what i had to work with. as she was about to leave, i leaned in and attempted to kiss her and she turned her head and said "not on the lips" so i kissed her cheek.

i texted her twice the next week and no reply. i called her and left a message, no reply. that next friday she leaves a snippy text message basically she was put out by the attempted kiss and state that we are looking for different things.

i think in today's messed up world, if a man wants to kiss a woman, that is a natural thing. if that's all she got to worry about and grind over, then she must live a charmed life (she doesnt). if a man doesnt want to kiss her, then i would think that would be a problem for her.

thanks to TRP, im more than ok with this. no fucks were given and i won ... you see, i wanted something physcial from her, not to have her come over and watch movies for 6 months while making goo goo eyes with her. by attempting to kiss her, i sent a very clear signal. it wasnt important that i kiss her, just that i attempted and she knew i wanted to. i was setting a frame for any future association that we may have on my terms.

once she said she left a message, she did not. another time on the phone she called me by the wrong name. then she doesnt return calls or text in a timely manner so i have little regard for her anyway. as a professional business man, returning calls and acknowledging communication is simple common courtesy so her refusal to do so is really a deal breaker for me anyway.

life is about gaining knowledge and learning things and i found out that she is really not that attracted to me and im good with that. Fact: not all girls are going to take a liking to me.

today, im going to go to a community fall festival and enjoy myself (probably hit on some girls, no doubt), come home and watch some football games, have to go into work for a bit this afternoon and go to church band practice this evening. then tonight, im going to do whatever the fuck i want. life is good, thanks to TRP and thanks to everyone.