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16 year old needs advice: Pursue money or women?

July 27, 2015

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[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This is only a question to you because you're young. At the end of the day, pussy is a bad investment.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Follow the money. Got it. Thank you very much.

[–]QQ_L2P2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If it drives, flies, floats or fucks, rent it.

[–]VeritasOcculta6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

"I lost a whole bunch of money, chasing bitches But I never lost no bitches chasing money, how real is that?"

Royce Da 5'9"

[–]TheSKSpecial6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Gotta post the followup line from that song:

"The only time a woman made a man a millionaire was when that man was a former billionaire, how trill is that?"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't usually listen to rap — but holy shit. Listening to this song is like reading a book.

[–]Endorsed Contributorcholomite5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Read more, post less. To answer your question, if you are pursuing women you're doing it wrong. The goal is to become a man that women pursue. Read up to find out what kind of man that women actually want to pursue.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

I understand. Thank you very much. Isn't part of it putting yourself out there and approaching girls (a timely investment) or did I miss something?

[–]BFMCBeaner2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Son, your mission in life comes first. At your age women should just just be a part time time waster when you're not active in pursuing anything. I had girls constantly hounding me in high school (not the hot preppy ones) but the rest of the chicks. In that time I got plenty of blowjobs in the school parking lot in my truck during lunch but didn't expend that much energy on them outside of school.

Some girls would drive the 50 miles to my farm to hang out but did what I was doing. I had a farm to run (my Dad was primarily occupied by his newspaper and I had pics to shoot and develop for him since I did most of the photography), catfish to catch and dress to sell to IGA stores, watermelons that needed picking and selling, dirt bikes to ride and fix, shooting matches to compete in, quail and deer to hunt with my old man or my buddies.

Seldomly did I cruise (back then we all cruised in high school in our cars and trucks) with my best friend in his Trans-Am on Friday or Saturday nights. I didn't take girls or cruise in my truck since it was a mean old '73 Ford covered in Horse and Pig shit and got 7 miles to the gallon. I would sometimes take a chick out in my mom's LeBaron Turbo for a date but most of the time it was for a little fun and get some and then get rid of her to go do other shit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Things seem a bit different nowadays but the principles remain the same. Thank you for your insight.

[–]I_is_the_best1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

How I see it:

Good product sells itself - customers contact you because you have something they want. Shitty product requires you to spam potential clients like viagra ads and still you are essentially looking for a loser / retard (as only a loser would choose a shitty offer).

Just improve and ignore women. Don't avoid social situations though, go out, socialize and everything but don't chase, just let them chase you. After a couple of months of exercising, lowering body fat and improving you'll notice that them random bitches that you see everyday spend a bit too much time looking at you, smile and display other IOIs. From that point it takes little time for begin approaching you.

Some might say hey but if I approach I can increase my chances by X%. Well you might - but this method does a couple of things for you: A) gives you instant outcome independence B) Puts them in place where they have to impress you not the other way round C) similar to B - girls just get a bit defensive when approached because of well it's flipped script from what's in point A and B D) It acts as a filter - bitches who are not into you are weeded out E) no one said you can't approach a girl you are really find one interesting - you just do it rarely.

Some would say would say it's a stupid approach but obviously they are wrong and I am right. You can't negotiate desire, no amount of sales pitch will make a difference - either they want you or you can GTFO.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the reply. I've got a good body (6 pack) and I do have some girls text me who are obviously thirsty. I don't really take the bait though because they don't catch my eye. I think as I get older and start associating with older girls more will come as they prioritize financial worth in a partner. I go to a really tough all-boy's school, so just being around girls requires effort and pursuit. If one comes along that catches my eye I'll take the bait, but for now I'll just stay focused...

[–]I_is_the_best1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't use money to get women. Get money to have money - live the life you like, don't waste time in a dead end job, travel and shit - whatever you like. Rely on your looks, personality and the rest to attract them.

Again you can't negotiate desire.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point. Thank you once again. I read that money is just a byproduct of being emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally healthy and fit. That being said, money may just be an indicator of "the rest." Either way, you're right. Money is just a small piece of the pie.

[–]Stradivorius2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"First you get the money, Then you get the power, then you get the women"- Tony Montana in Scarface. But in this case change the last part to "then maybe you get the women if you feel like it".

[–]ModRedSovereign2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Post questions to /r/asktrp.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire22 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

As someone who pissed away a significant portion of his youth CHASING women, I can say that working on building wealth will put you in a position where you are FREE to ATTRACT women HOWEVER you want.

Had I the option to do it over again, which I don't since I can only move forward, I would have opted to invest ALL my time in self-improvement across every axis of development. At various points, I made great strides, but I would back-slide and stray from the path. These days, my straying is more and more limited, more like a gentle oscillation.

You can be wealthy and still opt for a low-key stealth approach to avoid gold-diggers. Or you can flash your wealth and pump and dump to your hearts content, although you'll risk disease, revenge from psychos and the jealous, etc.

It sounds like you are on the right track. Stay on it.

Also, women WILL distract you from your goals. They'll demand your time. They act like an intoxicating drug where when you're with a good one under the best circumstances, it will feel like a vacation from the harsh realities of life.

Building wealth and status attracts women. The next challenge will be to figure out how to screen out the bad ones and keep the good ones. The challenge after that is figuring out how to keep the good ones from turning bad.

If you have exceptional self-control, which most men don't, because it also requires a deep knowledge of personal limitations and humility, you may consider getting involved with a woman for the experience to see what you can learn from it. But DO NOT pedestal, DO NOT oneitis, DO NOT get pussywhipped, STAY ON YOUR PATH, I REPEAT, STAY ON YOUR PATH.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yessir, I'll stay the course.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

pursue health. health body = pretty body => cunts ;)

[–]1edwardhwhite1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Allow yourself some time to grow up and enjoy yourself. Business before pleasure, certainly. But you don't have to decide everything right now.

[–]Kid_Crimson1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're doin' it right kid! Continue to handle your shit and stack paper! If you do you and focus on your mission the girls will come to you. When they do, set firm boundaries so they don't distract or become time wasters.

[–]Isaiah4verse11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Get paid, son. Get paid. Motherfuck bitches!

[–]TRP_Minor1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm a 16 year old entrepreneur with several ventures under my belt (one business grossed $30k in sales and employed multiple family members over just a few months).

Damn, really, how? Any tips for someone else your age?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Check out some of my posts on -- it should help.

[–]TRP_Minor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Looks pretty neat, I'll check it out.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Honestly, you will want to get some of that underaged pussy. Just do what makes you feel more like a man and learn some time management. If sexy women come after you then go for it and learn to apply the principles of this subreddit early. If not then focus on business and use your free time to read about techniques you can use on girls.

The only reason why I say just approach the pussy in your free time is because if you focus on money and then women come you might get too dependent on women and not develop your emotional mental state where you will have abundance. Your business and responsibilities should be a priority but there is a lot more to life than money.

You are already ahead of the game by coming here. But start finding the time to apply the principles. Start working out a little bit and start finding the time. Ask yourself the following:

  • What do I want to most succeed in?
  • What are the factors that play into this success?
  • How can I efficiently manage my time and resources?

Remember that anyone can read everything off the sidebar and this thread as well as the snarky comments every now and then and say they agree without doing anything. But it takes a brave person to actually apply what is on paper to the real world.

Think about it, businesses were always started on paper and hell many entrepreneurs read everything and did the research. And if they didn't go along with their plans then it would just be scribbles on a piece of paper. So read the sidebar, make time to apply the principles, and don't deprive yourself too much for the sake of a secure future. I am sure there are people who wish they were young again and they would have prepared more for the future instead of doing typical high school things. But then people your age who spend their time doing what you are doing or focusing solely on academics so they won't waste their high school years may end up depressed because they didn't have fun in high school.

TLDR: Your business and responsibilities come first but make time to enjoy your youth as well and just go and apply the Red Pill theories and concepts to all those women out there who are just waiting to get those feels.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you very much for the advice.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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