Alright, you'll have to forgive me for being a reddit noob, but this is Rollo and I'm here to answer questions for the next hour (possibly longer).

As most of my links are already in the side bar here, I'm going to assume you're all familiar with my work. However if you're not this is probably a good comprehensive list of links to my more influential writing:

https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/08/29/year-one/

The only request I have is that this not turn into a personal therapy consult. I do those privately on occasion, and if you would like to tell me your personal situation please leave me an email address to contact you at on the About page on my blog.

OK fire away.