Not sure if there are similar posts on this topic but since I thought some of you could benefit from this, I'm sharing anyway.
For those among you who are more reserved and restraint: I recently had a shift in perspective on how I was seeing the introverted trait.
Describing myself as an mostly introverted person, unless around people I'm really comfortable with, I was ever since looking at this characteristic in a rather negative way. Until today, where I saw the whole thing from a different angle.
I realised how much of an advantage you are actually able to take from beeing introverted, if playing your cards right and feeling content and confident with the trait you were given, because you really can!
How though? Through accepting, loving and even beeing greatful for the way you are, you will gain a profound inner peace noone can take from you. Solely this will make you give off such a pleasant vibe and confidence that other people are going to notice for sure.
Moreover, as an introvert, at aleast from my personal experience, one often struggles presenting and conveying the true and real you. Since one is not capable of managing to communicate and giving an insight what really is representing you and your own personality.
So how can we benefit from this? Don't feel uncomfortable with the other person not immediately getting who you really are!! The only thing that matters and you need to be concerned about is YOU knowing that you are a valuable, interesting and incredibly amazing person, independent from what others think you might be or not be!
As long as you are sending off this fundamental confidence, others will recognize this and see you as a mysterious and interesting person, worth exploring.
Enjoy people trying to figure out your great personality and treat it like a treasure that you don't let get explored easily and only do so if the person is worth getting to know who you are.
Enjoy them trying to solve whats behind the mysterious and exciting face and you beeing in charge of letting them or not.
Having said that, I hope some may find this use- and helpful. Have a great day! Peace.
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