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Adapting your attitude towards the attitude of the woman?

October 25, 2014

English isnt my first language so I try my best to explain.

I notice that women , most of the time, are attracted to the people who got a similar character.

If the woman is someone who loves to talk much, laughs a lot she will be attracted towards a man who doesnt keep frame most of the time, laughs a lot, takes her out to different places etc.

If the woman is someone who is generally quiet, reads books, stays alone at home at weekend she will be attracted to the kind of guy who I would describe as the typical James Bond. Clever, calm, classic dressed etc.

These are experiences I made and saw most of the time. Not long time ago I saw a post on TRP that you should never adapt your character and attitude because of a woman.

Wouldn't the best sexual strategy be to adapt the way you talk and the way you present yourself to the woman you are talking to?

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Title Adapting your attitude towards the attitude of the woman?
Author dongpal
Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date October 25, 2014 5:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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[–]eccentricrealist2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't know, I'm pretty quiet and I've gotten girls who are exactly the opposite, OP. Don't look at their personalities like a possible excuse.

[–]mister_slfdest0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

ONS dont count as "getting" in my book. it has to be something steady.

You can get ONS with someone with completely different from you (the attraction is then based mostly on novelty/curiosity) with a little skill but it is much harder if you want something steady.

[–]eccentricrealist0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What about an on/off sorta thing. I think that counts haha

[–]armchairpsychLA1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

People are attracted so people of similar temperament. Loud and talkative, quiet and thoughtful, always in the moment vs building grand plans for the future. For the most part, you are born with a temperament. Its very difficult to change this, but you can fake another temperament if you want to manipulate. Dark Triad personalities are very good at this.

Women are attract to your character, which is a manifestation of your behaviors. The actions you take in life. What job I work, do I go to the gym, where do I travel, who I choose to be friends with, what my hobbies are, who & what I give my time to etc... Do not change this for anyone, ever.

[–]mister_slfdest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

shit its almost like you said "be yourself"... lol

[–]1dongpal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

So it would make me more successful if I manage to fake temperament?

[–]Position5hero1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you're a pretty good actor, you can adjust your temperament to theirs, which will work.

But you have to read her right away- before you even talk to her. How does she dress, her facial expression, posture, body language, her jewlery- all will give you tips to that.

But ONLY if you don't realize that it's an act. If they do- blown out. You're done- if she catches it, you're weak, trying SUPER hard, etc.

Here's a simple test of your acting ability- go to a bar, anyone, walk in with a huge smile and a cocky walk, let it slip that you just won the lottery.

Call your 'boss', 'quit' your job, and in general pull it off.

Talk about all the shit you're gonna buy, your future plans, and Dont spend any money. Don't even buy anyone a drink.

If you can convince a plate you're serious, then you got the stuff

[–]1dongpal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I will try to change it now accordingly to the person I'm talking to.

I feel I can sense the temperament of others extremly fast, but I never used the "knowledge" to do something, also I feel like it takes effort and can be stressful.

But as you said, I need to sense their real temperament and not the fake one.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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