Asian American women that refuse to date Asian guys but hate the fact that those same Asian guys go interracial.

jagrmeister721 · 2015-01-28T07:23:48+00:00

The key is that Korean guy got engaged to a white woman. When an Asian woman is done getting banged from every angle by a roster of white guys (and not one of them sticks around), it's time to "rediscover her culture" and the Plan B back up plan is to marry one of their own. Can't do that if "their men" are marrying non-Asian women. So must stigmatize it.

The other point is alot of those Asian women have internalized their own inferiority. That's in part where their "white fever" comes from. They see themselves as an outsider, non-mainstream; but however low they are, they think their brothers and Asian men are even lower. When status-worshipping based on race, they simply cannot believe that any white woman would want an Asian guy. It messes with their sense of the pecking order as they have fixed it in their head.

popthatpill · 2015-01-28T09:42:36+00:00

Women simply don't like men having options. Simple as that.

MattyAnon · 2015-01-28T06:02:44+00:00

What's yours is mine, what's mine is mine.

I don't have your experience, so the following is speculation based on what you describe:

Asian men are supposed to want Asian women (so she has options, feels desirable) while she chooses who she wants. She may even plan to settle down with an Asian man eventually (family/social pressure).

Meanwhile restrict his options, expand hers, to suit the female imperative of maximumising her choice of AF and BB, minimising his options.

This is done through attacking and shaming That Which Does Not Do What She Wants.

Audunis · 2015-01-28T07:03:22+00:00

There was an article where Asian women over 30 were saying they didn't want to date white guys any more, for spurious socjus-ey reasons.

Basically they were done with the alpha fux and wanted some beta bux (and probably settle with an asian boy to silence mothers and fathers).

Asian men are their fallback so they need to have them under control and lusting after only their pussy.

Luke666808g · 2015-01-28T11:44:31+00:00

The same thing happens to white 'back home losers' in China, white women can't handle the SMP being flipped on it's head, and they go online and rant about how fucking pathetic they (the back home losers dating smoking hot Chinese girls) are, even though they're men they wouldn't date themselves, and it makes no difference to them.

What it comes down to is maintaining the supply of thirsty betas for when they need to settle, seeing them buck the system and turn the SMP on it's head just makes women furious.

*for the record I had Asian friends growing up and they banged white AND Asian girls pretty regularly, because they were thug Asians, so, they could give the tingles pretty easily (the Asian girls they banged were better quality than the whites though)

ringostardestroyer · 2015-01-28T16:54:10+00:00

You know what makes them even more mad? An Asian male who has a HIGH SMV (AlphaFux) that won't date (or even fuck, depending how hot the girl is) Asian women.

Imagine it from an Asian woman's perspective. Once she's met an Asian man who not only can provide the security and BetaBux for her, but will also potentially sexually please the fuck out of her, she will go out of her way to try and get the man because she feels entitled for his attention due to their race. How do you think she'd react when this man turns her down for an even hotter white woman? It wouldn't make sense to her. She'd go crazy and find some other Asian to settle down with that has a lower SMV.

Here's my opinion though, an Asian man who is categorized under the "AlphaFux" group will be shit tested much more than the average white male. Why? Because they refuse to believe that an Asian male can be labelled as that. What's the first thought that comes to mind when you think of Asian men? BETABUX!

Remember, women are selfish as fuck. They want BOTH the AlphaFux attention and the BetaBux attention.

By default, white & black men have a better chance of taking girls home and fucking the shit out of them then Asian men.

By default, Asian men make some of the best husbands/LTR material due to their cultural upbringing and security with money.

The Goal is to be both: Being Asian already classifies you as being boyfriend material, there's nothing you can do about it. What you can do (and is constantly preached in this sub) is to increase your SMV, and get in the same 20% of men who are predominately white and black.

Imagine it from a woman's perspective, if she was surrounded by white and black men her whole life, and she encounters an Asian who is actually attractive, wouldn't she be curious and see what he is all about? Women are hypergamous creatures and once she finally encounters something different, the pussy juices will drop even more.

If you're an Asian man that is trying to slay and plate hot women, make sure you're holding frame because it will be tested by both men and women.

The truth is, attraction has no race. This only applies to the top 20% of men. If you're a fucking beta then of course it's going to matter, be realistic. Lift and hold frame.

RandomAnecdote · 2015-01-28T19:05:20+00:00

My parents (more my Dad) wanted me to pursue girls of our same ethnicity. Those girls were never anything more than headache, heartache and friendzone. I discovered eventually that getting with white girls freed me from the bullshit of my culture. It was so easy, less work, and why didn't I open my eyes sooner?

[deleted] · 2015-01-28T07:32:48+00:00

I hate this phrase but "They want to have their cake and eat it too". Most of my closest friends are some form of Asian, for both the guys and girls alike "landing" a white person is a symbol of status in some Asian communities. Fact is, however, these Asian women like to have Asian guys as a back up plan in case they don't get a white guy to commit to them. It's silly yes, but women are very selfish creatures that more often than not see men as not a unique person with their own wants, dreams, and personalities, but as a way to fulfill their own wants, dreams, and to improve their social status. Human behavior is disgusting at times, but we just have to make the best of it by being Stoic and not bending over to the will of others, especially self-serving women such as these irrational Asian girls you've mentioned. Not to say all women are like this, but it's a safe conclusion to assume that most are.

kick6 · 2015-01-28T20:51:00+00:00

Simple: the asian dating model is explicitly fuck other races, have asian beta orbiters, eventually cash in on an asian beta orbiter when they hit the wall.

This falls apart if asian men aren't playing their role as beta orbiters.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-01-28T14:53:14+00:00

This is basically the same thing that is happening in the Black community. Nothing new to see here folks just a different shade!

JustApproach · 2015-01-29T04:40:21+00:00

Bro it's called jealousy. This happens in all ethnicities. Maybe not to that bad a level but it happens a lot.

Try being a black guy that dates outside his race. Not only do black women get mad at us for no logical reason but other ethnicities get mad at us just because of our skin color.

How would you feel if you love a girl and she loves you, you both are doing great health wise, academic wise, career wise, financialy, and living situation is good as well. Yet her family won't accept you because of your ethnicity/race. They would rather someone of their own kind date their daughter even if they are of lower status just because of something you are born with and cannot change.

This alsp has happen to me before with a girl due to religious reasons. Because I am an Atheist even though the girl I was dating was fine with it her parents did not get along with me because of it.

"It's not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize,accept,and celebrate those differences."

[deleted] · 2015-01-29T03:38:49+00:00

It's because he goes past the limitations placed upon him in society. She's been conditioned to think Asian men are pathetic, but your friend doesn't fit this image. After having their fun whoring around during college they're mad that they're losing on some guy they can trap into as being a beta provider for them. What kind of Asian guy who has potential value wants to waste their time with those Asian women who will give them low sexual rewards? Most Asian women in western countries are a lost cause and Asian guys have to go above and beyond expectations to satisfy them. What an annoyance, I rather go for other types of women such as white, black, and latina girls. Currently society can't except an Asian guy being put into a sexual light. The hate is not personal, it's irrational and stems from jealously. So if you're an Asian guy just keep on being successful and rustling people's jimmies. So in point those women are dumb as fuck and a waste of resources. They're irrational and dumb bimbos that can easily be replaced.

Also it's because they have internalized being Asian is inferior. If you haven't noticed there is literally masculine representations of Asian men. An Asian guy in this time won't be cast as a suave man who bangs women of all races. Though they're respected they don't get the bad boy vibe. Now the Asian guy is actually a man, it's goes against her thoughts of what she was conditioned to think of Asian men being beta. My advice for Asian guys to rustle their jimmies and keep on spitting on the stereotype of Asians being plebs.

the_red_scimitar · 2015-01-28T22:27:36+00:00

Easy. It's been pointed out often that Asian women, on the CC, almost NEVER go for Asian men, during their AF phase. And I've seen this echoed in many online dating profiles of Asian women (i.e. "I don't date Asian men").

But when they hit the wall, and look for the BB, they go back to their culture.

If the Asian men start marrying outside the culture, the pool of BB Asian men for the now-"reformed" Asian CC-riders will be reduced. More competition amongst the ladies for the (probably lower valued) remnants.

[deleted] · 2015-01-28T22:59:35+00:00

How can the red pill explain what is going on this situation?

They view Asian men as having low sexual market value, and white people in general as having higher sexual market value. So it fucks with their system to see a low SMV guys - whom they may have considered back-up options - being with girls who are higher SMV than them.

redkudu1980 · 2015-01-29T03:50:55+00:00

I would say 50% of Asian American women date exclusively Asian men. In their eyes, Asian men that date outside their race are the sell-outs. The RP is pretty vocal about the other 50%.

FLFTW16 · 2015-01-28T12:56:48+00:00

Both men and women engage in the shame game. I live in Thailand, I date a Thai woman. I'm white. You should see the looks I/we get. Looks of jealousy from Asian women who wish they had a white man. Looks of disapproval from Asian incel men. Looks of disgust from doughy, pale white women that thought they would be on a pedestal in Asia but--oops, it turns out fat people aren't attractive here.

Women are keen to market forces. Hence why so many American women are fat slobs. They know that most American men are thirsty, overweight betas, so they can eat all the krispy kremes their hearts desire because they only have to be not the fattest around to score a BB at the end of their CC ride.

WeCantHaveFun · 2015-01-28T07:14:28+00:00

Why is selfishness so mystifying?

It's simple human nature to hoard.

I_Did_It_My_Way · 2015-01-28T12:14:09+00:00

Maybe this is a new phenomenom, I don't know, but I mostly see Korean (applying to all Asians here) girls with their own race a lot of the time. A lot of these people are first generation and second generation Koreans that still have a strong family prescence back home who would look down upon them if they majorly dated outside of their race.

I was hooking up with this one Korean chick for like a month and I took her virginity, but I could never see myself possibly LTR her. Despite the fact that she was a grade a promiscous chick in the making (already had multiple "hook up" partners), the family prescense back home was overwhelming even though she is in college. I remember that I gave her hickey on the lower part of her neck and parents flipped shit and caused a huge scene.

I don't know how this applies, but from my experience I feel like Asians are far more likely to "date around" with other races while trying to marry into their own out of cultural pressures.

clam61 · Wed Jan 28 22:46:18 2015 UTC

Most of the time the Asian girls that "refuse" to date Asian guys is because those girls are too ugly/fat for Asian guys and need to switch leagues by dating others to become the exotic fruit. I see this all the time.

They then get pissed off and transfer their bitterness into hateful comments.

DaphneDK · 2015-01-28T11:22:16+00:00

I just don't get the entire situation in this regard. The Asian girl that refuses to date Asian guys gets to see these same Asian guys go interracial and not date girls like her, shouldn't she be happy?

Why do you assume there is an overlap between 1) the Korean girls that don't like Koreans men dating non-Korean girls, and 2) the Korean girls that are themselves dating non-Korean men?

In any case Korea is a bit notorious for being rather racist. Koreans, men and women, dating non-Koreans are going to get some flack. And I think Korean girls are more likely to hear nasty comments than Korean men in this regard.

TheHusband1 · 2015-06-28T19:34:04+00:00

obviously, those asian women are just bitter that asian men considered them ugly and never gave them the light of day. after all, it's kind of hard to take them seriously when the asian women who DO like asian men always tend to be noticeably more attractive than those who like white men.

starfeeder · 2015-07-02T19:42:04+00:00

I've never noticed that, only that white guys hate seeing it

JustApproach · 2015-02-25T18:46:44+00:00

Have any if you guys seen an Asian guy doing a porno with a non-asian girl? Exactly neither have I. It's sucks that you Asian guys don't get anything positive in the sexual market especially with the media always joining about you guys.

You guys need to figure out a way to reform the system show that you have an opportunity to show the world you can be alpha too.

chill1995 · 2015-01-29T01:26:54+00:00

All the guys over at /r/Asianmasculinity look so fucking insecure whenever the topic of interracial dating comes up. You guys need to work on yourself and live for yourself.

surfjihad · 2015-01-29T06:27:00+00:00

Indian women have replaced Jews as being the most entitled spoiled women on the market

Title	Asian American women that refuse to date Asian guys but hate the fact that those same Asian guys go interracial.
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Date	January 28, 2015 5:49 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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