Summary: Some weeks back I run into this text History of a Psychotic (F)iance who cheated after 5 years of dating, and 1 year of being engaged - A Good Lesson to Not Stick Your Dick in Crazy and AWALT.
Warning: Behold is a record of the hamster at work. Psychotic Solipsism at it's finest. Mind-numbing spinning ahead.
Starts Part 1 here So the background here is: Girl/fiancée cheated on this guy after 5 years of dating and 1 year of being engaged.
One week before their engagement anniversary vacation, he caught her having sex with some coworker - IN THEIR APARTMENT. AWALT. Doesn't matter if you were stupid enough to put a ring on her finger. Female hypergamy is real. So she couldn't resist acting on the random tingles she has always felt for "Chad from Sales", especially now that she was going to get married. In her mind, this was probably OK, because they weren't officially married yet, and he would never find out anyhow, right? The hamster knows no limits guys.
Apparently some time has gone by, and she comes back and tries to get him to "forgive her." She can't seem to understand why he hasn't!!
The guy here was probably a Beta bucks, but wakes up after the fact. IMO was lucky to even have found out. Not to mentioned that she could have been fucking her co-worker for years while they dated. She texts him:
She: One person and one mistake shouldn't separate us forever. I want you to put it aside and be my friend again and more. Him: You threw it all away when you jumped on someone else's dick in our apartment. I haven't forgiven you and I won't.
I seriously doubt that it was one person, but we never get to see the trickle of truth. So after she got on her coworker's dick, apparently that was just an accidental "mistake" and this guy is supposed to "put it aside." Hmm interesting. Would it work the other way around, I wonder?
She spins it now on him:
you're are being irrational and stubborn. Be the bigger person here.
So she thinks that even though she cheated causing their engagement to be destroyed, he's supposed to be the bigger person AKA "be a man" and take her back!? There is enough spin here to warp time and space.
He rebuffs her illogical crap, and tell her "she will get nothing" from him. There is some hope for this guy.
The cream on top is this reply from her:
I slipped up. I did not want to be in a relationship with him, not at all. You were the one who was supposed to stay. I didn't leave to. [sic] I forgive you for leaving.
"You were the one who was supposed to stay." RP truth. From the horse's own mouth. Just golden. So according to her, he's the one that needs to be forgiven by her now, for "leaving her." Here she's basically telling him: you're the BETA orbiter/sucker/provider, alpha Chad's have never stayed after they pounded me silly, so you have to! You have to! If this doesn't make you RP idk what will.
The rest speaks for itself, I won't type it here.
BUT WAIT! That's not all! It's not over yet! Here's part 2!
So some time passes and she now got a new phone number, found out his new number, STALKED HIM. Let this be a lesson on "don't stick in crazy" not matter how irresistible, cuz you never know how deep the rabbit hole goes with crazy.
A few memorable bits:
I apologized, now it's your turn. Don't you know how this works? I let you have your childish space but it's time to be serious.
RED ALERT! I don't even know where to being to describe the insanity that MUST be behind those words. To this bitch, the fact that he left due to her fucking someone else while she was engaged to him was just his "childish space!"
Now comes's The CROWN JEWEL:
She writes after he's now concerned she's stalking him, knows where he lives, who he's hanging out with:
You want to know how serous [sic] I am. We're fixing it or fucking else. I know where you live. I'm going to come there and were sitting down and fucking talking or we're fucking done. You don't get to insult me and embarrass me in front of my friends. I will make you pay. I will show you waht you did wrong.
You'd think she'd hit rock bottom with her stalking. It didn't stop there. Obviously she deserves a medal for being more psychotic than the average womyn, but this happens nowadays way too often. One of my brother's "ghetto-honey" ex, who cheated on him, came to our house to "beat him up" for having dumped her! Crazies know no bounds or logic, guys. So be careful.
At this point, in his shoes, if I knew she was stalking me, I would already be concealed carrying, outfitted my house with security cams and gotten a restraining order.
Lessons:
- Don't ever let it come to this.
- Don't stick your dick in crazy, and as soon as the warning signs come up for violence, get a restraining order. not because you're afraid of, but to make sure you have the legal upper hand if shit hits the fan.
- With the current legal system, men have everything to lose and womyn all to gain from confrontations.
- AWALT, but some womyn are WAY worse. There's always the overachievers.
- Some are so VILE, they will spin themselves crazy, and knowing the "system" favors her, will use that to cause you harm.
This guy should've gotten a restraining order YEARS AGO, just a few months after leaving her. That's the only sure fire way of keeping a psycho ex away, and putting the law a bit on your side.
I would not wanna know what would happen if that psycho ex had caught this guy unprepared (no restraining order), showed up on his doorstep tomorrow "demanding an apology" in order to "fix things or else"... and things escalated.
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