It is said that communication is 55% body language. Chances are that as a former beta you carry yourself like a submissive bitch. Retraining your body to project confidence is the most important thing you can do for yourself.
You have swallowed the red pill and are now in the process of improving your life. This is good. Allow me to be among the first to welcome you into a world that has been shielded from you for your entire life. If you are like most, then the first six months of this journey will be the hardest. You are going to the gym, you are reading everything you can about masculinity and game, you are re-evaluating your friends and family, and you are phasing out everything in your life that is non-essential as you find yourself for the first time.
Now that you are armed with knowledge, it is time to go out and conquer the largest obstacle of your life thus far, women. However, the results don’t come right away, why might this be? You are still projecting the nervous beta your former self was. Referring back to this study by Reina Lopez-Ozieblo from Honk Kong Polytechnic University, 55% of all communication is nonverbal. If this is true, then your weak body language has already lost the battle for you. She will never see you as an alpha worthy of submission but rather an ATM for when it’s time to settle down. This is why the lame pickup lines you have always heard work for the alpha men, no matter how cheesy they are.
What are you doing to project such weakness? Odds are you have no idea as weakness has been forced on you since you were a child, so here is a chance for some real introspection. I want you to observe closely at how these two men look example 1, example 2. Who would you trust with your life? This is what you must focus on because primally women seek protection. What makes James Bond so powerful is that he is not afraid to claim his territory. The first thing you must understand about dominant body language is that you cannot be afraid to claim your space. Evolutionarily speaking, our limbic brain is hard wired to always protect us. The man in example 2 is threatened, you can see that by how he is making himself small, using his arms to block himself from attack. By claiming your territory, you are sending a signal subconsciously that you are unafraid of attack, confident, dominant. Women only seek alpha men because they show that they can protect them and their babies. Now look back on your interactions with women, or men, or anyone for that matter. How were you standing when you had a positive interaction? A negative one?
In addition, there is a physiological link between dominant body language and your endocrine system. This study conducted at Columbia and Harvard University correlated behavioral and neuroendocrine changes with body language. For example, power poses held for a mere two minutes resulted in greater than 20% increase in testosterone levels. With this knowledge we can determine that your weak body language is literally making you a pussy that nobody respects. Women will respond to somebody who will protect her from danger. High testosterone and high confidence in body displays will subconsciously prime her to get wet for you.
Luckily the cure for your weakness is simple, you just have to commit to doing it. Stand up straight and take control of your territory. When that HB8 over by the bar eye fucks the shit out of you because you’re so self-assured and confident, demanding respect as a result of your inner strength, you’ll have already done most of the work before you ever say a word to her. See how your interactions change.
- Carney, D. R., Cuddy, A. J., & Yap, A. J. (2010). Power Posing: Brief Nonverbal Displays Affect Neuroendocrine Levels and Risk Tolerance. Psychological Science, 1-6.
- Gilly, M. C., & Griffiths, M. A. (2009). A Typology of Consumer Territorial Rudeness. Advances in Consumer Research, 1-2.
- Lopez-Oziblo, R. (2013). Reflections on the Use of Nonverbal Communication in teaching Spanish to sino-speakers. Revista de Lenguas para Fines Específicos, 20.
Act like a bitch, you will get treated like one.
Win the battle before it starts, if a woman sees you weak before you say a word to her, you will never have success with her.
Start monitoring how you carry yourself throughout the day. If you carry yourself with dominance you will be dominant.
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