Intro
There was a post not too long ago on TRP where a poster wrote about how if a girls feet are pointed to you that's where real attention lies, and that's just one of many signs.
Individually these signs don't mean jack, so you have to keep your eyes open for multiple signs aka clusters. I'll let you in on some large noticeable signs that may be largely ignored so that you can find a DTF chick at night.
Body
Body language like the name implies is the language of the body. If you can read it properly you can really know what a person is really saying or how they feel TO AN EXTENT. Unless you have some degree of autism, we all have a natural read of body language that's pretty universal since they are remnants of our actual evolution.
To give you a good grasp, I'll say there are a few things you want keep your eyes open for and you can derive a lot of behavior from these actions.
Blocking - What would you do if a brown bear was going to maul you? 99% of people that want to live will curl up in a ball, and cover their vital spots. That's blocking behavior. It's a consequence of our freeze, flight, or fight response. The opposite of this would be opening up or exposing.
Pacifying - Like a kid who sleeps with a blanket, we have sub conscious habits to pacify during stress. Think of nail biting, hand rubbing, rubbing your legs on your thighs when sitting, or licking your lips, and face touching. Remember, the stress can be good or bad stress, it's up to you to read it.
Submissive/dominant (low confidence/high confidence) - There are many of these, but think of posture. Holding the head up high and letting your body be exposed, vs making yourself as small as possible. Think of a kid when he's getting yelled at. He's turtling his head, he has his arms close to his body and is making himself as small as possible. I'm sure you can imagine what a confident stance looks like. Power poses are good examples.
What to look for in the girl
This is more for girls that are dtf. You might as well stop reading if you're looking for a gf or something you have to work for. Girls that sleep with guys are comfortable with being touched and things like that since they are used to being manhandled by random dudes at times. It's why a lot of them aren't ticklish. It's a random observation, but I find it to be generally true.
If a girl is a prude, or is the victim of genuine abuse then she won't be comfortable with being touched. If you want to date these girls, go for it, but you shouldn't be looking for your soulmate at a grimy bar or club either way.
I'll break this stuff down from bottom up, so feet to head, and in the context of the bar, and the bedroom where you are escalating.
Feet - People are great at lying with their faces, but they suck at lying with their feet. If they're feet are pointed away from you and she's turning her body to talk to you, she's probably not down, and she's most likely wasting your time. If one is pointed away and one towards you she's basically pointing to where she wants to go. You might as well be the one to take her there i.e. bar, dance floor, lounge.
In the bedroom, if she's comfortable where she's at she may have her shoes off or she does that thing girls do where they let their heels or flats dangle off their toes. That means she wants to stay. She starts putting those shoes on then she's down to leave and your fucking up.
If she's playing footsies with you or letting her feet touch you then she's pretty into you and may want to touch your private parts or give you a foot job or something.
Genitals If her panties are drenched after meeting you then she probably likes you.
Torso If she leans her torso closer to you, that's a good thing. She leans it away, then that's bad. Think of how a girl sits on the train when a gross smelly person sits next to them.
If she leaves her torso very exposed, aka she shows off lots of cleavage and isn't covering her stomach with her arms then she's comfortable and probably down for you.
If she starts covering up those warlocks and is doing some blocking behavior such as literally putting minor objects between the two of you then that's bad. Think of people sitting across from eachother at starbucks (Fuck Starbucks go somewhere else). If the girl is putting her purse on the table between her and her date then that's not good. If she leans back in her seat then that's not good. If you look under the table and you see that her feet are pulled back close to her body then that guy probably won't be getting any.
Arms Again if she's doing blocking behavior, subtly covering her face eyes, chest or whatever with her arms then she's trying to block out unpleasant stimuli aka your penis or advancement in general. If she's touching you then that's good. She wants you inside of her. If she's performing pacifying behaviors such as rubbing her hands or arms or legs or something along those lines then you have to read the context of the situation.
Face - I wouldn't rely on this because we are very trained to lie with our faces. Learn to tell the difference between a fake smile and a genuine smile. Look it up with Bing or some shit.
Eyes - When a girl was into me I could tell right away because they did what I call the retard stare, turns out it's called flashbulb eyes. Either way it's when a girl or guys eyes light up real wide and their pupils dilate in response to something they like. If she starts squinting immediately afterward and their isn't a bright light in her face, then that's an example of blocking behavior and there is something she doesn't like and she is trying to block it out.
Disclaimer - INDIVIDUALLY these signs can mean nothing. Girl could be cold so she has her arms wrapped around her body. There's something bothering her eyes so she's squinting. She really has somewhere to go so her feet are pointed in that direction. You have to read the situation as well. If she's wrapping her arms around her body and it's 104 F then well she is obviously not cold. If she touches a lot, she could just be Italian or Hispanic and it's a cultural thing. However, if she doesn't do that to anyone else and she does it to you then it's a different story
Conclusion
These are useful things to keep your eyes open for, but I can't teach you common sense. You have to read the context and read the situation, and hopefully screen your way through to girls who are cool and comfortable with being touched. The signs are all there, just keep your eyes open.
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