I´ll just give you a little background about my thoughts: I´ve been lurking here for a few months, and consider most of the things written here as objective realities that any rational person should agree. The only thing that I don´t really share is why hypergamy and a high sex count in women are necessarily a bad thing. Yeah yeah, you can start throwing me things before I explain myself, but I invite you to keep reading.

First, we should consider what I want. *WHAT DO I REALLY WANT? Right now, mostly casual sex. *I don´t NEED a woman by my side, specially after a 3 year relationship that ended a few months ago. I just want to be free, have casual relationships and nothing to limit me in any aspect (economy, time, projects and things I want to do). All with abundance mentality (and reality). This translates into "like my rules? come and fuck me, but don´t ask for much more unless it´s me the one who wants it, and if I do, I´ll ask for it".

This would mean that, basically, any women riding the CC is still a good suitor for me. I´m part of the 20% that does not have many problems to find a woman, and if all I want is casual sex, then why should feminism and "explore (AF) until you hit the wall and marry a beta provider (BB)" be a problem?. I´m mostly not interested in LTR right now. Easy girls are a benefit for me. This casual culture means more girls are open to fuck me with less time investment from me, and I don´t even have to lie about it.

My game currently consists of tinder and happn. Multiple matches, talk to some of them, and invite them directly home. No bar, not moving. Just come, and my intentions are of course fucking (but not limited to only that, depends if I like you, but first fuck me and if you pass that filter maybe I´ll see you again or even do cool stuff with you, but not commit).

Surprisingly even to myself, this has been super easy. Girls are willing to come home and adapt to my plans. I could see two beautiful girls daily if I wanted to, it´s just a numbers game. I admit I use part of my day just hitting matches and chatting, but it works, it´s free and it´s time friendly.

Would I have been able to do this in the past? Probably not. Conservative society didn´t allow girls to be like this. It was a shameful behaviour. Casual sex? No. Having sex on the first meeting? No. Having sex with someone who you don´t want a relationship with? Hell no. Why am I able to do this? Because of feminism and those ideals. In this case, I´m having the other side of the story: I get to fuck frequently, for free (no dates, not even moving out of my home), with little time investment. It´s even functional to my life right now.

And know what? The more experience she has, generally also means the better sex I have. The more experienced Chads they fucked, the more they learned and free of mind they are. No complex situations, no shy women afraid of me, no "what will he think about this".

This is probably what will be the most disturbing thing in my mentality for you: I don´t really care about her sex count, even considering the woman for a LTR. Why? Ok, again. WHAT DO I WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP?

I want a free woman. Educated, professional. Independent. Not needy, and that let´s me be as free as her. Loyal, but that doesn´t depend on my in any way. Egalitarian, she pays her share, always. I don´t pay for anything that´s not mine, and she accepts it as normal, not as a rude dude who´s an antifeminist. I want her to be exactly like me mentally: we´re together because we want it.

I want to have good sex. I´m competitive as fuck, and know that what I offer is not easy to find. I want to be the best guy available, not for her, but for me. If she´s still riding the CC, and she decides to leave me for another Chad that´s better than me, at least I got my share while it lasted... hey, maybe I´d even change her for a younger, hotter girl too! Why can I change her, but she can´t? Come on, I can´t be hypocrite on this one.

Is it bad? Depends. If you´re on the low value scale, then it is. Conservative women are your best bet: she needs you, and is the only / one of the few men she tried. The less she sees, the better. You can´t compete with alpha men that triggers attraction on her, you have to defend what´s yours as you can.

In my case, I don´t care. I think she can´t find better, and if she thinks she did, good luck when trying to come back to me. If she eventually finds something better, good for her, and for me, as she wasn´t worth it at all and it´s doing me a favour by leaving. Despite hypergamy and AWALT, a woman can settle with a high value man because he can in fact be unique as a package.

All that matters to me is what she is now. I wouldn´t allow infidelity, no matter what, being it sexual or emotional. No flexibility there. If she had enough, then she won´t feel curious about what she might be losing outside, and realise she´s making a great deal with me. If she didn´t have enough yet, well, appreciate what you have and don´t feel curious about what´s outside because once you try something and infidelity starts, it´s goodbye, no excuses.

In the end, I don´t really care about her sex count. It´s just a number. If she had a lot, it´s ok. If she didn´t, it´s the same. I only care about myself, and how she´s with me. In fact, I don´t even ask her about her count. I don´t care. Be free, and don´t ask me about it either. I´m free too, and will continue to be free, just that I won´t try infidelity nor accept yours.

That´s my two cents. Now you can throw me things and enlighten me too.