TL;DR

Live in grounded, rational reality and build your confidences & competencies on real and rational foundations.

Don't try to become Confident & Victorious in a strategy that is essentially irrational, self-defeating and pointless. It's a waste of effort.

Confidence. The most important attribute in the entire universe, according to every self-help book and guru and Chad and Stacey on the planet. For good reason.

But I'm not here to teach you what Confidence looks like or how to obtain it. It's plain to see and impossible to directly teach.

I'm here to drop bombs and break brains. You can go do the work and reading to build up what you want built. Side bar to the right. Heard? Good. Now on to the fireworks.

Next time you have a twitch and need to ask yourself if you're Battle Ready & able to crush the challenge of the moment, lean back and ask yourself:

What am I trying to be confident about? What am I trying to CONTROL for or ANTICIPATE or LET GO of?

If your answer is: I want to be confident and assured about the absolute sexual and emotional loyalty of my Unicorn.... YOU'RE OFF TARGET.

This will blow up in your face, guaranteed.

This in the same family as all of these mistakes:

*Trying to use TRP tools to achieve BP dreams

*Holding out for the idea that NAWALT even after all you've seen and learned

Etc.

Some of this comes down to experience and nuance. Some of it answers to ambition and ego. How stubborn are you? How long does it take you to accept the lessons right in front of you? How long?

The deeper truth to understand is, you cannot build real Confidence on irrational foundations.

Aiming for the loyalty of a single female is about as irrational as it gets these days. You have to be willing to fully let go.

So consider the comparisons below and decide which life to live. It's your Time. Your Strength. Your Energy. Spend wisely.

Spinning Plates:

*Confidence obtained after some time, hitting fitness and game goals

*Repeatable, tangible, provable. Search cost for plate material is cheap provided you've "paid your dues"

*ROI grows and grows over time

Committing to Unicorns:

*Gotta be better than any guy she ever meets on a lifelong timeline both in her irrational hamster brain and reality (impossible task even for Chad Thundercock III.. there is always a bigger fish)

*Gotta find her first, the 0.1% of the 1% female who would be worthy of the guy who is better than anyone. Search cost huge.

Confidence about having a Girlfriend/Partner, Not Caring if she Cheats in the Zen-abstract sense, and being able to replace her quickly or having "2 in the kitty" all along:

  • Takes some serious inner-game and abundance. The internalization of female nature and acceptance that all things end, even good, nourishing, beautiful relationships.

  • Takes value and knowing you have it

  • Doable, provable, repeatable, etc.

Other examples of confidence are more intuitive for men, so less emphasis, being that they are more rational intrinsically than women usually are:

  • physical strength / confidence

  • situational awareness

  • making money

  • Having enough food / access to healthcare

Summary:

Lots of young guys tryna climb the ladder unable to bench their ego long enough to focus on what matters. On what's real.

Live in grounded, rational reality and build your confidences & competencies on real and rational foundations.

Don't try to become Confident & Victorious in a strategy that is essentially irrational, self-defeating and pointless. It's a waste of effort.

My overall point here is trying to get guys to think about what they are trying to control. Letting go of things they cannot control. Accepting female nature for what it is, and realizing that it actually makes The Game easier when you do.

If you walk around the world with your Unicorn-goggles on, only looking for the Perfect One, you gonna be looking for a like time.

Furthermore if you are only ever trying to evangelize that perfect ideal, you will never be able to rest, never be able to calm, never be able to let go of fear and doubt, and never be able to believe and live in True Abundance.

**Women are easier than you are willing to believe. That's because once you take them off the pedestal, all the bullshit disappears and you are left with the mundane reality or THOTs, "models" and "housewives". It is shocking and ugly and jarring and leaves a void where it was once.

Fill that void up with Self-Love and Discipline.**

Sovereign Out