Coming from asktrp I’ve noticed a lot of guys asking what do they do in X situation... how do they respond to Y when she says Z...

While in the past, especially years ago - when I used to use asktrp to fine tune certain aspects of my game or my understanding of specific theories, asktrp was an invaluable resource. It has now become inundated with individuals who have zero grasp of even the most fundamental RP concepts. If you know you have not put in the work to understand the theory, but are asking for situational advice, you are violating one of the most basic, foundational red pill concepts. One of the few concepts that scales into “advanced” game - if you will... You have not learned enough to know that Congruence is the name of the game.

“What should I do if Sally is busy selling seashells and she flakes on our date?” Well kid... the truth is there are dozens, if not hundreds, if not thousands of different actions you can take. When you askTRP about how to get back your oneitis after you caught wind she was fucking Chad underneath the bleachers during the homecoming football game... We can tell you millions of different roads to take.. but how did the people who are giving the advice (the good advice) know what to tell you?

They likely advised you to do what works well for them. And that is where congruence comes in to play. Let’s be honest.. will every line in RP theory apply directly to your life? Unless you’re in a very specific demographic the answer to that is an overwhelming no.

Even without knowing any RP theory, not knowing any game, not even knowing your dick from your brain... how did the first PUAs figure out what pickup lines to use? Congruence. What works AND feels good... and what they learned is that if it feels good, you’re much more likely to make it work.

And this is fundamentally what a lot of you kids don’t understand. I call you kids because even though you may be 18-50+ years old - you have no foundation. You have no reference experiences. You’re like babies in the real world... Enter the sidebar.

“..Read the sidebar..” or for tired trp/asktrp vets: “sidebar”. Why are you getting this response to your 2000 character, heartfelt, post about how your LTR is telling you shes staying late into the night at Chad Thundercocks house so they can finish their group project that isn’t due for another month?! Because you have demonstrated you don’t know shit about shit. You have demonstrated you don’t even know the foundational basics... you’re effectively like a pre-schooler that can’t read or write walking into a 400 level college lecture, asking the professor whatever question comes to mind.

Is this really a read the sidebar post? Pretty much. But it’s because when you read the sidebar and internalize the theory you learn a few basics that open the door to an advanced understanding of the world we live in and the numerous dynamics at play. Most importantly, you gain the ability to vet yourself, self-critique objectively, and even advise yourself.. like you are your own big brother. You won’t need asktrp unless you’re bored or have a rare, ethnic/demographic specific, question.

Now lets finish on congruence... How do you know what to say in any situation? You say what feels right. Simple. Why is this a problem for some of you? Why does what you say fail/get you into trouble/screw up opportunities? Because you are talking trash - you don’t know what you’re talking about, what you’re saying doesn’t make sense... your game sucks and your bars stink.

How do you fix this? Well first you need a foundation. One that is significantly more red pill than whatever you have now. How do you get that? You’re going to have to subconsciously ingrain the RP concepts into yourself. So many of you fight this, obviously, because you have the nerve to post questions without any understanding of anything RP. This concept is even the in bible - “do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind”... even the religious folk know that sometimes you’ve been taught garbage.. that is not your fault. What is your fault is that you continue to roam the earth, peddling the same shit strategy/mindset that is clearly getting you fucked up results...

the funniest of all these guys are the multitude that have read a few pages on outcome independence, or abundance mentality, and without applying these concepts to their life are running around terrorizing the same tired, unsuspecting women with the “alpha mentality” that they learned from watching 15 minute videos on youtube. There are no shortcuts... everything can’t be spelled out to you. the “Naturals” either were taught by alpha role models (which are rare AF) or learned through trial and error. You are neither. You are a beta. You were born and bred to be this way. Read the sidebar, in its entirety, and start to take intelligent, informed action. And pretty soon you will know the options you have at your disposal.. and sooner than you think, you’ll start to leave your training wheels by the wayside... all the beginner tools like canned game and dating coach advice will be a thing of the past, and you will trust your gut, because you will have a gut worth trusting.

... And you’ll only ever do what feels natural and congruent.