Please forgive me if I come across as a braggardly asshole, but here we go:

A few months ago I was laying in bed with a fashion model whose SMV was a good 3 points above mine. I'm middle-aged and overweight and I was wondering "WHY"? At one pont she cooed to me that I am a "nice guy".

Under the circumstances, I had to take it as a compliment, but I needed a bunch of mental gymnastics to make sense of it.

I figure there are 3 concepts of the "nice guy", and only the last is functional.

The first nice guy simply tries too hard and then gets frustrated when no results follow. They pedastilize women, worship the ground they walk on, and then go all Elliot Rodger when they don't get laid.

Don't be this "nice guy".

The second is the emotional tampon who sucks up all their bullshit emotions. They are the shoulder to cry on but are not going to put their dick in her vag.

Don't be this "nice guy".

The functional "nice guy" has a high DNGAF quotient. Enjoy life and enjoy the experience of meeting new people. You don't have to game. IME, model gorgeous women find it rather disarming when you treat them like human beings.