-Use AskTRP Cautiously

This place is a great tool. It can get you out of situations, help you get over a breakup, or give you a well needed reality check. However, there is also numerous the comments go to extreme. For example you mention anything about your LTR not texting back, her going out to ladies night, or anything that falls in between there is some dude who will comment

“she has chad’s cock in her mouth.” “End the relationship it’s over.” “She’s losing attraction.” “She obviously has someone else already.”

It’s alarming the number of times I’ve been told to end my shit because of AskTRP when in reality, the problem was nothing more than my girl being on her period or having a bad day. I understand AWALT is a popular philosophy here, but sometimes, you just need to ride out a storm. Just cause your girlfriend isn’t texting back it does not mean it’s time to push the big red button.

 

-GNO is Relationship Ending

This is so damn ridiculous. Like honestly? If you have a girl who you can’t trust to go out with her girlfriends why the fuck are you dating her? I get it. It’s a bad environment and I get it mistakes can be made, but if she’s going to cheat she’s going to cheat. Instead of letting her have all this resentment to go out and have a drink turn into one huge blackout night of a mess, let her have her freedom. Chances are she’ll reward you for it and trust that you truly are a high status man. This doesn’t mean if she goes out twice a week to stick around, I have my boundaries set on that. But the occasional ladies night? “ok babe, have fun.”

 

-Always Be Judging Her Actions

This can send people down a rabbit hole with no light at the end of the tunnel. If all your doing is judging your girls actions all the time is that even living? “Oh she’s not as affectionate as yesterday better dread game her.” “Did she just smile at that guy? Guess it’s time to break up.” TRP goes to extreme so damn fast. Follow patterns and follow a collection of bad traits. If you’re constantly evaluating everything in your relationship that’s when anxiety breeds and she becomes the only thing on your mind. This is how you get into relationships where you’re only doing this to see if she acts accordingly. “Ok, I’m going to push super hard for sex tonight to make sure she still wants me.” Then you get denied because you were acting like a needy bitch and lose your mind. You should be living your life and enjoying her company, not living inside of your head.

 

-If You Don’t Fuck on The First Date It’s Over

What? I honestly had to wait until the fourth date to finally pull one of my girls. Red Pill called me an idiot, told me that she was sleeping with someone else and laughing at me, that I had no game…. Me and that girl had sex three times a day every time we chilled for our whole relationship. I introduced her to handcuffs all that jazz, and if I would have listened to the community on this I would have been at home alone on a tinder app for that great relationship. Sometimes a girl really is trying not to get hurt by some asshole or wants to see if you’re serious. Give some benefit of the doubt. By this, I don’t mean become her gay best friend either. Always make sure when you’re seeing a new girl that you’re moving forward in keno and the intensity. Make out -> feeling up -> etc. Don’t doom yourself because a girl is trying you.

 

-Never Pay For Anything

Call me old-fashioned, but this is extreme. Sure, don’t buy her Loui Viton purses, or help her with her car payments, or spoil her. Don’t make yourself that pathetic. But, if you take your girl on a date? Definitely, pay that shit. You just took her somewhere basically without her trying to and then expect her to drop $20 when she was just planning on sitting at home? That’s stupid man. I will say though, watch your girls actions here. My current girl is always buying me drinks and food, so I’m happy to treat her more often than not.

 

-Purposely Ignoring Your Girl Randomly

This is silly and childish. Sure, if you’re with the boys, working, or at the gym do not text her. But if you wake up one morning and say to yourself “today I’m not going to text me LTR all day to create some lust,” your naïve.

 

-Don’t Have Deep Talks

What is the point of a relationship if you can’t talk to them? Sure, this is great for plate theory but demanding this to everyone makes them assume they have to be a human-less robot with their girl. I’ve been with girls where we talked about everything from habits to human nature, and the attraction never fell once. Don’t hide behind a wall with fear of losing her, find someone you can be free with. That you can share stuff with. That can take you on a epic voyage with you two laughing hand in hand about the absurdities of life knowing damn well you found someone you can be yourself with.

 

-Lift

Nothing to say here. Something you need to be doing and the cardinal rule of this sub.

 

There is more to add but this long enough. I also want to make a quick disclaimer here that I’m a DJ who is constantly getting attention and has a pretty big social group so my SMV may be higher than some and I can get away with more stuff. However, at the end of the day, ANYBODY can be living by these rules. TRP tends to take this one size fits all approach because most here is a sad boy with a broken heart by a girl. Think about who is giving advice sometimes. Of course, the guy who got cheated on is going to rip you a new one when you talk about your relationship woes. Trust me, man. It’s not that serious. Have fun, live your life, be free, and expect the pieces to fall where they will.