Desperately Seeking The Wolf

To understand the Allegory of the Wolf, one must first understand that men and women are not equal, in the sense that it is used currently in society.

Let me repeat: Men and women are NOT equal. There. I said it. Cue bloopers and tourists having the vapors and shrieking: “OMG! Vaz! You MISOGYNIST! You SEXIST!! You RACIST!!”

Me: “Racist?”

Bloopers: “Sorry, we were rolling. You know how we get.”

Me: “Ok. But as Eric Clapton would say, ‘Hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on’.”

I don’t HATE women, I simply UNDERSTAND them. There’s a difference. In point of fact, I wrote a top level post about how I DON’T hate women, nor do I think anyone should Because, fellas, you shouldn’t. You simply remove toxic people (whether men or women) from your life, and you vibe with the girls you vibe with. I don’t try to “force” women into the “Good Girl”

As for being sexist, the fuck right I am, but in the way that women dig. Read on.

Equal is NOT Identical

This is actually the rub of the problem.

As /u/Protocol_Apollo wrote in a recent post: “The blue pill teaches men and women are the same in every way, biological differences don’t exist.”

This is factual. When the ¡Feministas! claim that "MeNz and WimMinZ are muh EQUALZ!!" what they really mean is "Identical" and that's entirely false.1 One can believe that humans are equal in intrinsic value as human beings (think like how the Quakers will say that anyone can have the "inner light") while simultaneously accepting that men and women are NOT identical. We are intended to be complementary. Men as hunter/killers and women as lovers/nurturers. The latter, in the Grand Bargain Between Men and Women trade sex and fertility for food and protection. It is what it is. So when I say I am “sexist” it is because women actually favor men who display “benevolent sexism” – they perceive (correctly) that once the Zombie Apocalypse happens, men who are “Benevolent Sexists” will be willing to protect them and share resources in exchange for sex, child care, cooking and some light housework.2

Even Good Girls Want To Be Bad Girls

According to the Washington Post, nearly 2/3 of women fantasize about being dominated sexually. If you believe Psychology Today 80% of women fantasize about being tied up.

Oh, and per Nat Geo/Ipsos, less than one-third of American women identify as ‘Feminist’.

Think about that. The Percentage of women who want to be tied up at sex is DOUBLE those that say they are feminist – and there will be overlap between those groups. This lads, is why we say: “Don’t listen to what they SAY, watch what they DO.” If you create an environment where a woman feels like she won’t be judged for having “perverted” fantasies, you can get to tell you all of her secret, greasy little perverted fantasies, and then get to act them out.

Every woman has an inner slut that wants to come out. The more a man makes her confront her own sexuality, the more likely she is to let the slut out. And by “slut” in this context, I don’t mean “Got White Girl Wasted, and gangbanged by 7 guys in the living room at a party”, I mean as a vibrant, sexual creature for that man. This is another reason that women go for “bad boys” – the Cult of the Good Girl is restrictive and doesn’t let them express their sexuality. She wants to get her ya-yas out with someone, and why should not that someone be YOU?

A Wolf in Wolf’s Clothing

I have written about keeping a “mildly subversive” vibe, and I will sometimes describe myself to women as a “Wolf in Wolf’s Clothing” in that I’m up front about my views on sexual politics, and that I like what I like. I get women talking about liking to be tied up and I make them think it was their idea. A woman once told me that meeting me was like meeting the Devil, because she felt like I could see right through her façade and knew the truth of her underneath – I could, of course. Once you can see the Matrix everything becomes clear – but what I told her was “The Devil knows his own,” which confirmed in her mind that she was exposed.

And she was.

But what did I see? All her dirty thoughts. So I reeled her in, gently cupping her right cheek in my left hand, I told her, “You’re going to do everything I want you to do.” This simultaneously offered a bit of comfort (and kino) but also set expectations (“we’re going to fuck how I want”) and took away “responsibility” from her (“everything I want you to do.”)

When giving the “elevator” speech, after telling a girl that I like co-rec volley ball and playing music, I will end with “and I’m a bit kinky.” or “I’m a bit wicked.” Leave the door open for them a bit. Give them space to let the hamster take the bait.

And so, younglings, as you go out into the world, understand that even good girls want to be bad girls. It’s much more fun. If you create a space where a woman can safely express her sexuality, you will be a happy man. As I have also mentioned in the past, I will hint at “exposure” of good girls being bad - “Look at you tied up and begging to be fucked…what would your friends and co-workers think?”3 But you never actually do that. You never expose her secrets, you simply walk her up to the edge of the cliff and let her have the vicarious thrill of looking over the edge.

Takeaways

-Men and women are not Identical.

-Even Good Girls want to be Bad Girls

-Create an environment where women can feel safe about expressing their Sexy Dirty Fantasies, and you will reap the rewards.

1 Ofc, from a political point of view, what the ¡Feministas! really intend is not "F=M", they mean "F>M". They got too much mission creep mixed in with their equalism.

2 We will still get to do the yardwork in a Zombie Apocalypse scenario. I do wonder, in all of those zombie movies and tv shows, who exactly the fuck is mowing the lawns? That would go to the very bottom of my list of priorities.

3 Her friends and co-workers want to get tied up and fucked, too, ofc.