There are plenty of reasons why being cheated on shouldn't anger you. The most important of these reasons being that a woman should never have power over your emotional control.
One foundational aspect of frame is that no external circumstances should affect your internal valuation of yourself. In other words, you are not in control of what happens to you, but you are in control of how you respond to it -- you are in control of a situation because it happens within your frame of interpretation and response. Even when cheated on, you are still in control because you have the almighty power of walking away and moving on.
My favorite example of this is the Dirty Sheets story, which you can find on the top all time posts or using the search bar for TheRedPill.
Another reason why being cheated on shouldn't anger you is because you now have an opportunity to reflect and evaluate yourself.
Maybe you didn't see the warning signs. Maybe you saw the red flags and chose to ignore them. Maybe she places herself in situations that could lead to cheating on you and you didnt put her in check. Maybe you adopted an alpha persona long enough to attract women, found one you really liked, then skipped back into beta la-la land with rainbows and lepricons. Maybe shes an experienced con-artsist who puts on the loyal devoted dream girl charade and you fell for it. Maybe you did mostly everything right and she was just a sexually irresponsible BPD sleeper agent who sucks dick at the slightest sign of positive attention.
Whatever the case for being cheated on is, use this as an opportunity to not repeat your mistake.
My personal favorite reason why you shouldn't let cheating draw an emotional response from you is because that's not only what a woman expects, but its what she wants.
She wants you to fly into a rage and throw glass at the wall. She wants to watch your shattered hearted self scream in emotional agony at her. She wants to cry and play the victim, then coax you into working things out and trying again with her, since this time it will be different. And when she cheats again she wants it to ruin and destroy you. She wants all of these reactions because it validates the power and control her sex has over you.
Fuck. That. Shit.
If her cheating on you doesnt illicit an emotional response, you've shown her and yourself that her sex cannot control you.
When I was 14 I got cheated on and played the raging fool. Then I matured and learned better. Years later, I was cheated on again. When I found out there was no goodbyes, no breakup speech, just black nothingness. As she called and texted me, i ignored her until she gave up. 3 months later I receive a bizarre text: "can we at least still have sex?"
"Who is this?" I texted back.
She called me and yelled about deleting her number, forgetting about her, then I just laughed and said "damn I'm sorry about your situation but you have the wrong number my friend."
She mumbled my name as I hung up.
A woman that cheats on you doesn't exist anymore. The first rule of war is to dehumanize your adversary, and a cheating woman has proven herself to be an enemy of you and your interests.
The simplest reason why you shouldn't care about being cheated on is because this world doesn't make any fucking sense.
There are blue pilled beta nobodies who don't get cheated on. There are red pill alpha celebrites who get cheated on (and I'm not talking about will Smith here.) Just laugh at this absurdity of life as you should with the rest. If I ever get cheated on in the future I will probably just start laughing and say "whoopsie" as I block her.
My final reason why you shouldn't let being cheated on ruin your day is because women don't even see sex in the same light as us men.
You might have heard this before, "why are you breaking up with me, all we did was have sex, its not like it meant anything!!"
That is the opening stanza to the cheaters national anthem, and is a glimmering diamond in the rough of a woman's psyche that explains how they view sex.
If a woman is not influenced by tradition, or worse, instead influenced by degenerate society, like most modern women if not all western women, then she will see sex as a pass time activity, a fleeting pleasure meant to be partaken in, to quench a lust desire or instinct, then forgotten about, until the next urge proves itself irresistible.
Women say "it was only just sex" because that's what works on them. Women have a habit of trying to use our own sexual strategies against us because in their solipsism they think what works on them works on everybody. Women get mad when men emotionally cheat. If you're alpha you can bang as many girls as you want as long as your main girl knows shes special above the rest.
So it was only just sex could imply it wasn't you who was unattractive, but rather he was attractive too. She saw an opportunity and took it. Women let the emotions and feelings of the moment override any semblance of logic they have, then they "accidentally sit on someone else's dick", and forget about it even happening, only choosing to rationalize their decision if they get caught.
Women say it was only sex because sex doesn't mean anything to them, or at least what it means to us men. Women have all these mysterious criterion for what constitutes sex and cheating. For example she didn't cheat on you because she only sucked his cock or did anal with him while you are the only one to get her vagina. Getting gangbanged only counts as one notch rather than 17. Et cetera. Knowing womens twisted interpretation of why they can justify cheating with "it was only sex" shouldnt make you angry. It should make you laugh.
Now you know all about why you shouldn't let getting cheated on ruin your life.
When your helpless friend gets cheated on for the umpteenth time, and calls you with depression on his mind, a gun to his temple, and vodka on his breath, be a light shinning in his darkness and pass along just one of these lessons to him.
Stay blessed.
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