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Escalation Techniques Which Could Save One Years.

March 31, 2021
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Just today, I accomplished what I had once thought of as the near-impossible; lost my virginity. After tons of flakes, phone calls, texts, and matches with multiple women, I was able to land this one chick. Sure, I had been lifting. Sure, I bought some money and spent well on drip to match. But at the root of it, there were problems besides sex that were rooted in me; some I hadn’t fixed until months or weeks prior to the linkup, and some things I realized mere minutes prior. Here are the things that young men struggling with escalation need to realize and fix:

There is no ‘other time’. Often times we think we should ‘take things slowly’ as a buffer for rejection, saying: “It’s fine, there’s always a next time.” She will never forgive you for being a pussy, and life won’t either. Maybe her ex texted her back, maybe she’s moving tomorrow, there are no guarantees.

There is no ‘seduction’. It’s no mere theory that men need a certain amount of persuasiveness, or ‘game’ to get pussy, but this isn’t applicable for a hookup. I would waste time trying to get to know her, and game this bitch like I’m about to marry her; fellas, remember that you got this. She wants to fuck too, but she ain’t tryna make herself easy and available. This is why she’s putting up this show. As long as you’re the same guy as you were thru text or in person, you don’t have to outperform to get the pussy. Be minimal.

Make it clear what you want. Another buffer for rejection, dudes will often act as though they’re not trying to get sex, as some runaround way of showing her they’re not only there for sex. Buddy, she only wants you for dick; drop it off and close up shop, don’t ever deny your desires.

Set rules Don’t settle for less than you expected. Catfish? No niceties involved. Blocked. Genuinely disrespectful? Leave. NDTF? Boot her. Set your rules, and stand by them because you deserve it.

Be persistent. As I mentioned in one of the other points, the dog-and-pony show she puts up isn’t to make your life hard, but to validate her anti-sluttiness. The ASD will kick, but don’t kick back. Don’t be discouraged, just think that she’s playing her little role well. Don’t try harder, just retry. At the 2nd or 3rd try, she will most definitely be dtf. Seize your opportunity here. Most importantly, don’t even appear to be upset, or quiet. She may give you the excuse of her ex, her parents, her damn dog as a reason to not wanna fuck, but don’t even let her finish the sentence. Just segue: “So what you think about the Raptors game?” Remember, it’s a game. Let her play her little role, when you strip the panties down and the pussy is shaved, you’ll know for a fact that she was expecting you.

Don’t overthink it. Remember buddy, you got this.

I wanna thank redditor u/ForeverKarlMalone for inspiring me to write this. I may have not formatted it well or written as deeply as the rest of y’all, I hope you guys enjoy my perspective of knowledge and give me some advice where it’s due.

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Title Escalation Techniques Which Could Save One Years.
Author spliferoooo
Upvotes 17
Comments 11
Date March 31, 2021 8:47 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]Hard_Thruster 41 points42 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

And people wonder why this subreddit is seen as a joke.

My man lost his virginity and is now giving tips and recommendations, unbelievable.

I truly am at lost for words. Bro, you stuck your dick in a vagina, there is nothing accomplishing about it, it's not worthy of a speech. If you have to give tips and speeches after losing your virginity it's no surprise it took you so long.

[–]travellingsomewhere1 9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Make it clear what you want. Another buffer for rejection, dudes will often act as though they’re not trying to get sex, as some runaround way of showing her they’re not only there for sex. Buddy, she only wants you for dick; drop it off and close up shop, don’t ever deny your desires.

Seems like no one in the redpill can really agree on this subject, some swear by being super direct and telling the girl all you want is sex and some swear by being indirect and implying your intentions. In other words one is a caveman approach that will trigger her ASD and scare off girls that would've fucked you if you just were a little less explicit and the other one is a pussy approach for cowards that will lose time and energy dealing with timewasters and attention whores.

And it all depends on different factors like culture, age, environment and mood. Alan roger curries swears by 100% direct approach but his experience is from being a black man in big liberal cities, the same shit doesn't work that well in other places with different cultures like Latin American countries for example.

Nothing is set in stone, I say test the waters with every woman and go as direct as you can without triggering her ASD.

[–]reigorius 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seems like no one in the redpill can really agree on this subject, some swear by being super direct and telling the girl all you want is sex and some swear by being indirect and implying your intentions.

I like to be reactive in this. Whatever her ears want to hear (women usually smash your face with it), I'll say whatever it takes to get my hands filled with boobies, unless she says some weird shit I don't stand for. Than I'm out. But if she's nice and puts up a token resistance, which most of them do, it's a go from mission control.

It basically boils down to how far she is willing to let go and how quickly you are able to escalate & being totally fine if it is date one, two or three. Date four = there has to be some divine reason or otherwise I just focus on the other girls I'm seeing.

And you can reverse it as well. Had a gigantic mismatch date with a fatty feminist (never ever date women from Tinder with only face pictures. Women are expert con-artists, masters of camouflage (like next morning who the fuck are you sensation when her face has worn off)) and definitely not to be trusted until that bra comes off. You should know that we have a very cruel God: saggy, bellybuttonhugging tits at age 20 is just plain evil and a bra is an evil invention.

I'm rambling.

So I just said the opposite of what she wanted to hear. It's a wonderful experience to be that disaster date guy.

[–]spliferoooo -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Couldn’t have said it more. Some girls are harder, some don’t need the coaxing. But ultimately, one should know what to do by instinct once they’re in that situation.

[–]buttgoogler 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

We all appreciate your insights on escalation and shit, but you just lost your virginity (which is a great job btw, no hate), so please, go fuck 100 bitches and then come and tell us what you think.

I got nothing against newbies giving advice after minor (or major) achievements, but for the love of god don't go all pua sensei after you just get your willy sucked for the first time.

[–]spliferoooo 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks, maybe next time I’ll strictly post only for more major events. Tbf was feeling a lil gassed at the time writing it lmao.

[–]plandemic1337 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Don't get the hate. All you said is correct. Trp is about sexual success, so gtfo if you think otherwise.

[–]PiperBigBell 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because most of it reads like regurgitated and recycled Red Pill articles. That, and shouldn't take advice from people who just lost their v card. Reading this sounds like it's not genuine wisdom from hard work, but stuff he's heard. Oh, and none of these are escalation techniques.

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