Every Bitch is a Movie Star

JedYorks · 2020-07-30T21:44:02+00:00

If the bitch wants a movie, it’s going to be a comedy

drsherbert · 2020-07-30T22:19:40+00:00

Don’t be so serious all the time. Turn up the douchbaggery when you need to, just don’t be a bitch and don’t let the joke be on you.

sowhattwenty20 · 2020-07-31T02:14:31+00:00

Great metaphor. For the girls who post on Instagram, you can see the stories they are telling themselves and want to present to the world laid bare.

I know many chicks, like my peach of an ex-wife, who start making scrapbooks with wedding ideas at a young age. They get fed the Disney princess bullsh*t and eat it right up.

Most don't lose this dream, even though they may put on a superficial, feminist front. Get her feeling like she's in a rom-com, except be the Alpha male lead, not like the Beta characters the movie studios sell us.

EvelynnSpoiler · 2020-07-30T23:26:49+00:00

I'm at the point where I'm really struggling to not be a permanent asshole to women.

The idea that almost any woman is capable of cheating when her mood goes tits-up, makes me very uncomfortable.

Before I deleted social media, many of the girls that would always watch my stories had boyfriends. Even the most goodie-goodie girl I know began throwing DMs and sent sexting messages.

When I called her out on it, she said she was going through a rough-patch.

In a woman's mind, being in a bad mood is a reasonable justification, and this, as a man is something I cannot wrap my head around.

It scares the fuck out of me because I actually want a wife & kids

3xchar · 2020-07-30T23:40:32+00:00

I'd say the more feminine someone is the more they care about "Image" instead of "reality".

Many modern guys act like this too. They believe they're in a movie. For men it relates in the fact that they don't have to put the work in and, that all they need is a "movie montage" to learn kung-fu.

They watch so much Blue-pill media that they believe that is what life is suppose to be like.

They are intimating reality.

The pictures on the social media mean more then the actual reality. For the pictures are the frame by frame of the screenplay.

American psycho captures this concept perfectly.

"...inside doesn't matter"

HorvathRed · 2020-07-30T22:22:33+00:00

" That's why feelz are so useful. By channeling emotion, you can manipulate and control the situation. She's bitching about her coworker? "Yeah, that bitch Kathy SUCKS! I bet she dresses like shit, too." Now, instead of listening to 20 minutes of bullshit, you've revved up her feelz and she gets it out of her system faster.

Same with a girl you approach - "I saw you getting really animated from over there. What got you so riled up?" once she gets back into the high emotional state, you coast on it. Relate to that experience at the same energy level she was bringing. Suddenly, she'll feel that mysterious "connection" starting to form. It's all feelz. "

This style of game works and I've used it in the past, but the problem with riding her own emotional state so much is that your frame is very fragile; you're literally coasting on manipulating her energy into attraction. It can be effective but it's also borderline blue pill, pedestalizing game and can backfire / negate attraction when overdone.

Nowadays I rely a lot more on teasing them on their "whining" and overly excited attitudes with tongue in cheek approaches and it's less exhausting because it feels less like bullshit (as if we really care), and it actually displays high value when you have decent game and aren't a social retard. It spikes attraction in its own way, if she finds you at least somewhat attractive from the get-go.

BitchesBrew_MF · 2020-07-31T12:59:19+00:00

Patrice O’Neal was the G. To the youngins who haven’t listened to the Black Philip Show, I implore you to take a listen.

As Patrice pointed out, women think of themselves as the director, producer, and lead actress of their life as a movie. If you can work with that and manipulate it to your liking then you’ve got gravy coming.

no_regret20 · 2020-07-31T21:00:54+00:00

Reality is you don’t need to generate all those cheesy emotions on her to get her hooked into you. I’ve meet many dudes who were real assholes to them, they would treat them like garbage and they would open their legs for them.

There’s 243 guys out there giving her laughs, excitement and telling them exciting histories already. Women are getting tons and tons of these emotions 24/7, don’t fool yourself buddy.

That’s why you want her to at least hate you/ think your an asshole or get her mad at you first, they never experience that on the daily basis, and they know that. Hate and love are the strongest passionate emotions out there, love they get it everywhere(family,friends, Instagram followers, male friends etc etc) but this muscle head guy who is a total jerk to and treats her like a complete cum slut shows up, ohh she hates his guts, she will talk shit about him for hours, but you know what?? She will be sucking his cock 2 hours later. Women want to feel vulnerable and feminine when it comes to dealing with men. They ones who get it are the ones who take the pussy, funny thing they do it unconsciously.

Feminine literature isn’t wrong, they get wet for the hyper masculine figure, the total sexist asshole, because they know those type of males are in extinction. I’ve lived in 4 different countries and the same scenario repeats again and again. Just be a fucking man all the way and don’t care about them, treat them like women and you’ll succeed.

muff_marauder · 2020-07-31T01:04:46+00:00

This is spot-on.

I've always joked that women either hate you or don't notice you at all, so it's better to be hated.

BurningOrangeHeaven · 2020-07-31T01:26:05+00:00

Not really a woman only thing, most people think they are the main character

zephenrage · 2020-07-31T02:32:39+00:00

Dude, you nailed it here! A number of years ago we had a woman that worked at my company and she was always causing drama and making scenes around the work place. One time someone asked why she always has to be like that. I told them that she is the star of a movie in her own head and every time she causes a scene the imaginary audience watching her life on the silver screen applauds her. Every single person there agreed with me.

BIGFACTS98 · 2020-07-30T23:11:48+00:00

My boy who introduced me to game used to say he could fuck my ex if he wanted to and I never took him seriously cause I’m taller, more masculine physique, less body fat and better looking and she was head over heels for me

We later broke up cause I had a lot of insecurities involving her and our history which made it very hard to be vulnerable or develop trust with her. (was beta in her mind first couple years of HS and she treated me like shit until my homey mentioned above put me on to game.)

after some months of deep introspection and a copious amounts of drug use I realized this and began the process of overcoming the insecurities and repressed resentment towards her for how she treated me

Now I wanted to try again from a fresh slate

I had to learn how to get a girl who wasn’t at all emotionally invested and now completely detached from the relationship to start having feelings for me again by means necessary

I learned very quickly that ANY emotion from a woman is better than no emotion

it dawned on me that in HS when we would all sit at lunch together (post her treating me like shit) my homey could always get on her nerves

they never fucked (at least not to my knowledge) but now I understood what he meant

He doesn’t have to be tall, good looking, or in shape if he can get her emotional, because once she’s emotionally invested it’s your game to lose

2020-07-31T00:48:22+00:00

She might hate his guts, but immediately gets a dopamine rush when her phone buzzes and it's him. Feelz are highly addictive.

You're about to make some poor soul DM a oneitis or ex lmao

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-08-02T00:59:39+00:00

When I lived in nyc, I told girls to meet me under the clock at Grand Central Station.

This, much like the clock, is Solid Gold. Excellent usage at "creating a narrative" as I say.

The bar at the Hôtel Plaza Athénée, or the Algonquin depending on a girl's preferences in pop or literary culture would also do.

bharath_cr7 · 2020-07-31T05:06:01+00:00

After I read this, the only thing I can say is - it's showtime, baby.

Fulp_Piction · 2020-07-31T12:24:09+00:00

People confuse holding frame with being serious, stoic, unemotional. That'll work with low self esteem girls who are dying for your validation but, as you say, it's no fun.

Holding frame is just maintaining your emotional state. Greene talks about not letting yourself be overcome by 'viral' emotions. Don't let her, or anyone else's emotions become your emotions.

Also, there's plenty of his laws that deal with letting people use their imagination to your advantage. The cult following, creating spectacles, being a mirror, assume formlessness. Roissy talks about frolicking in the sea of emotions, but being an oak tree for her to shelter under in the storm of her emotions.

TLDR: This post is legit, feelz before realz, read Robert Greene.

Andgelyo · 2020-07-31T01:31:25+00:00

Being a “playful asshole” as most women have described to me works fairly well.

0ggles · 2020-07-31T01:34:36+00:00

Girls just want a romantic story to tell. If you do not look like the leading role, well on to the next.

SpamFilterHatesMe · 2020-07-31T00:11:11+00:00

girls are not looking for clowns, being aloof and having fun has nothing to do with being a jester that would spill out straight nonsense

you might be somewhat entertaining for a short time, but none of that time would make a women wet, and after you’ll just be tiring cause you’re still needy by default 'cause you still hopefully want to fuck her and need something from her

talk in a way that it’s not a big deal if you get rejected or not, but you don’t need to make a fool out of yourself just to have a funny role in her movie

and btw, whenever you got yourself thinking it’s about her movie, you’re willingly entering her frame

go do your own thing, relax and have fun, whatever you’re trying to act it’s still an act and by default worse than real authentic you

vwowv · 2020-07-30T22:59:58+00:00

You are confusing my internal language. What you just spoke about I refer as 'the rollercoaster.' Women want a feelzy emotional rollercoaster ride. You have to give them one.

When I refer to women as 'movie stars' I'm saying they dress top notch, walk around with proud heads, and use their cell phones on the street, every call thought of as a big deal, and every one around them (mostly men) are below them. I'll say to my LTR, "look another movie star" referring to a pampered nobody whom carries herself like a movie star.

That said, yeah. I agree with all you said.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2020-07-31T02:32:50+00:00

This is absolutely true.

In no way am I disagreeing with you, but I like Omlala's explanation of how women see emotions.

They are always looking for sources to fill her emotional needs.

They definitely asseses the world by what emotions they attribute to things.

Does she see you as a source of excitement, lust, intrigue, fun?

Does she see you as a provider, stability, validation, consistency?

Does she see you as weird, awkward, gross etc.

There is a distinct different in how he explains it.

Think of the emotions you OFFER rather than directly trying to spike or control her emotions.

It's important, because you can't actually control someone's emotions. A lot of spergs and autists will end up over doing it and just be weird.

So I find it easier to think about the emotional package I might presents rather than DIRECTLY trying to control her emotions.

Not sure of that makes sense. There is something important in recognizing that you can't directly control how someone feels. Least a guy ends up this weird dancing monkey trying way too hard for her to get an emotional spike with everything he does.

GuyWithAnAngel · 2020-07-31T14:24:00+00:00

This post explains a lot and I had never thought of it to that level. Thanks for posting this!

Shaqs_foot · 2020-08-01T20:04:39+00:00

Sounds like entering her frame to me. Why do I care about how she looks in her stupid fake movie? I'm focused on bettering myself and being better than yesterday yet I'm supposed worry about how a girl feels in her life? I don't know man this screams dancing monkey try hard. Most guys won't be able to pull this off nor should they.

LiveAFTSOV · 2020-07-31T19:40:28+00:00

Relevant Facebook whorer story I just read from one of my acquaintances...

Was just remembering something a few hours ago that I'd actually forgotten about.

I'm sitting in a fast food restaurant, next to a guy I couldn't stand. Didn't have the heart to break up with him yet but wanted to. Meanwhile, there's the guy friend across from me. While I'm sitting there, trying to get my bf to stop clinging to me like Velcro, this other guy and I are stealing glances and smiles at each other.

It was very romance novel.

That guy, I kept smiling at, mere days after that became my boyfriend and later, my husband. Sure, we've had our ups and downs but we've always known that we belong together.

When things get tough, you fix it, not throw it away. Love CAN conquer all if you put in the work to back it. :)

Jason X I love you!

As pointed out by Osiris in another comment, she is so unaware by saying "she wanted to break up with boyfriend," then says "if something is broke it fix it not throw it away!"

To tie it back to itiswr1tten's point, notice how in her story she is the female protagonist of the romance novel that is her life.

Red pill theory confirms itself everyday.

Bobbybouche1501 · 2020-07-31T02:56:55+00:00

Lol how does one work on not being emotionally disconnected? I feel like this might be me...

moxiecalc · 2020-07-31T16:57:49+00:00

Ugh. As a New Yorker who has been asked to meet at the clock more times than I can count by friends or family members upon their arrival to the city, it is NOT a cute date spot. It’s loud, crowded, disorienting, and the clock’s building is CIRCULAR, ffs. I’ve been waiting on one side while the person I was meant to meet was around the other side for upwards of 10 minutes since we came from different entrances to the concourse. Then you have to leave directly from there because there is nothing even mildly inexpensive to eat or do around Grand Central unless you want to hop on the subway with your date and go somewhere else. Which I’m sure is “totes romantic” with the garbage wind from the subway blowing up your date’s skirt. Just yuck. I sincerely hope OP no longer lives in NYC so he can’t pull this shit anymore.

ex_addict_bro · 2020-08-01T22:39:50+00:00

This probably deservers its own post, but a woman round here driven straight under a running train because before road pass the train slowed down and made noise SO SHE THOUGHT THE TRAIN IS GIVING HER WAY.

That's the solipsism.

Mobsolidsnake · 2020-08-02T00:18:50+00:00

Have u even read the sidebar? I am talking about 1%. U must become 1%. And she must be 1% who is not about “getting away” with it. Her worry will only be; I want a LTR Alpha.

sowhattwenty20 · 2020-08-07T08:11:32+00:00

I’d try to shoot for increased visitation before the 50/50 custody, but in any case, keep being a good example.

itiswr1tten · 2020-07-30T22:48:26+00:00

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Legatti · 2020-07-31T06:14:08+00:00

Damn, this sub might actually just be full of assholes. Egg in my face for defending trp, my b.

fuckouttahea · 2020-07-31T01:53:57+00:00

This is probably the realest shit ever wrote saving this one.

ebaymasochist · 2020-07-31T13:52:54+00:00

Same with a girl you approach - ....... Suddenly, she'll feel that mysterious "connection" starting to form. It's all feelz.

So look boys....if you want to get to the next level, just remind yourself - this girl really thinks she's a movie star. Don't let it be PG rated - bring the excitement and feelz, fuck with her head a little, and you'll be amazed how many girls will be obsessed with you.

Just a reminder to guys here that a lot of movies don't have happy endings for women, and they like that now, nihilism, so this applies to the sad ones too. The chicks that post shit like "OF COURSE I would drop a cup of coffee... On a Monday!" And expect people to laugh... And a bunch of other shit of no value but to show how they are the victim of the universe(yet live in safe modern country of opportunities). Yeah they're the star in their movies as well.

How is this good? Because while these (18-28)girls are the main character in their own movie, most of them are still in the first act where they make "mistakes" which means "fucked some jerk"(exactly what she wanted that night). She wants excitement much more than she wants the boring truth. So like OP said, fuck with her head a little bit. Outcome independence is usually this vague concept but this is it in practice- being self amused while talking to her and not caring if she gets frustrated and walks away. PUAs called it 'breaking rapport' aka pushing, and it is crucial for sexual tension and that emotional roller coaster.

What're the traits women are drawn to? Dark triad.. what do psychopaths do? They lie with a straight face. What can be more mysterious than a guy who you never know if he's telling the truth or not? You just met her and owe her absolutely nothing, certainly not the truth. Make some shit up, not to impress her, but to amuse yourself for the next minute. She will either believe you or play along because it is not boring. For example... You have a girl stalking you. Really? No. But she's not going to care if it's true or not because it's fun.

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cafeitalia · 2020-07-31T01:34:55+00:00

Do not revolve your life around her wishes or stardom. That is bs. They will revolve their lives around you instead.

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Fummy · 2020-07-30T23:20:54+00:00

I'd need to have a date before I could try any of these tactics.

Title	Every Bitch is a Movie Star
Author	itiswr1tten
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Comments	156
Date	July 30, 2020 9:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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