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Female Tactics 101

June 17, 2019

Females, possessing little intrinsic value beyond their beauty and child-rearing abilities, have compensated by developing some pretty effective dating tactics. These tactics can be powerful tools in the arsenal of a TRP-aware man.

This is meant to be a quick-and-dirty field guide to said tactics, with some tips for practical implementation sprinkled in. It is by no means an exhaustive list.

  1. The pullback. How she uses it: everything is going great, you are communicating back and forth, and the sex is regular. Then suddenly she stops texting you back right away, seems more distant, and stops making herself available to you. Every single chick will eventually do this, no matter how great things are going or how strong your frame is. Maybe she goes from texting you every morning to texting once a week, or she goes from responding in 5 minutes to responding after an hour. Whatever the specifics are, eventually she will pull back. And you can never point this out or make a big deal about it, because of course she will gaslight you, pretend she's doing nothing different, and you will come across as a needy paranoid bitch. How to respond: you feed her silence with silence. She pulls back, you pull back more. Never acknowledge it, protest it, or complain about it. Use it as an excuse to make yourself less available. How to turn the tables: pull back first. You dont need a reason or an explanation. Drop off the radar for a weekend. Leave her on read for a couple days. Time it so that just when she feels comfortable with you and things are going great, pull back for no reason. Max hamster.

  2. Mystery. How she uses it: women are unknowable, mysterious creatures- at least, that's what she wants you to think. She does things for no reason or explanation, she does not reveal her motives, and she does not telegraph her intentions. How to respond: (1) understand that she is a very simple creature. Just because her behavior is beyond her own understanding does not mean it is mysterious or unknowable. She is a goofy bitch who lives in the moment, operates on her feelings, and is never responsible for anything that she does or that happens to her. There is nothing complex about it. (2) ignore her words altogether and judge her based on her actions. That will eliminate most of the mystery (3) ask questions and pay attention. Women like to play up the feminine mystique, but their weakness is that they cannot for the life of them shut the fuck up. Stay silent and ask questions and eventually she will reveal everything. She can't help it. How to turn the tables: be mysterious. Learn to shut your mouth and hold your tongue. When she asks you a question, give a good answer but never give full disclosure. Never provide more info than you have to. Never announce your interest or motivations. It makes such a difference to a woman HOW you say something. So even if you have something "high-value" to share, never volunteer it up front (this comes across as validation-seeking). Make her work for it. Let it come up naturally and nonchalantly. For example, my social circle includes some minor celebrities. If I tell a girl about them, it may raise my value or it may seem try hard. But if I say nothing of it, and she DISCOVERS this information through her questions and her own feminine intuition, it will pay tenfold. Not only will you seem cool and non-needy, but it also makes her wonder what other cool shit you have going on in your life that she doesnt know about.

  3. Denial of sex. How she uses it: most low value women dont have much to offer beyond their sex, so they like to leverage access to their holes as some kind of incentive or way to lord over you. How to respond: never negotiate for pussy and never beg for it. The best way to respond to a denial of sex is to fuck someone else. Never come across as eager or thirsty or needy. How to turn the tables: next time she is horny, flip the script on her and turn her down. Tell her you dont want to have sex right now. Women love to deny sex, but they dont respond well to being the one denied. It makes her feel even more powerless to you. Try it out.

  4. Gaslighting. How she uses it: you take your girlfriend to a party. While there, you notice that she is talking to other guys, getting a little too close and being a little too friendly with them. On the way home you bring up the flirting, but of course she denies it completely. Not only did she not flirt, but you've been acting really jealous and paranoid lately and she doesnt like it. How to respond: stay emotionally detached. Dont let her see how much of an effect she is having on you. How to turn the tables: you can avoid most explanations by simply refusing to give one and implying that its her fault. Basically any time you screw up, be steadfast in your refusal to accept responsibility or even acknowledge wrongdoing. If she pushes you on it then start getting angry and say "see this is why I can never talk to you" and walk away.

  5. Branch swinging. How she uses it: she's not going to leave a relationship with a decent guy unless she's already got something else lined up. The corollary to this: women always keep their options open and always have a few potential replacements on standby. How to deal with it: abundance motherfucker, do you have it? How to turn the tables: always keep two in the kitty. Keep flirting, keep chatting, keep your options open. Women always have a couple dudes in the background who want to fuck them. Keep a couple chicks in the background who want to fuck you. This will give you the right kind of confidence.

  6. No obligation. How she uses it: no woman feels obligated to give any man pussy. No matter how friendly you are, how many favors you do for her, or how much of your resources, time, and energy you invest in her, she will never feel obligated to give you sex. How to respond: stay single and keep your investment low. You will never feel burned by a chick if you never invest anything in her to begin with. How to turn the tables: start to view your TIME and COMMITMENT with the same value that women view their PUSSY. I owe no female anything. I owe her no time or attention. No matter how much she does for me, no matter how many times she swallows my nut or cooks me breakfast, I feel no obligation to make her my girlfriend or wife. Men do not realize the power we have. Embrace the "new books" standard of zero obligation. Guard your commitment the way chicks guard their pussy from men who are friendzoned.

Good luck fellas

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Title Female Tactics 101
Author chazthundergut
Upvotes 220
Comments 32
Date June 17, 2019 12:03 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit /r/TheRedPill
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[–]PartyDucky45 points46 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, except for point 4)

You should respond to her flirting by doing the same. She obviously left you to go flirt with other men so that she gets you jealous, turn the tables and do the same. Worst case she leaves you for doing that, since she will probably deny flirting, anyway, you can do that as well.

[–]Skeeter_onmyPeter 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. #4 came across as needy and butt-hurt. The rest of it was solid.

[–]Marketing_Baboon9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This part especially:

"Basically any time you screw up, be steadfast in your refusal to accept responsibility or even acknowledge wrongdoing. If she pushes you on it then start getting angry and say "see this is why I can never talk to you" and walk away."

You should always accept responsibility for legitimate wrongdoing. Accepting responsibility is not the same as apologizing or capitulating to demands though. And absolutely never respond emotionally, especially with anger. At times you can show a bit of rage under a mostly calm exterior if she's fucked up particularly bad, but to get outright angry is to drop your frame and enter hers. Don't do that.

[–]TruthSeekingPerson59 points60 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

I think this post is great. I wanted to add to point 4) that if you see her flirting with other men you should just take off. To me that’s a deal breaker. Depending on how you feel you can ghost her or you can go up to her and tell her you’re ready to go. Ask her if she wants to stick around and get an Uber or hitch a ride with someone else. Under no circumstances should you tell her you noticed her flirting with other guys. If you are really tired of her ask one of the dudes she’s flirting with if they can give her a ride home. Roll with whatever they say. Seriously, let her know you care so little about her and think so little about her that you don’t give a fuck if she hitched a ride with someone she just met.

Just throwing that out there. Maybe it’s a little too much scorched earth.

[–]3chazthundergut29 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No I agree with you. But I will tolerate things in a plate that I wouldnt tolerate in an LTR

[–]TruthSeekingPerson20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point. If you’re not committed then it makes no difference so long as you are the one taking her home to plow.

[–]AsianWater 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy Link

Is it possible to be a comfort test? See if you care enough to respond

[–]TruthSeekingPerson4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Yes. I think it’s more of a shit test but it probably depends on the situation. She can see what kind of attention she gets from other guys. I guess the bottom line is if you’re going to be seeing a woman she’s going to be testing you. My suggestion is high risk-high reward: there’s a good chance you don’t see her again, but if she sticks around it’s doubtful she starts chatting up other men again.

[–]j_arbuckle20126 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Your mistake doesn't have anything to do with flirting. Your mistake was treating a plate like a girlfriend.

Going to social events (even if it is just a house party) with a girl on your arm is a girlfriend activity. If she's a plate then the most she gets is Netflix-and-chill/coffee-and-bagels to bookend the night of debauched sex.

[–]Nicolas06310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

+1 Anyway it isn't that well accepted that you bring each time a new girl... People talk and that give you bad rep.

[–]TruthSeekingPerson0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is hypothetical for me. I’m not in that situation anymore but I do agree you shouldn’t be on a date to begin with.

[–]1scissor_me_timbers000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

These retarded modern females need some scorched earth. Seriously, they need to be ripped off their pedestals and have their stupid little realities shattered. Crush the insolent female ego.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon29 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

  1. The pullback. How she uses it: everything is going great, you are communicating back and forth, and the sex is regular....

and similar for:

  1. Denial of sex

Women are fucking psychic in their deployment of this tactic: they do it EXACTLY at the point where you are committing to them and have reduced alternative options. If you stop committing to them (and you keep fucking other women) they don't pull this shit.

It's a shit test for betas, designed to secure her position as in-charge-of-the-relationship-and-you.

[–]Modredpillschool8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a shit test for betas, designed to secure her position as in-charge-of-the-relationship-and-you.

Yup. Means they feel too comfortable. Get them out of the comfort zone.

[–]firahs758 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"So even if you have something "high-value" to share, never volunteer it up front (this comes across as validation-seeking). Make her work for it. Let it come up naturally and nonchalantly."

Wow, I didn't realize that there was anyone left in this country, man or woman (but especially woman), that actually knows how to have a dialogue (ie two-way conversation). The vast majority of people (although women are much worse) are emotionally needy, narcissistic twats that only know how to talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk about themselves. God gave us one mouth and two ears because we are supposed to listen twice as much as we talk. End of rant.

[–]SnivelingCoward1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This really stood out to me too. Its advanced thinking but it made lots of sense to me, instinctively that is.

What made me really think hard about it was how i viewed people who i found out high value things about them behind their backs, it had a tenfold effect. Compared to someone telling you straight up.

[–]McVaghunter5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great awareness of female tactics but not so good "How to deal with them" (except for point 1 and 2).

Denying sex or flirting with other guys in my presence is an immediate hard next, no closure given, and instead of keeping a couple chicks in the background who want to fuck you, I'd keep them in the foreground and enjoy multiple sexual partners. For guarding your commitment, I suggest never committing at all; AWALT, there's no special woman worthy of a different relationship than the rest of your harem.

[–]DancesWithPugs1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This post has too much of: "here's a female mind-game that men should play"

Male humans don't have more intrinsic value than female humans.

[–]pacjax2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I agree with responding to sex denial by having sex with someone else but isnt it always a bad idea to turn down sex?

[–]PrincetonNarcissist 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

No, just the opposite. I’ve never seen a girl’s hamster roll faster than when I’ve turned down sex because I’m “busy.” ^^Busy fucking another bitch

[–]herpaderpadont10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah...it short circuits them.

I have had it dangled in front of my face a couple of times

"Well, maybe we'll just stop having sex then..."

Maybe you'll stop having sex, but I ain't going to.

[–]Protocol_Apollo13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s a very effective tool used SPARINGLY.

If overused, you are just playing a stupid game with a stupid prize

[–]Terdmuffin10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly most girls have never really been denied sex. They think they can't be denied sex. They really don't know how to react to it. They think you couldn't resist. It's not about denying sex, it's about having the ability to.

[–]1sezamus2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh, another list and another repetition... This is a good post, but don't we have it already in the sidebar?

[–]taroopher-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

1)Wow, this is the wrong mindset for sure. Only a looser will NEED her to respond in 5 minutes. I can spend days without talking to my girlfriends.
Can't you see? Women want a man that cares only about his dreams, that's it. She want to have more resources and you are stuck wasting time with her. It's a 100% beta attitude. How can you get more resources if you keep talking bullshit to her the entire day instead of investing in yourself?

2) SHE MUST be mysterious, because if she says the truth, your ego will be so destroyed that you will broke up with her imediately. If she would say the truth, she would say that she is looking for better males to provide for her. She would say that she fucked other guys and she misses it. She would say that she still loves her ex of those alpha guys that don't care for her. So the MUST be a mystery woman, otherwise nobody would stick to her.

3)Denial of sex is fundamental! You need your sex energy to go after your dreams. If you waste your sperm, you will be unmotivated. She is being a great teacher.

4) She talks to other guys because she is poligamic. She wants more guys in her social circle to protect her and provide for her. It's not a test. Gosh, what the fuck, can't you understand what you are seeing with your eyes? She is looking for MORE men. It's her nature and you are repressing her being jealous. Let her be herself. If you don't like, just leave her and invest in yourself, finances health and so on.

5) Wow that's a really fucked up mindset. Why would you invest your time in MORE females? Isn't one boring enough? Focus your time in training your body at the gym, learning new skills, relaxing, investing in your carreer and health. You were born alone and you will die alone. If she wants to monkey branch, just accept. It's their nature.

6) Indeed she has no obligation. She can't be lubricated with a beta male attitude. You want her to force sex with a beta male? This is illusion. If she doesn't want to have sex with you, fuck it, just focus on youtself. You don't need her.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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