I'm happy to present my first ever field report! This one's about some of the things I did to improve my girlfriend's and my sex life together and the results I experienced.

Long story short, when we started our relationship, I discovered that my girlfriend was more sexually experienced than I. This didn't bother me much, outside the bedroom at least, but when it came to sex, I would often get "performance anxiety." We'd still have decent sex, but I found myself constantly worrying that she was satisfied and wasn't comparing myself to anyone from her past. After we finished, I'd usually ask how I did. If at any point during our sex, I lost my hardness, I'd apologize profusely or get really frustrated. She got upset at me after I started making asking how I did a habit.

Eventually, I decided that something needed to be done. I couldn't force my girlfriend to like my performance any more or less than she actually did, despite how badly I wanted to be the best sex she ever had. Instead, I could do everything I could to make myself the best sex she ever had.

I don't remember reading any specific literature, but I started focusing on my core during workouts and practicing kegels. I cut back heavily on the masturbation, especially masturbation to porn. You could say I went on NoFap lite. Didn't cut it out completely, which I felt would be extreme and only cause me to fall off the wagon harder, but I did limit it. However, I'll admit that when I did relapse and watch porn, I studied it. I decided I wouldn't be able to achieve every move I saw in professional porn overnight, but could start incorporating some into my repertoire. Neither of us are into the extremely kinky stuff, like bondage or role playing, but even semi-bluepilled me knew that 95% of girls enjoy rough, hot sex and the other 5 percent are lying. When we started having sex, I had talked about "making love." No, now I wanted to fuck her.

Here's what the biggest change was though. I decided to just stop giving a shit and do what I want during sex. I started calling the shots and telling her what position I wanted to do. During doggystyle, I'd give her ass playful smacks and pull her hair. Nothing too ridiculous, just enough to get her excited. Even if I lost my hardness every once in a while, I wouldn't get upset about it. I'd just say "let's take a break and just make out for a minute" until I got my boner back. She thought nothing of it. In fact, when she lost her wetness or was getting sore and had to stop, she'd apologize to me and say things like "I hope you're not mad at me."

The changes were almost immediate. Because of my working out and increased confidence, I found myself lasting longer. She said as much a couple months ago, saying "many guys would be jealous of your stamina." That really meant a lot to me given the difference in our levels of sexual experience at that point. When we finished, she would ask me if I wanted water, since "you worked up such a sweat from fucking me!" and would even sometimes take her shirt off the ground and wipe me off with it. Soon, she would be the one telling me things like "that was fantastic" when we finished. I didn't even have to ask. Hell, eventually I didn't even feel like I had to ask inside. I knew.

But what caused me to write this field report is what my girlfriend said during sex tonight. She loves to say things like "I love you so much, squarehead93" when we fuck, but tonight she said, "You're so masculine! I love how dominant you are when we have sex. You just do what you want with me." You can't make this stuff up. I almost had to stop from sheer amazement. My discovery of TRP had roughly coincided with the middle of my efforts to improve my sexual performance, and I had read articles and anecdotes posted here about how men should be dominant in bed and make sure they fuck their partners well. I had begun to see with my own eyes the positive results of this. But my girlfriend couldn't have confirmed any more clearly and directly the importance of fucking her like a bad boy and being dominant in the sack and how women desire, no, need this.

The moral of this story isn't "oh good for you, squarehead93, you sex demon!" Like I said, I didn't have ridiculous amounts of sexual experience prior to this. I don't have a huge penis. I consider myself fit, but I certainly don't look like a bodybuilder. I just took a few steps to improve my sexual performance with my girlfriend, motivated by my insecurities arising from her higher level of sexual experience. If I can do this, anyone can.

The other big takeaway from this is just how important it is to practice good, dominant fucking. Deep down, women don't want you to "make love" to them. They want you to fuck them. I'm not some super-alpha. Not by a long shot. I still have a lot of improving to do outside of the bedroom. But becoming far more alpha when it comes to sex in our relationship has worked wonders for me and may have even made up for some of my other shortcomings. Regardless of whether you're here to make sure your plates or FWB's keep on coming back for more, or if you're looking to improve the quality your LTR or marriage and keep your partner happy, don't forget to work on being a man under the sheets!

Cheers, gentlemen!