This is for the low SMV men who are still doubting how attraction works. This website is full of women who became aware of their nature and they're trying to change their instincts but they're failing.
I find the vast, vast, vast majority of men unattractive. Mostly it’s that I don’t have any physical attraction to them, but once in a while (about twice a year if I’m on a lot of dating sites, or once every few years if I’m not), I’ll meet someone I actually think is good looking
Now here you can see it coming from an own woman's words and not just that OKCUPID link, that women do NOT find most men attractive.
although I DO have a high sex drive
Woman has high sex drive, but it doesn't matter if she gets no tingles from a beta wimpy looking chump.
I tend to date cold or unavailable men and then not ask for more and maintain that emotional distance
How could this be, when there's a BB around every corner that's willing to give her commitment at the drop of a hat? She's willing to be with someone who prioritizes other things and could care less if she's gone or not!
essentially, I seem to have been in a habit of avoiding intimacy by going out with people I don’t find attractive, or more often than I’d like to admit, men who I know are gay before I even ask them out…otherwise they’re narcissistic or give mixed messages, or aren’t close in some way etc.
Wait, what.. so she gave up and started dating people she doesn't find attractive (/r/deadbedroom), because in her words.. the ones that attract her are complete douches, and have nothing in common with her? It almost sounds like women don't function the same as men!
Knowing that I have that pattern, I made a promise to myself to pick up on coldness whenever I find someone attractive and to walk away. And that is something I do – I look specifically for empathy. And guess what…on those very rare occasions when the idea of kissing/sleeping with someone is not downright unappealing, they’re cold and narcissistic, and so I walk away.
What, so nice guys aren't attractive? http://gyazo.com/de163597f5fca55349299b6bba4ebd04 She's confused as to why nice guys aren't attractive, she's self-aware that you can't negotiate attraction and that being nice has no impact at all on her.
Now this is where the real trauma starts happening...the comments of women agreeing with her and relating to her problem.
http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/find-men-unattractive-whats-wrong/ It takes an intelligent woman to become self-aware of such an issue.
Years ago, when in a long self imposed dry spell, as I began to think about coming out if it, I realized that I didn’t find most men who I felt were in my league attractive.
Well, shit.
This was a good post for me to read. I too have a similar issue, except that the men that I’m extremely attracted to are always average looking but narcissistic, some have been losers, all of them emotionally immature in many ways idiotic, and yet my father is nothing like that
Sounds like female attraction isn't based on logic?
Then there's the second article. http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/is-there-any-point-in-dating-an-alpha-male/ It's full of women admitting that you can't go wrong with an alpha bucks and that divorce rape is a viable tactic.
If it works out- fine. If it doesn’t work out they are “out of there” which means they get big $$$ which allow them to conduct the rest of their life as they like. No down side except perhaps some short term stress (join the club). A woman may not want to do it more than once though.
Then the final nail in the coffin, women admitting that men who are likely to cheat are more attractive, this is their reasoning. http://gyazo.com/10281900429ab6e3412962cac3dadd8e
http://gyazo.com/ad496876aba55074c712ffc49938a190 http://gyazo.com/9b28c01a960e7f01a61c75acd4a0dea9 ""While I am obviously attracted to that type of man. I am trying to get out of that way of thinking and dating men that put me first. My problem is that chemistry is just not there for me.""
GO READ THE SIDEBAR.
TL;DR Check the screenshots, women are already self-aware they're fucked up when it comes to attraction, they KNOW that they should like betas but they don't. IT IS NOT NEGOTIABLE!
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 97 points98 points99 points (41 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorCopperFox3c 50 points51 points52 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]Johnny10toes 14 points15 points16 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]magus678 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ROIVeritas 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 30 points31 points32 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ROIVeritas 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 9 points10 points11 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1Zanford 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]md6192 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]isthatyourdaughter6 points [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 51 points52 points53 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]isthatyourdaughter12 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 11 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]isthatyourdaughter3 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]sinister_h 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 1 point2 points3 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine -1 points0 points1 point (5 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]RPthrowaway123 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[+]Triglycerine -8 points-7 points-6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]coffee_34 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]coffee_34 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TravellingIndian 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DreamBoatGuy25 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 56 points57 points58 points (19 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]zephyrprime 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]One_friendship_plz[S] 6 points7 points8 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 28 points29 points30 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Black-Pill 1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Black-Pill 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]justmanthings 13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Triglycerine 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 8 points9 points10 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]garlicextract 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]garlicextract 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Isaiah4verse1 8 points9 points10 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon 10 points11 points12 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Isaiah4verse1 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NeoreactionSafe 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]scarletspider3 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Hedphelym1 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ROIVeritas 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Luckyluke23 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Bellum00 5 points5 points5 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]ROIVeritas 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]thedude122487 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]One_friendship_plz[S] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]aazav 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1CowardlyPetrov 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]zephyrprime 1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]One_friendship_plz[S] 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]zephyrprime 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Redpillc0re 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Espada18 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link