This is for the low SMV men who are still doubting how attraction works. This website is full of women who became aware of their nature and they're trying to change their instincts but they're failing.

I find the vast, vast, vast majority of men unattractive. Mostly it’s that I don’t have any physical attraction to them, but once in a while (about twice a year if I’m on a lot of dating sites, or once every few years if I’m not), I’ll meet someone I actually think is good looking

Now here you can see it coming from an own woman's words and not just that OKCUPID link, that women do NOT find most men attractive.

although I DO have a high sex drive

Woman has high sex drive, but it doesn't matter if she gets no tingles from a beta wimpy looking chump.

I tend to date cold or unavailable men and then not ask for more and maintain that emotional distance

How could this be, when there's a BB around every corner that's willing to give her commitment at the drop of a hat? She's willing to be with someone who prioritizes other things and could care less if she's gone or not!

essentially, I seem to have been in a habit of avoiding intimacy by going out with people I don’t find attractive, or more often than I’d like to admit, men who I know are gay before I even ask them out…otherwise they’re narcissistic or give mixed messages, or aren’t close in some way etc.

Wait, what.. so she gave up and started dating people she doesn't find attractive (/r/deadbedroom), because in her words.. the ones that attract her are complete douches, and have nothing in common with her? It almost sounds like women don't function the same as men!

Knowing that I have that pattern, I made a promise to myself to pick up on coldness whenever I find someone attractive and to walk away. And that is something I do – I look specifically for empathy. And guess what…on those very rare occasions when the idea of kissing/sleeping with someone is not downright unappealing, they’re cold and narcissistic, and so I walk away.

What, so nice guys aren't attractive? http://gyazo.com/de163597f5fca55349299b6bba4ebd04 She's confused as to why nice guys aren't attractive, she's self-aware that you can't negotiate attraction and that being nice has no impact at all on her.

Now this is where the real trauma starts happening...the comments of women agreeing with her and relating to her problem.

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/find-men-unattractive-whats-wrong/ It takes an intelligent woman to become self-aware of such an issue.

Years ago, when in a long self imposed dry spell, as I began to think about coming out if it, I realized that I didn’t find most men who I felt were in my league attractive.

Well, shit.

This was a good post for me to read. I too have a similar issue, except that the men that I’m extremely attracted to are always average looking but narcissistic, some have been losers, all of them emotionally immature in many ways idiotic, and yet my father is nothing like that

Sounds like female attraction isn't based on logic?

Then there's the second article. http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/is-there-any-point-in-dating-an-alpha-male/ It's full of women admitting that you can't go wrong with an alpha bucks and that divorce rape is a viable tactic.

If it works out- fine. If it doesn’t work out they are “out of there” which means they get big $$$ which allow them to conduct the rest of their life as they like. No down side except perhaps some short term stress (join the club). A woman may not want to do it more than once though.

Then the final nail in the coffin, women admitting that men who are likely to cheat are more attractive, this is their reasoning. http://gyazo.com/10281900429ab6e3412962cac3dadd8e

http://gyazo.com/ad496876aba55074c712ffc49938a190 http://gyazo.com/9b28c01a960e7f01a61c75acd4a0dea9 ""While I am obviously attracted to that type of man. I am trying to get out of that way of thinking and dating men that put me first. My problem is that chemistry is just not there for me.""

GO READ THE SIDEBAR.

TL;DR Check the screenshots, women are already self-aware they're fucked up when it comes to attraction, they KNOW that they should like betas but they don't. IT IS NOT NEGOTIABLE!