My first FR. It's been 2 years since I applied TRP into my life, and it amazes me how accurate the theory is, and this is yet another date that proves everything I learnt. Shit tests. "LMRs". And more.

Met with this girl (15 y/o) that I (18 y/o) been writing with for the past few days. She was interested, always initiating conversations (even though I didn't have time to reply most of the times), and so on, but she was shy. It took a bit of effort to get her to meet up, and finally she did.

We met at a quiet and beautiful park, and it was a perfect place for a date. I've never been there, so I wanted to explore around and bring her on my journey.

Lesson 1

Girls want guys that lead. A guy that's in charge. They want to join the guy's world. Having the frame that I'm exploring around the park and she's coming with me helped me greatly with attracting her automatically.

Once we met, I said hi in a calm and deep voice, and gave her a strong hug to show off some strength. My goal was to talk about random shit for a short amount of time while showing off seduction through my body language, tone and personality. I was staring deep in her eyes, leading her by her hand around the park, asking her questions and almost saying nothing about myself. Deep and calm voice was important throughout the whole date, even though I was nervous a bit (beta instincts always try to kick in).

Lesson 2

Being mysterious and having that calm and collected personality is a good way to effortlessly attract her. However, you should be doing this for yourself and not to 'attract her'. I don't like to reveal a lot about myself to others, and this works in my favor when dating. Having a calm and collected personality works in your favor in all situations, not just dating.

In my mind, my goal was to explore the park, conversate with her and attempt to escalate and push the boundaries. To show her that I'm not her gay best friend, but a man with sexual desire. We were exploring the park, and she went the other way. I calmly grabbed her hand and told her let's go the other way. Here I demonstrated my leadership while at the same time increasing the physical touch.

Lesson 4

See lesson 1. Always lead. But when you do lead, do it in a calm and relaxed way. There's a difference between someone forcefully leading and someone leading effortlessly because it's what he normally does. Imagine Trump leading a meeting he has with some world leader. He's used to it.

After talking about random shit, she started talking about her new ear rings. I told her to show me them, and when she did, I went in and touched them. Increased the physical touch even more. While doing so, I checked her body language to see if she got uncomfortable. She didn't, but I could see that she was still shy.

While walking around and talking, I was moving her around while holding hands, and made our bodies touch multiple times. I checked her body language when this happened and found out that she was comfortable with it. Escalation increased. Comfortability increased. Mission success. Wasn't a mission after all, just me on my natural state and me as a man with sexual desire.

Lesson 5

Escalating on a date is very important. She should know that you want her sexually. You're not here to be friends and have a chat. You're there because you want to fuck her, and your non-verbal communication should indicate this to her. 99% of guys hide their sexual desire, and this is why they get friend-zoned. They treat the girl like a friend, not like a romantic partner.

Here comes the shit test. It was completely unexpected of her because we were having a very good time. She was laughing at everything I said, and was staring at me with desire. Then out of nowhere while holding hands, she pulls my hand up to me and says...

"Haha your hands are so small!" with a surprised and laughing face.

Beta me would've defended myself and attempted to resolve 'the conflict' with logic.

"Well, people are born like that and there's nothing they can do. What is important is how they live with it. Should they cry about it? No, they should be confident about it and own it."

This is what I actually replied to her:

"I have something else that's bigger." with the same face expression as before the shit test.

Lesson 6

No matter how interested she is. No matter how hot you are. No matter if you've been together for 40 years. Shit tests ALWAYS happen, and they like to happen unexpectedly.

Best way to pass them is self-improvement. When you know you own the world, nothing can faze you.

She noticed I wasn't fazed by her shit-test, so she decided to repeat it multiple times.

While walking and talking, she did the same shit-test and said the same shit. She showed me my hands right to my face and told me how small they are. She put her hand next to it and said that hers are bigger. I was literally laughing at her when she did so, because her attempt to faze me was ridiculous. Told her:

"What else do you have that is bigger?" while staring her deep in the eyes, unfazed. She had huge breasts so this was the perfect reply to increase sexual tension.

Anyways, moving on. It's been about 30 minutes, and I noticed that the opportunity to kiss was there. I stopped her and told her to look me in the eyes. She knew I was going to go for the kiss, and she was very shy. She wanted to stare at me, but always broke the eye contact immediatelly due to shyness.

Eventually, she did stare, and she asked me "What do you want to do?". I didn't react or respond anything, and after 10 seconds of just staring, I went in for the kiss and she went in too.

I broke the kiss after about 5 seconds and continued to walk, leading her more. After a minute of walking, I made out with her again - this time a bit more aggressive. My goal was to escalate.

Lesson 7

Escalation. Sexual desire. Showing her you're not androgynous, but a male filled with testosterone.

The next time we made out, I put my hand on her neck, and then behind her hair. I grabbed her hair a bit - to demonstrate my roughness. I put my other hand above her chest, not on her breast, but right above it. I wanted to see if she'll be fine with it, and she was.

After more kissing, I slowly pulled my hand down towards her breast. She stopped the kiss and said "no no no no" while smiling and pulling my hand away from her breast. Aka "denying" my attempt to touch her breast. I didn't react, continued walking. 2 minutes later of talking and walking, I went in for the kiss again and this time I put my hand on her breast again. She didn't say anything. I started grabbing her breast, and still nothing from her.

Beta me would've apologized and never go for the touch again. After 1 minute of kissing and me playing with her huge breasts, I stopped the make out and continued to walk.

Lesson 8

What she says isn't what she means. Notice how she said no, yet she was fully fine with me grabbing her breasts with both my hands a few minutes later.

Moving on, she had to go home early, so we finally arrived in front of her place, made out one last time and I dropped her home. 2 hours went by and I checked my phone to see a text message from her saying "I loved today. You're such an awesome guy. We should meet again."

Lesson 9

Don't be the first to text her after a first date, unless a few days went by. Abundance mindset.


That's it. I'm still reading on TRP and if there's anything in my story or lessons that I could've done differently, let me know.

Last thing, I'm aware of age of consent, which is 15 in my country. Fuck what society says about our age difference. If she likes me and I like her, and it's legal, it's fine.

Cheers.