TL;DR: Outcome independence, IDGAF, and dread pull my uninterested date into a threesome with me and her friend.

I want to preface this by saying this all happened before I had actually swallowed the pill, but that just shows me how real this stuff is outside the context of learning and reading on here. I'm writing this up at the request of /u/yumyumgivemesome.

Cue. I'm in recovery, and 99/100 times I would never go for anyone in the rooms. Chicks have it rougher in addiction, and as such they usually end up pretty messed up on the other side. But I'm at a huge speaker meeting, and there's this cute black chick (HB7.5) eyeing me outside before the meeting. I think I was wearing an infinity scarf, which must've been my white kryptonite to this chick. I don't pull anything fancy at this point, I just catch her after the meeting and grab her number.

However longer later, I offer a date. So I pick her up, not expecting anything. I'm teasing her, yada yada, but the whole time I'm expecting to go home alone after because this is a first date. We're driving to a karaoke spot and she says she wants to pick up her friend, so I say fuck it, I really have nothing to lose at this point. We pick up her friend, HB7, who's black as well but on the thinner side. HB7.5 was curvier, but a prettier face. HB7 hops in and we roll out.

At this point we're driving to the spot, talking about what we'll be doing tonight. Somehow it gets brought up that there's a strip club near the karaoke place, and I instantly jump on checking that out after. I love me some titties, after all. They were surprisingly down, and I'm feeling good that if anything I'll be seeing some tits tonight.

So we get to the place and it turns out I'm the only one singing. I can sing, but I can never find good songs in the lists. I throw on this and every jaw drops in the place. It was almost awkward, especially considering I walked in with two chicks, but somehow I held frame. From this I've got the white chicks in the place eyeing me, which had to of been some preselection.

So anyways, the HB7.5 isn't drinking, and she ends up sitting on the slot machines basically the whole time. I'm like fuck that, so I start flirting it up with the HB7. More or less I ignored the HB7.5, while the HB7 got toasted on AMFs. Kino, push/pulls, and at this point I can tell she is getting horny. So I decide it's time to move on to the next spot.

We get to the strip club and HB7 is primed. HB7.5 goes straight to the slot machines again, so I turn up the kino with the HB7. We start grinding to the music while the strippers are dancing, and no one is saying anything. At this point HB7.5 starts to catch on that she's out, so she hopped off the machines and grabbed a seat near us. At this point, I'm dirty grinding ghetto booty in the middle of the strip club, with every guy in the place watching me. They hate me, but they love me. And guess what that means to the HB7.5?

So I start to tie her into us dancing, and she's receptive. Then I tell them to dance on each other a little bit, then HB7.5 on me, then both of them on me. This went on for a while, because I really wasn't expecting to be getting any, and I was a-okay with how things were going. Eventually we wind down, and head back out to my car. Still being blue at this point, I'm planning on dropping them off and driving home. But I must've done something right, because HB7.5 asks me, "You like to get freaky?"

Then I knew it was on. So we pull up to her place, all go in. They goes upstairs to freshen up, HB7 comes down in a t-shirt and panties. She's bending over fixing something on the table, and I dig in. HB7.5 walks in on that, and it is go time.

Lessons learned:

Everything I've read here confirms why this night went so well, from clearly not giving a fuck, to having a great time regardless of her.

While plenty of this interaction was red pill, finding this place has allowed me to refine my style in a way I never thought possible.

Sometimes going with the flow can work out. Had I been hell bent on seclusion, this night would have ended completely opposite.